Sent girl a msg on site.. she deleted my msg and didn't reply..was my opener bad?

[TT2CiN]

Lol ok so I'm browsing through the list of girls right and I see this girl whose 19 and good looking or whatever, but her profile is really empty and she lists her profession as BOA so I sent her this msg

" hmmm your profile is kinda bland, but ill give you a chance.. since you like working out like me.

so what does boa stand for? hopefully not bum on assistance, cause I like my girls rich (500,000+ a yr) "


Now reason I'm making this thread is that in my opinion that was at least somewhat funny and not a generic opener that any other guy would use, but thats just me, was that a really stupid thing to say(and my perception of good openers messed up), or did she delete it for another reason.

 

[onthepath]

wow, so you expect a 19year old girl to be making more than half a million a year

if this is the type of girl yo'ure targeting then perhaps they think or really are just of a higher class than you, and hence didn't even bother to reply

 

[TT2CiN]

wow, so you expect a 19year old girl to be making more than half a million a year

if this is the type of girl yo'ure targeting then perhaps they think or really are just of a higher class than you, and hence didn't even bother to reply

it was a joke...

 

[COD]

what you probably encountered was 1 of two things:

A) A RECON PROFILE-one written for the sole purpose of info gathering. Specifically email enticements, may even be a man. read your email, dis-qualified it and deleted it.

B) PERPETUAL DATER- a chic on a quest to find the perfect man. She did not like the picture, what you wrote, was board and was just deleting emails to cut down on the several hundred other lame emails she gets.


But lets take a look at your email............
hmmm your profile is kinda bland, but ill give you a chance.. YOUR INITIAL NEG WAS HARSH........A LITTLE TOO ****Y AND SELF SERVING.

since you like working out like me. THATS THE CONDITION TO DRAW A COMMON INTEREST.......not very creative, dull actually.

so what does boa stand for? hopefully not bum on assistance, cause I like my girls rich (500,000+ a yr) AGAIN, IT DEPICTS YOUR LACK OF INTELLIGENCE AND NON-CREATIVITY. The obvious attempt at humor is completly lost with the mere mentioning of money.

YOU should learn how to seduce women with enticing emails, the right way.

Odds are she has a ton of these lame emails to delete.

Your email labled you as a JAG (just another guy).

You might want to try a humorous compliment opener, the whole I'll give you a chance is wasted and seldom works.

email enticements require several criteria to be effective, i could list some examples but that would appear I am condoning Net dating.

Net dating is for just starting out or really shy people.

To get more specifics........sheesh there are so many books............ummm U can try the all new Davagina code 2008.......tons of cute, lil email templates or net2bed system, Insiders Dating is clever also.

 

[Bvbidd]

She deleted it because it was a lame message. She probally laughed like hell at you. Give her a chance? She has no idea who you are and you have not given her a reason to even give you a chance. Switching it around doesn't work man. Your the one sending the message, your the one who has to impress her.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Women who send me messages I'll delete theirs, even if I initiate, I'll delete her response. They go nuts over that, get drunk, self-sabotage, become lesbian.

 

[Tear Gas]

Some girls don't like talking to guys they dont know, even if you're really good looking; i know this for a fact..actually if a girl replies to my message, it shows how desperate and/or slutty she is. Things that i dont want in my girl.

 

[young_gun]

Hahaha, "Your profile is bland"?? She probably sees this as more of an insult than anything. Remember, she doesn't know anything about you. You could be a charming, witty guy, or you could be some weird internet creeper who wants to get in her pants REAL REAL BAD. I'm guessing she probably thinks you're the latter.

LOL. I'm actually laughing out loud about this. Try something more along the lines of "Hey, I've been seeing a lot of the similar profiles on this site, but yours definitely caught my eye. Tell me a little more about yourself."

 

[young_gun]

Some girls don't like talking to guys they dont know, even if you're really good looking; i know this for a fact..actually if a girl replies to my message, it shows how desperate and/or slutty she is. Things that i dont want in my girl.

Not necessarily. You can't tell me a girl is desperate just because she RESPONDS to a message. Sure, you don't want a slutty girl, but you messaged her in the first place. If she didn't want to get messages and/or write messages, she wouldn't have gotten the account anyway, right?

 

[Sandow]

a lot of people get confused with c/f. you can't really use it online or text. it just doesn't come off right. i know this from experience. you should only use it in person, because ur delivery is very important. just stick to the basics. also a very poweful tool to use when texting or myspace...keep it short! You'll see why.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

it was a joke...

Did you expect her to think it was funny?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...Odds are she has a ton of these lame emails to delete.

Your email labled you as a JAG (just another guy).....

:yes: Bingo!