I'm been sleeping with and starting to build a relationship with this HB. She is the high quality type - good moral grounding, we share the same beliefs etc and she is the type you'd take home to your family etc. We're not in a relationship so there is no commitment but at the same time you'd think there is a type of loyalty between two people like ourselves - especially since she is the nice girl type.
So here is the story:
End of semester, and everyone is getting drunk and partying hard. We all go out for the night and after her looking for me, I walk out of the clubs to go look for her. I messaged her a couple of times but received no reply. Then when I walk out, I see her go in for a quick kiss with another guy. As such I walk away and head home. She chased after me but I did not reply.
She is now blowing up my phone telling me that the guy was a good friend from back home (we are studying interstate) that went in for a kiss on the cheek but ended up hitting the lips. I don't know how to take it. I am not angry at her because I know we are not in a relationship yet I feel my loyalty has been dented. I was dancing with girls, escalating but holding back yet I feel now I should of hooked up with a few of them.
What would you do in this scenario? Do you give her a chance - talk about it? Or do you just keep sleeping with her and not remain committed. I guess I am gutted because my loyalty was just not returned. I've come a long way from being the AFC. Funny though, even if you are now the high quality type even something like this puts a dent in everything.
Note: I'm not after quick PUA hook ups but quality hence my downfall.
So here is the story:
End of semester, and everyone is getting drunk and partying hard. We all go out for the night and after her looking for me, I walk out of the clubs to go look for her. I messaged her a couple of times but received no reply. Then when I walk out, I see her go in for a quick kiss with another guy. As such I walk away and head home. She chased after me but I did not reply.
She is now blowing up my phone telling me that the guy was a good friend from back home (we are studying interstate) that went in for a kiss on the cheek but ended up hitting the lips. I don't know how to take it. I am not angry at her because I know we are not in a relationship yet I feel my loyalty has been dented. I was dancing with girls, escalating but holding back yet I feel now I should of hooked up with a few of them.
What would you do in this scenario? Do you give her a chance - talk about it? Or do you just keep sleeping with her and not remain committed. I guess I am gutted because my loyalty was just not returned. I've come a long way from being the AFC. Funny though, even if you are now the high quality type even something like this puts a dent in everything.
Note: I'm not after quick PUA hook ups but quality hence my downfall.