thatfeel
Master Don Juan
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I'm going to make a long story short. My gf drinks every night and it really bothers me. I'm all for consuming alcohol but she does it for all the wrong reasons: stress management, to pass the time, etc. She will never admit to being buzzed or tipsy or close to drunk and she gets very defensive about it when I question her consumption. I'm 100% sure being confrontational or even concerned about it will not be worth it, they say that a person who has alcohol dependence(no matter how mild)will have to come to the conclusion on her own and I doubt that she ever will.. So what would you guys do? Her insecurities come out full force and she projects them onto me after she's been drinking, which really pisses me off, but I stay cool and say **** like "If it helps you sleep", etc. I know she isn't happy at her job but she never takes the time to try and change that.