Sex and the City movie

[Bud_Fox]

First off, I HATE "SEX AND THE CITY"

However, almost every hot girl that I know loves this show! So my question is, is it worthwhile to watch the movie to try to understand how these women think? I could possibly use this information for my advantage when trying to hook up with girls in my city.

Mr. Big seems cool. He is the successful rich businessman, and all the women seem to love him. He seems like a DJ.

So it is worthwhile to watch the movie, or is it a waste of time?

 

[Darth]

Nothing is worth watching that sh!tty movie.

 

[Rhoto]

Let me sum it up for you Bud_Fox,

Women love to wh0res. They don't think of themselves that way.

Thats about it. And Mr. Big is the antithesis of DJ-ism. Rich, Powerful, decent looking in NYC, and you're getting with Sarah Jessica Parker...failure.

 

[Reborn]

Eh... no.

You're gonna talk sex and the city episodes with them? In all seriousness, I made it about 10 minute into the film before I was cringing in my sofa and had to turn it off. Women may like it but they also pick their eyebrows, wax/shave legs and paint their face every morning. Face it, women are retarded don't try to understand them. What you need to do is be a thing they like and women will try to steal you from you and you can like "Heeeey.. don't touch my ****".

Let her talk about sex and the city with her friends and just hang out and do fun stuff with her. Talk is overrated.

 

[Effington]

Sex and the City has as much value as any romantic comedy, the only difference is that it had a successful TV show beforehand.

 

[Prod]

Let me sum it up for you Bud_Fox,

Women love to wh0res. They don't think of themselves that way.

Thats about it. And Mr. Big is the antithesis of DJ-ism. Rich, Powerful, decent looking in NYC, and you're getting with Sarah Jessica Parker...failure.

I actually watched the show a few years ago. Disagree on your assessment of this fictional character. He does spin plates and has other girls. EVENTUALLY he gets one-itis for SJP in the last season, which was kinda gay.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

Honestly when girls find out that I know the plots and stories to so many "chick flicks" and can talk about these types of movies with them, they show more interest. It's not the "omg gay friend" interest either. Girls are always like "omg I was watching serendipity" and I'll be like "that was a good one" and they'll be all interested.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Girls are always like "omg I was watching serendipity" and I'll be like "that was a good one" and they'll be all interested.

You sure about that?

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

You sure about that?

Yea actually

 

[Alle_Gory]

Yea actually

Now do you watch chick movies because you like to, or because you want to have something to do girl-talk with? That's what you become to them after awhile.

 

[bud_2005]

You will slowly become one of their girlfriends.

 

[EdmondDantes]

Ohh wow..

read girlie magazines with dating advice. it makes more sense.

These are really more like women's fantasies.. not a guide to anything.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

These are really more like women's fantasies.. not a guide to anything.

Learning someone's fantasies is the easiest way to get what you want from them...

I haven't seen the movie but I did watch the tv series. I thought it was witty and insightful concerning relationships.

 

[Bud_Fox]

Watching "Sex and the City" is like reading Cosmo. It gives you an idea how women think.

 

[get1]

I haven't seen the movie yet but do intend to.If girls have seen it 5+ times I think there is some psychological aspect of interest..I have gotten a lot of conversation and openers from superficially looking through some chick mags. for example you can say I was waiting for my friend at (insert place here) and flicked through this magazine...then go from there. can be great fun. And i've ****ed a lot of the girls i've used those openers on.

imo sex and the city definitely is worth a quick watch..will report back once i've seen it. JUST DON'T TELL GIRLS YOU'VE SEEN IT. gayfriendzone..

 

[DonGorgon]

...to try to understand how these women think?

STOP RIGHT THERE!!!!!!!!! Never waste time trying to understand how women think... They dont think .. they feel ... then they make irrational decisions based on those feelings...

A good female friend of mine once told me that they best way to F a woman is to distract her from, herself... Do that be being illogical and off the wall so she cant quite figure you out cause once she has figured you out she has lost the high and excitement of the chase.

Women have great power due to the high demand fro them and low supply but they dont rationalize power the way men do, they see ijt as an opportunity to attain more intense feelings... SO YOU NEED TO MAKE THEM FEEL LIKE F'ING YOU BY USING DISTRACTIONS.

 

[Ingeniarius]

I watched SatC a couple of times and made notes. The writing is on the wall about women in this show:



the gay straight man was a new strain of heterosexual man spawned in manhattan as the result of overexposure to fashion, exotic cuisine, musical theater and antique furniture.
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Samantha to Carrie: Relationships have been on the decline since women got out of the cave, looked around and said: this isn't so hard!
blabla
Carrie to Samantha: I can't decide if you're our future or our demise.
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woman:I'll have another glass of wine.
barkeeplease.
wlease what?
b:I'll have another glass of wine please.
ARe you allowed to talk to me like that?
Yeah. I think I am.
Look, I'm not a total *****, ok? I just had a fight with somebody.
Boyfriend? Girlfriend? Butcher?
*smiles*
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on Saturday nights, every restaurant in lower Manhattan resembles its own little Ellis Island: Hordes of single women crowding into a hot, cramped space hoping to make it to their final destination: the State of Matrimony. Or at least to get a hot meal and transit.
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-Sean, I dont think this is going to work.
-You can smell my desperation, right?

These are all quotes from the series, and I find them to be quite on the mark. Pay special attention to the italics ones.

 

[DonGorgon]

These are all quotes from the series, and I find them to be quite on the mark. Pay special attention to the italics ones.

neurotic estrogen charged ramblings from highly payed sluts!!! They already know they can get any man they want so they create mundane drama around such easy simple lives..

 

[MaddXMan]

Good lord, there is NO value in watching insipid chick flicks whatsoever. Some may think they will get insight into "how chicks think" but would you dress as a girl to get a chick's insight or suck **** to know what a girl goes through, etc etc. Don't be so damn sensitive about wanting to understand how women think.

 

[get1]

haha think dressing like a chick or sucking **** are fairly extreme comparisons. I don't think it's so much gaining an insight into how chicks think but they can add value. Some of the most successful guys with girls that I know read chick mags, have some close chick mates and don't look at it as a taboo thing to avoid if you have balls. if you're comfortable with your sexuality I think its fine. if not, well... haha