sh!t test?

[49au]

Kind of on the fence about how to respond to this girl so any thoughts are appreciated.


cliff notes: smoking hot (easy 9) 22yo, been out with her a couple of times (lots of kino and making out both times), talked on the phone and had some text and email exchanges. Always light/fun/flirty. This is over the course of about 4 weeks. I met her online (she contacted me).

She has showed high IL up to this point. Both of us have been out of town and busy otherwise I think we would've seen each other once or twice more.

Anyway, Friday I contacted her about meeting up early this week, she replied back pretty quickly and suggested something. I said "let's do it" and then made a little joke. No response. She has a good sense of humor so I didn't think I made her mad, but just in case she was PMSing or something I sent a follow up that said "I was just kidding "

Didn't hear anything back all weekend (and I sent nothing further), until this morning when she texts me asking if I have my costume for tomorrow night (a continuation of my joke).

Maybe I'm reading way too much into this, but is it weird that she never confirmed/responded and then texts me a few days later just assuming that we are going out?

I'm about to go out of town again and really would like to see her (hoping I can f*ck her this time) but I'm thinking it would be best to just tell her playfully that I never heard back from her so I made other plans. If she was a 6 and not a 9, I wouldn't even be thinking about it.

Am I thinking about this too much? She is not my only plate but she is definitely the hottest one and I don't want to make things too easy for her.

 

[oneboy21]

Looks like she is spinning plates with another dude or something like that.
May be Emotionally using you when ever she wants you.
be unavailable and act busy

 

[49au]

I have zero doubt she has other plates, don't really have a problem with it as I just met the chick. I have been doing that (unavailable/busy), for example I've never suggested or agreed to see her on a weekend even though she offered. Just curious if I'm going a little too far thinking that I should just tell her I made other plans in this instance.

 

[vatoloco]

Define "a little joke."

 

[Aaron B]

why not have a firm place and time when you invite her to meet up in person?

 

[49au]

The joke was that the place she was inviting me to was a lounge that did a circus freak show on Tuesday nights, I said something like "Let's do it. You'll fit right in " Didn't think it was a big deal, we have teased each other like that since the first meeting and she dishes it out just as much as I do.

Anyway, I went with my gut and told her that I didn't hear back from her so I had made other plans, then said I was free on Thursday if she wanted to do something. The text was humorous and I didn't sound bitter at all. That was last night and she hasn't responded as of yet.

I'm going to Mexico for a great white shark cage dive next week, she's really interested in that so I will stay NC until I get back and then email her some pictures or video from it, to resume contact in an interesting way. If I don't hear anything back I guess I'll just have to write this one off.

Was mainly just trying to get opinions on whether I was wrong to think that she shouldn't have just texted me assuming we were going when she never confirmed with me a few days prior.