Serious lack of options

[JM35]

Whats up fellas, I got a problem. I'm 19, just finished my first year at college, and now i'm on my summer break. I learned a lot of valuable djing techniques at school, and consider myself decently confident when it comes to women. The problem is this- While in high school, me and my friends never really talked to girls. We didn't have much confidence, and just had fun with each other, so we didn't feel the need to go out of our way to meet girls. Now that i'm out of school, i don't have any girls from high school that i could hang out with, plus going to the mall is not an option either. Its like a half hour away, and the girls are all like 15 and really immature. I can't go to clubs or bars, because i'm underrage, and they're pretty far away. So basically I'm in a small town with a serious lack of ass options. I don't where to go to meet girls, cause like i said before the typical places won't work. Any ideas?

 

[trajhenkhet]

flirt with any attractive ladies in any enviroment. Even if its not going to lead anywhere. Have fun

 

[One on One]

I was the same way in high school, man. Now, I'm 21 and out of HS for 3 years and I've made serious progress. You just have to change and start talking to people. Your reputation will change. It's all about networking...meet a few people, they introduce you to some people, some parties, etc. Then, you've got a whole group of people.

 

[killerasp]

let me tell you... I WAS A NERD/GEEK in high school. I was the typical chubby asian kid with the mushroom haircut. I never hung out with more than a handful of girls. Most of my friends were library nerds. Instead of hanging out in the lunchroom, the library was our corner.

But 3 years later, im a tottally changed person. If you see my drivers licease whcih was taken during my senior year and compare it to me now.....you would crap your pants. i look nothing like i did. I lost about 50 lbs in the last year, got a more stylish hair cut, wearing more stylish clothing and most of all, i am able to talk to girls, something i wasnt even able to do well in HS.

After my 2nd year, my friend called me up to hang out with our old HS crew. And let me tell you...they all looked the same. Not one changed. Although they grew taller, grew facial hair, they all dressed the same....and most of all were afraid to even approach women. It was a sad realization that i indeed was a library nerd in HS.

As to your question...ask yourselve this...Where does everyone in your town hang out? there must be some local hot spot for everyone. They all cant drive 30 mins to hang at a mall.

 

[ApocalypseCow]

If you think it's bad being on college break, wait until you actually GRADUATE college. Then you're options will really be lacking. My advice is to practice cold pickups.