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sent this HB9 email and she replied.......

TTAG

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ok I sent this email to a HB9 who struts around campus with her little puppies (AFC's) following her and doing everything for her.


hey there,

hows it going sweetheart? i havent seen you around all
session- where have you been? give us a bell sometime.

your hot and sexy boy,

Daniel.


hahahahaha :)



she replies:



Hello there my stranger,

I Havent seen you either.

Miss ya heaps, so where the hell have you been or have you been trying to avoid me.

We will definently catch up soon. After mid sessions.

Last one was today, so when ever your free.

Danielle

P.s your pretty ho too



not too confident with the whole emailing thing, so lets see what you DJs can recommend for the next move.
 
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I am going to take this apart if you don't mind and offer my suggestions for improving your next email.



hey there,

Ok Intro. Kinda weak though.

hows it going sweetheart? i havent seen you around all
session- where have you been? give us a bell sometime.

1. who is us. you don't want an us that is a cop out. You want and "I". You want her to "feel" that you are really interested and stepping up as a man.

2. Your also begging her to call you. I prefer to give a direction by saying "call me friday nite around 8pm" If I know she will get the email right away. I would also leave a 2 day window if I know she checks them daily.

3. If you don't know then it might in my opinion be better to say "give 'me' a call as soon as you recieve this message

your hot and sexy boy,

1. My problem here is that to me you are giving your power away. Your calling yourself "hers" and not the reversal...I know she did the same thing. My point is you want to appear as a dominante male.

2. By saying "your" you belong to her. I don't know if it's the DJ philosophy to be under a female in a relationship. I much prefer the dominate position.

All in all you did an ok job and got a great response. For her to reply "your ho" that is a big deal bro. She is returning ownership to you. I don't know her or if she is a tease or not. But I would definately step up and get at this one.

Daniel.


hahahahaha :)



she replies:



Hello there my stranger,

1. Notice here she is taking owner ship over you by calling you "Her" stranger.....

I Havent seen you either.

Miss ya heaps, so where the hell have you been or have you been trying to avoid me.

1. teasing you here.
2. she is the confident one here also


We will definently catch up soon. After mid sessions.

1. giving you directions..."We will definitely"
2. And telling you when she will see you

Last one was today, so when ever your free.

1. Interesting tone with this statement. Now she is returning ownership to you

Danielle

P.s your pretty ho too

1. I love this statement, as you can imagine. Those are pimpin words to hear.
2. She came on strong but ended up weak or a teaser at the end.

I hope this helps.

Next time be aware of the context that you write in. A man is dominante and controlling in nature. He takes the lead position. Women want and expect this by their very inner natures.

peace,
 

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P.s your pretty ho too
You think she may have just left out a "T" here ?

ie You're pretty HOT too. Unless she likes calling herself, "Your Pretty Ho"

:D
 
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possibly

Originally posted by Kodiac
You think she may have just let out a "T" here ?

ie You're pretty HOT too. Unless she likes calling herself, "Your Pretty Ho"

:D
could be Kodiac, and she is a bit of a narcissist though. she's really into herself, so it could go either way.
 

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Player, I think you were a little too picky with the email TTAG sent. If I had to think so extensively about power and ownership every time I talked to a girl...well I'd get a headache at the very least. Maybe you are mindful of the power balance on a subconscious level.

I think he had fun with the email. "Sweetheart" sounded a little cheezy, but on the whole it was strong. As long as he makes the connection and books the date it serves its purpose.
 

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whenever is one word
 
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