Sexual humiliation... living in a vanilla world

[ethnomethodologist]

Hey all, anybody got any experience wth humiliation?

Eerybody loves to see the world peachy keen, rose coloured glasses abound, and good feelings for all. Do you know what we in the secution call these kinds of people, AFC's.

Yes it is tough to feel the pain at any time.

Humiliation, what is it?

Wikipedia says: Humiliation is literally the act of being made humble, or reduced in standing or prestige. However, the term has much in common with the emotion of shame. Humiliation is not in general a pleasant experience, as it reduces the ego.

I believe everything we do in seduction relates to the ego. The go is the ******d expression of our inner beliefs and values. TO manipulate a person,we must manipulate their egos.

Breaking limits, and being humble is a grand value. Humility is at the top of the list for many of our greatest idols. Patience and humility combined create dignity, and a dignified person garners respect from peers and ends long standing conflicts.

 

[shumon]

yo ethno, yep i've been humilated, i was in love with a girl and i told her that i liked her. some days later, she completely humilated me, she called me over to her little corner and had a go at me, completely humilate me, it was in front of a bunch of girls and i was recorded by her mate

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Good stuff!

Did you get all pissed offf and start crying? I would have started crying, crying is good for you. It's like masturbation is good for your prostate gland.

I can imagine the video, your in the corner CRYING your eyes out, while everybody stands around laughing. Kinda reminds me of my little brother, when he dropped his ice cream on the floor, man he whined about it for like two days. Each time I laughed at him for it he came running at me trying to punch me, it was funny cause I didn't touch him at all and he wanted to physically hurt me.

So did the humiliation humble you, or did you continue to act like you loved her without ever experiencing the love of anybody else?

 

[shumon]

Good stuff!

Did you get all pissed offf and start crying? I would have started crying, crying is good for you. It's like masturbation is good for your prostate gland.

I can imagine the video, your in the corner CRYING your eyes out, while everybody stands around laughing. Kinda reminds me of my little brother, when he dropped his ice cream on the floor, man he whined about it for like two days. Each time I laughed at him for it he came running at me trying to punch me, it was funny cause I didn't touch him at all and he wanted to physically hurt me.

So did the humiliation humble you, or did you continue to act like you loved her without ever experiencing the love of anybody else?

lol, just told her off, then moments later, went back when everything was quiet, and calmly told her how she made me felt, then walked away. no1 was laffin as well. still love her.she aint talkin to at the mo.

 

[diablo]

If I had over 1,000 posts and still didn't know the proper section to put a thread, I'd be humiliated.

Moved to AE...

 

[Chillisauce]

Eerybody loves to see the world peachy keen, rose coloured glasses abound, and good feelings for all. Do you know what we in the secution call these kinds of people, AFC's.

As my Canadian brothers love to say.. EEEHH!? . I'm by no means average, fustrated, or a chump but i see the world in a positive way. You dont have to be jaded just because you understand how things really work.. you can take the next step, acceptance.

You'd be suprised how much your view of reality influences reality itself. By having 'rose coloured glasses and good feelings for all' you draw fellow positive thinkers to yourself and generally when people talk to you they will slip into previous ways you have communicated.. which if you were positive comes back.

Back to your humiliation question: Hardest hit i took to my ego was when i was 16 and had my first boxing match. I went into the ring ****y as hell, got knocked out before i even threw a punch (stone cold KO, had no idea where i was or what had happened). Dropped me a good 10 notches of ego haha.