She drinks 4, sometimes 5 glasses of wine EVERY night. What to do?

[thatfeel]

I'm going to make a long story short. My gf drinks every night and it really bothers me. I'm all for consuming alcohol but she does it for all the wrong reasons: stress management, to pass the time, etc. She will never admit to being buzzed or tipsy or close to drunk and she gets very defensive about it when I question her consumption. I'm 100% sure being confrontational or even concerned about it will not be worth it, they say that a person who has alcohol dependence(no matter how mild)will have to come to the conclusion on her own and I doubt that she ever will.. So what would you guys do? Her insecurities come out full force and she projects them onto me after she's been drinking, which really pisses me off, but I stay cool and say **** like "If it helps you sleep", etc. I know she isn't happy at her job but she never takes the time to try and change that.

 

[adam225]

If you aren't happy with her then you need to move on. It's that simple really.... Don't hold onto someone who is holding you down. I'm pretty sure she wouldn't.

 

[Dgwizdal]

Drink with her and then make it a problem that both of you have - then you can work on it "together"

 

[Bible_Belt]

For some people, the problem with drinking is that it's the only time they say what is really on their mind. If she's constantly denying issues while she's sober, and then they come out when drunk, it's the issues that are the real problem, not the alcohol.

 

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[JoeMarron]

That feel when you realize that thatfeel has been whining about the same old ass chick that he should've dumped ages ago. Dude..stop it. This or any other problem you bring up can't or isn't worth fixing. Leave and find a sane chick that wasn't born four decades ago.

 

[_sideways_]

Alcoholism is no joke. Move on...ur not married. Only the person can help themselves with that issue

 

[jafyk]

Drink 2 of her 5 glasses. That should even things out, lol.

 

[Maximus Rex]

You're a Dumb Eff

When you came up on her drunk a$$ and had her blow you in the middle of the dance floor at the club, then you decided to go to her car with her for anal the back seat on the first night your met her, it was all cool in the game, but now that after a few months in you realize that this b*tch is a drunk, you can't deal with it. GTFOH.

 

[Desdinova]

My last LTR was the same way. It just got worse as time went on and became really noticeable. I mentioned it to her and of course they all give you the same 5hit... "I'm not an alcoholic, I can quit drinking anytime! I just do it (insert excuse here)" If it's bothering you, then you should look for a gf who isn't an alcoholic. There's lots out there to choose from.

 

[Elnihilisto]

I knew a guy who was married with a drinker wife,he had the worst arguments ever.I recommend not having long term plans with her

 

[InnerHappiness]

More than 20 drinks a week is alcoholism. Alcoholism ruins relationships, families and employment. Do you want to get involved in their downward spiral?

She is the chick in Fight Club where the Brad Pitt flushes 20 condoms down the toilet.

I have fvcked women by simply offering them alcohol. Some were in a relationship, but they were the ons that insisted on more drinking. I obliged because it only works in my favor. It's only a matter of time when your GF will come across a guy like me that takes advantage of the situation. Don't hate, at the end of the day, we're all trying to gt our d!cks wet.

Get. Out. Now.

Women with dependencies (like you chick) 4 drinks a night is dependency. Think of your previous relationships. family members, anyone - they round up to alcoholics or alcohol abusers. They are those that get off on guilty pleasures. I have fvcked taken women like this. They are all the same, almost as if alcoholim demands you act that way. It's sad. but they can be easily influenced to take advantage of. If she hasn't cheated on you yet, she will. After all, the alcohol influenced her