Sex with a virgin

[jobluek]

Hey guys,

I'm fairly inexperienced with sex and just started dating a girl who is a virgin, and was hoping a few of you can help me out.

She's an awesome girlfriend and since this is a new thing, we're really into each other. I try to be open and vocal about sex but she's extremely shy. We've gone down on each other and seem to be pretty compatible. Whenever we're messing around, she soaks her panties before I can even get her pants off.

That being said, she's very nervous about having sex. Things were heating up today and it was about to be game on, but right when I grabbed a condom she instantly went dry and clammed up. She said she wanted to but was just really nervous.

Do you guys have any recommendations on how I can make things smoother? She suggested we have a bottle or two of wine next time she comes over. Anything else I can do or should say to her? Also, I've never had sex with a virgin, is there anything I should expect that doesn't happen with more experienced girls?

I hope that you all can understand that this is a sensitive topic and respond respectfully.

Thank you

 

[Real Talk]

Hey guys,

I'm fairly inexperienced with sex and just started dating a girl who is a virgin, and was hoping a few of you can help me out.

She's an awesome girlfriend and since this is a new thing, we're really into each other. I try to be open and vocal about sex but she's extremely shy. We've gone down on each other and seem to be pretty compatible. Whenever we're messing around, she soaks her panties before I can even get her pants off.

That being said, she's very nervous about having sex. Things were heating up today and it was about to be game on, but right when I grabbed a condom she instantly went dry and clammed up. She said she wanted to but was just really nervous.

Do you guys have any recommendations on how I can make things smoother? She suggested we have a bottle or two of wine next time she comes over. Anything else I can do or should say to her? Also, I've never had sex with a virgin, is there anything I should expect that doesn't happen with more experienced girls?

I hope that you all can understand that this is a sensitive topic and respond respectfully.

Thank you

I've dealt with this before.

Losen her up with the fingers, to the point where she enjoys it when you can thrust away with two.

It might take more than one session for her to loosen up, so just tell her to relax. Its not your D so it won't freak her out if shes comfortable with you.

 

[Falcon25]

I'm going to make this as simple as I can;

Alcohol equals sex
Food equals sleep

Bottle of wine, a movie, and make sure you clean up the blood stains.

 

[Kailex]

Try to be gentle.
Don't rabbit fvck her. It WILL hurt her in some fashion.

And expect it to suck.

Wine is a good solution, but don't go getting drunk.

 

[Sir Psycho Sexy]

You have gotten some pretty good advice. Use lots of foreplay, go slow, and expect some blood.


Your post had some unintentional humor.

We've gone down on each other and seem to be pretty compatible.

Anyone else find this sentence funny? I know what you mean but the way you worded it sounds like its a pleasant and convienent surprise that you have a d1ck and she as a vagina.

She suggested we have a bottle or two of wine next time she comes over.

Thats a good idea but a glass or two will do it

 

[Cry For Love]

yeah easy with the booze it can mess you up(im sure you know )