She has a boyfriend, what should I do?

[Pepe Le Pew]

How should I react or what should I do if a girl says she has a boyfriend, but I'm still attracted to her, and want to pursue........also if I think she's lying?

 

[becker]

Go after her anyways, who the heck cares about the BF. Just don't continue the pursuit if it means she will cheat on her BF for you. Do it only if she's willing to dump him for you.

 

[DJ Jeff]

If you think she's lying about having a bf....then i would assume she is not interested. I mean why would she say she did if she was interested in you?

To me girls with bf's are out. I don't really pursue because it can turn into alot of work.

 

[becker]

I agree with DJ Jeff, definitely a red flag if she lies about having a BF. However, I can think of the situation of a girl who is playing serious hard-to-get and taking things to the extreme and saying she has a BF just to make herself seem more desirable, while she's actually interested in you (sort of like an insurance measure). Kind of like how some people on this board may take the whole DJ thing to the extreme and overdo it.

 

[flexion_]

I like Becker's simple advise. I look at women with BFs as future prospects. If she wants both you in her life as BFs then you are just asking for grief, work and pain - been there!

 

[becker]

The trick once you have her torn between 2 guys, one of them being you, is that you make sure that the scales are tipped slightly in your favor, then pull away, making her think about you. Remember, getting her to feel somewhat "confused" about her situation is the hard part. After that, it's downhill.

 

[Legend]

If she says she has a bf...NEXT....if you think she is lieing about having a bf...NEXT.

I have put to much effort to get girls with bfs to cheat with me. The bf will always win over the new guy. You my friend are the new guy.