Sex Control Game

[logicallefty]

I was working at a charity event last night, and ended up shooting the breeze with a woman I knew there. We got on the subject of her divorce. The hubby actually left her.

Her: "I know he was cheating, I just know he was".

Me: "Yeah, how so? What evidence did you get your hands on? What happened?"

Her: "Well, a few months before he left me I went and bought some lingerie and put it on for him, and he said he had to go pick up our son and didn't want sex."

Me: "ooooook.. So he quit having sex with you, or this just happened once?"

Her: "It just happened once, but I know he was cheating. I just know he was. Guys never turn down sex".


Have we MALES as a whole really got that bad? We NEVER turn down sex (in general)? Do women really have that much of a grip on us with it to be able to conclude this?

I personally find the general way this game is played disgusting. What I really hate is that there are more women in the world than men, but yet women generally do call the shots with sex.

I purposely don't let this happen with me, as I posted about in a recent post a few days ago where I went and took care of myself when I could have had sex, only because I was not pleased with some of my GF's recent behavior.

I would suspect that most of you guys on this site don't let the women have you by the neck with sex, but in the blue pill/AFC world, is it really as bad as "guy must be cheating if he turns down woman one time."

Thoughts??

 

[zekko]

Have we MALES as a whole really got that bad? We NEVER turn down sex (in general)? Do women really have that much of a grip on us with it to be able to conclude this?

I do think that men are portrayed this way, not only in the media, but in everyday life, that we value sex so much that we would never turn it down. To be honest, I would almost get that same impression from reading this forum. I think to an extent, we help feed the stereotype.

Myself, I have to say that I do not always feel like having sex, especially if I have had it recently. If I have something more important to do, I am going to do it. I have to admit I was a lot more horny when I was a young guy in my teens and 20s. But I do think that women have the impression that men will always jump at a chance to have sex, no matter what the situation.

 

[Colossus]

We live in one of the sluttiest ages in modern history, yet men are thirstier than ever.

I think the reason is many men perceive that sex is very difficult to obtain, and they tolerate garbage behavior to secure what they think is a winning lottery ticket.

Pvssy is PVSSY my friends. It's a commodity. It's the package surrounding it that gives it value. I wouldn't go so far as to say that getting it is always easy, but since college I have never gone more than about 4 months without getting laid.

I also think it's good to "dangle the carrot" sometimes. Turn her down once in a while. Tell her 'not now, I'm in the middle of something.' If she wants to leave she can LEAVE!! Lol good riddance.

If you feel like you need to bang your girl's brains out every 12 hours to keep her around, I'd suggest you are either insecure or you have a very weak hold on her emotionally. That's not a slight or anything but I've felt that way before when I was insecure about a girl.

 

[zekko]

I think the reason is many men perceive that sex is very difficult to obtain, and they tolerate garbage behavior to secure what they think is a winning lottery ticket.

True, but I think what the OP is talking about is that from a biological drive point of view, women think that when a man has a chance for sex, he's going to drop eveything else like a rabid dog in heat and immediately jump on it. Dangle a pair of boobs in front of him and his brain switches off and he immediately starts to think with his penis.

There is admittedly some truth to that, but I think women overestimate it. If you watch Big Bang Theory, Leonard will choose sex with Penny anytime, anywhere, no matter what he's doing. He can have a trip with his friends planned for four months, but if he suddenly has a chance for sex with Penny, he will immediately drop the trip. This is the sort of message that the media puts out, it's no wonder women think they can control us with sex.

They probably form some of these opinions also from dealing with horny teenage boys. But by the time a guy gets into his 30s, he's seen a few pair of boobs from time to time, so the need is not quite so pressing as it was when it was all new. Which is maybe another reason some guys get smoother with women as they get older, they don't get blinded by the sex so quickly.

 

[logicallefty]

We should have a new challenge: Every man on this forum turn down sex once every two weeks, if they have a chance, and it will mostly be married guys or guys in a LTR that do. But even making a new plate wait would be an interesting one.

Just imagine if every guy in the world did this, and the shift it would cause? Or then again, maybe it would just spark more b!tches to cheat? lol

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear All,
Sorry to go against the tide,but one that I miss out on is one that I will never get!