I have no trouble lasting long, and I have a good size **** (many times she's told me I'm "pretty big"). I've been told by my girl that I'm a good lover...but for some reason I can't make her *** during intercourse. The only time she can really *** is when I eat her out/finger her or have anal sex with **** stimulation. I can't make her *** with vaginal sex only...Do other men have this problem? I hear that there is a high percentage of women that have hard time achieving orgasms through intercourse, without ****oral stimulation. This is kind of frustrating now because I want to make her ***, not just moan like crazy until I finally *** hahah. Is this a problem?
Sex --- how can I make her ograsm?
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Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
correcto, TizZle
It helps to really warm her up, and work some magic with your hands and/or eat her out first... then she'll be so blissed out it will hardly matter how long you last.
I seem to recall there's some good stuff in the DJ Bible about this. Sir Chancelaot's posts on how to pleasure a gal.
It helps to really warm her up, and work some magic with your hands and/or eat her out first... then she'll be so blissed out it will hardly matter how long you last.
I seem to recall there's some good stuff in the DJ Bible about this. Sir Chancelaot's posts on how to pleasure a gal.
Yeah, he's right. Many girls can only sometimes come (if ever) through simple intercourse.
If you want to keep them happy, you should always make them come.
If you finger or eat them out before intercourse, it has two benefits:
1. They're going to be completely prepared for intercourse physically.
2. Because they've already come, you don't necessarily need to impress them with how long you can go. (In fact, if you take forever--and they know they won't be coming from it--they might just want you to pump them like crazy and get it overwith.)
One thing I like doing is getting in a spoon position and then fingering her to a climax. It's a nice experience, though easier to slip out if she's bucking around. You can kiss her neck and take your time for a simultaneous orgasm.
If you want to keep them happy, you should always make them come.
If you finger or eat them out before intercourse, it has two benefits:
1. They're going to be completely prepared for intercourse physically.
2. Because they've already come, you don't necessarily need to impress them with how long you can go. (In fact, if you take forever--and they know they won't be coming from it--they might just want you to pump them like crazy and get it overwith.)
One thing I like doing is getting in a spoon position and then fingering her to a climax. It's a nice experience, though easier to slip out if she's bucking around. You can kiss her neck and take your time for a simultaneous orgasm.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
With vaginal penetration stimulate her **** with your middle finger loaded with astroglide while your moving in and out of her.
And ask her if your doing it to fast or to hard with the finger. Have her teach you the way SHE likes it done.
And ask her if your doing it to fast or to hard with the finger. Have her teach you the way SHE likes it done.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Moved to Anything Else...
That just means the guys they've been with aren't good at what they do...
seabreeze
Master Don Juan
Well, for women there are two types of orgasm: ****oral and vaginal. Most women under the age of 30 cannot have vaginal orgasms. A woman's body changes over time and the g-spot area gets exposed. this happens mainly after childbirth, so if she's young, vaginal orgasms may not happen for a while. But, in my experience, vaginal o's or g-spot o's are the easiest to have as long as the guy is long enough to hit the spot hard enough. Using your finger is nice, but nothing does it like a rock hard penis. ****oral orgasms are the most pleasurable, but the hardest to attain for a woman. Actually it's just like a little penis, it has to get hard before a woman can have an orgasm. Usually the best way to give a woman a ****t erection is through foreplay or doing something very erotic to her beforehand. Find out what turns her on when she's not about to have sex, ie, when she's just walking around or fantasizing. Anyway, once the ****t is erect, it doesn't take much stimulation to give her an orgasm. The biggest problem is giving a woman an erection. Here's a clue, if you are rubbing it and it feels flat or soft, it's not hard. It should feel a little firm and movable, just like the tip of your nose. The most important thing about ****t stimulation is speed and pressure. If you are using your finger, give good pressure, move in circles, slowly then faster as you feel it getting harder. If you are using your tongue, just flick the tip (you might even pull the skin or hood back a little bit and expose the true ****oris, but make sure it's not hurting her), go faster and faser from side to side until you feel her body go rigid or she starts gripping the sheets or your head. Very light pressure with the tongue feels very, very good fellas.
Hope this helps!
SB
Hope this helps!
SB