Sex is powerful

jhonny9546

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We cannot deny that even a mature or experienced man can gain an extra push in life from it.
You see the difference between men who have sex and those who do not.
Men who get regular sex from their women, and men who don't.


It is true that you can become independent from the results, but if you do not have sexual intimacy every now and then, you can really feel unbalanced. I am the first to say it, as I have personally experienced very long periods of abstinence.
Meditation and self-control can help, but nothing gives you that push like good sex.
Nothing makes men feel "stronger" than knowing they can have something regularly. It's especially satisfying if it comes from the woman they desire. Ideally, it's best if the woman they desire also desires them in return.


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This was the case in the beginning of my dating life. I don’t feel that glow that I used to when I see a new woman fall for me or sleep with me anymore.
 

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I went 2 and a half years without once.

That orgasm when I finally broke my dry spell was ecstatic. That was when I was 23.

In the time since then, I haven't ever taken a break that long. Longest break since then was a year and a half (the pandemic). Other than the pandemic, the longest break I've had in the past decade was maybe 5 months or so.
 

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We cannot deny that even a mature or experienced man can gain an extra push in life from it.
You see the difference between men who have sex and those who do not.
Men who get regular sex from their women, and men who don't.


It is true that you can become independent from the results, but if you do not have sexual intimacy every now and then, you can really feel unbalanced. I am the first to say it, as I have personally experienced very long periods of abstinence.
Meditation and self-control can help, but nothing gives you that push like good sex.
Nothing makes men feel "stronger" than knowing they can have something regularly. It's especially satisfying if it comes from the woman they desire. Ideally, it's best if the woman they desire also desires them in return.


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Women and even a chunk of other men despise womanless men. There’s even a poster on here who wants them to drop dead, it seems. And nothing makes a man angrier than lack of a woman. It’s not just about sex.
 

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I get a little cranky when it's been a few weeks without it and love not having to worry about it when I have a FWB or 2.
Regular sex can break the tension, and keep you relaxed. That's why they call it a release. And that relaxed attitude makes it easier to attract women. The last thing a woman wants is a guy who's all tensed up.
 

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This was the case in the beginning of my dating life. I don’t feel that glow that I used to when I see a new woman fall for me or sleep with me anymore.
Agreed. Like everything else in life, it doesn't feel like a big deal after a while.
 

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We cannot deny that even a mature or experienced man can gain an extra push in life from it.
You see the difference between men who have sex and those who do not.
Men who get regular sex from their women, and men who don't.


It is true that you can become independent from the results, but if you do not have sexual intimacy every now and then, you can really feel unbalanced. I am the first to say it, as I have personally experienced very long periods of abstinence.
Meditation and self-control can help, but nothing gives you that push like good sex.
Nothing makes men feel "stronger" than knowing they can have something regularly. It's especially satisfying if it comes from the woman they desire. Ideally, it's best if the woman they desire also desires them in return.


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Absolutely. Even if I don't think about it, even if I fap to "clean the pipes", there is something about having an attractive woman being the agent in cleaning out those pipes (regardless if by vajaya, mouth, hand, or lapdance).
 

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Absolutely. Even if I don't think about it, even if I fap to "clean the pipes", there is something about having an attractive woman being the agent in cleaning out those pipes (regardless if by vajaya, mouth, hand, or lapdance).
That's why I hate it when critics tell me to rely entirely on masturbation.
 

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If the woman is under 30, I will do everything I can for it.

If the woman is over 30, could almost care less.

Generally, how a man acts depends on a woman’s youth.
 
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Depends on your age - when I was below 30 and single I was mostly after sexual experience, not necessarily particular woman.

When you have wife it's different - I can go w/o sex up to two weeks easily - abundance of opportunities to engage makes me less interested in it (which I think is ok as I am much more preoccupied with my work than ever before, no to mention child-related dutios which we try to do together
 

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We cannot deny that even a mature or experienced man can gain an extra push in life from it.

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Men whom are sexually starved or bad with women will feel like its the centre of the universe

Once you've had enough experience with women and a few fvck buddies you realise its really not all that and start viewing it the same as women do which is a very " take it or leave it" attitude

In my 20's I was sex obsessed , now in my 30's I'm not that bothered at all by it
 

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Regular sex can break the tension, and keep you relaxed. That's why they call it a release. And that relaxed attitude makes it easier to attract women. The last thing a woman wants is a guy who's all tensed up.
Yeah, an abundance mindset is a lot easier to maintain when you actually have abundance.
 

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Depends on your age - when I was below 30 and single I was mostly after sexual experience, not necessarily particular woman.

When you have wife it's different - I can go w/o sex up to two weeks easily - abundance of opportunities to engage makes me less interested in it (which I think is ok as I am much more preoccupied with my work than ever before, no to mention child-related dutios which we try to do together
I get what you mean. Back when I was in college, I flipped out if I went 3 weeks without sex (thanks to a combination of a higher sex drive as well as the fact I had no idea where my next lay would come from)

Now that I can get sex on demand any time I want, I can easily go months without.
 
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