BigAl - A recent situation of mine mirrors yours
There is a hot young lady who has worked next to me for the past 4 months.
She is a total - man eater, make you work for it...I am a princess - *****!
So naturally I fail to comply
WE ARE attracted to each other... FACT
I have asked her out 3 times but she refuses to because I won't :flowers: be her devoted slave boy like she is used to (she was trying to mindfvck me like all the others)
So what did I do?
Flipped the objective of my approach while keeping my frame EXACTLY the same.
I no longer have High IL in her - I don't approach to hook up with her - and it comes across in my Body Language - tone of voice...etc...
I still treat her the same though - ****y funny - send her emails - blah blah blah...but my jets are cool... NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION speaks volumes - she knows it
AND GUESS WHAT
After keeping it like this for about two weeks she has started to qualify herself everytime we talk now ... Stares at me all the time ... always looking at my buldge... she wannz it
but... all signs point to crazy *****
She has to prove me otherwise