She finally comes around. Or has she?

[EverSure75]

Good day gentlemen.
I'd love your perspectives on a situation I've found myself in.

I met a woman years ago. Not particularly pretty but an amazing body. We met at a times I had a lot going on. I was in the middle of a court battle and deep in the beta way of life. We went back to her place one night and fooled around. Did everything but have intercourse because I didnt have a condom.
After that night we've met several times while out and she flirted heavily. I made it clear I'd be down to fk but I'm not interested in any kind of relationship. Frankly I didn't even want to court her. Wasn't interested in going out for drinks as she had suggested unless we were going to fk.

She wasn't with it. Over the last few years shed initiate contact and I'd brush it off seeing as no talk of having sex came up.

I live in a relatively small town and one of reasons I didn't actively pursue her was because I found out a woman I really admire from afar is a long time acquaintance of hers. I've never met his acquaintance but I've recently started working with a woman who knows said acquaintance. I haven't asked my coworker yet but I plan to ask her to introduce us.

Now the woman from years ago texts me out the blue last night saying she wants to fk. Told me specifically which two night this week she's available. She said she has decided she wants to fk now and she "has chosen" me. Lol

My dilemma is this. Do I fk old girl or ignore her and wait till I meet the other woman thru my coworker. They know each other and because the place is so small it might ruin my chances with the one I really want.

I'm thinking plates here not a settle down thing with the one I haven't met yet. It's just that they are in the same social circles.

Oh and old girl has in the past spoken like this but then flaked last minute so I'm not even sure if she's serious this time.

What say you, gentlemen?

 

[Thundernuts]

I find it very suspicious that your eyeballing an acquaintance of old girl and all the sudden out of the blue she is DTF. I say don't do it, go for the girl that has your eye now, not the one that gave you the cold shoulder years ago.

 

[kenpiffyjr]

I find it very suspicious that your eyeballing an acquaintance of old girl and all the sudden out of the blue she is DTF. I say don't do it, go for the girl that has your eye now, not the one that gave you the cold shoulder years ago.

Very suspicious!

Women boy I tell ya

 

[Tamura]

Now the woman from years ago texts me out the blue last night saying she wants to fk. Told me specifically which two night this week she's available. She said she has decided she wants to fk now and she "has chosen" me.

Are you available when the princess has choosen you after years? I simply would regard this as an orbit and ignore her, regardless of the other woman you want.

 

[EverSure75]

I agree with you guys. I'm gonna hold off on this woman.

 

[Igetit!]

I find it very suspicious that your eyeballing an acquaintance of old girl and all the sudden out of the blue she is DTF.

True. If I didn't know better,I'd say this chick who claims she's finally ready to have sex with the OP...it's possible that she's somehow became aware of his interest in the other girl. If so,she's probably trying to be mischievous. In other words.....

This chick,the one who's suddenly "come around",if she thinks you want this other girl,her ego is hurt. It's hurt because you have genuine interest in the other girl,while only wanting sex with her. You're willing to invest time and actually pursue the other girl,but won't give this one the time of day unless she opens her legs. So her "sudden interest" in you is merely to massage her ego,BUT ALSO.....she knows that if this friend of hers you have interest in,if she finds out that her and you had something going on...even if it was just a one night stand,it'll DESTROY your chances with the other girl,the one you really want.

She'll essentually be killing two birds with one stone.....her ego will get a temporary fix cause she stole you away from the girl you really want,plus she'll wreck your chances with her in the process. And if she really wants to be cruel (and rejected women can be),she'll have you come over to her place,play games and NOT have sex with you,then let it get out that you came over to her place one night. That way she both deny you the sex you want AND wreck things with the other chick.


Again...this is ONLY if she's aware that you want her friend. You may think all that's over the top...but don't underestimate a scorn/rejected woman.....especially when she's being turned down for another chick she knows.

She said she has decided she wants to fk now

Just all of the sudden,out of the blue. And just "coincidentally" at the same time you have your eye on another chick who she just happens to know.

Uh-huh......