Seemed Like A Sucess Then... But Now Im confused

rben69

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Had a fun weekend, went to my friends place and we went out and saw these girls that we had met about a month ago who lived about 3 hours away, and organized to meet them the next night as they had to go somewhere. This one girl I didn't have much to do with her last time, but I said to my friend, "Im gonna sex her tomorrow night" (That is our very own expression)

Ok to the next night, I talked to her a little bit and could tell something was up (she liked me).. A few random things I remember saying and doing...

Well there was this other guy who was following her around EVERYWHERE (I'll call him Follow DudeTM) they don't really like him but they can't tell him to f%^k off because he is this girls dads friends son (get all that?).

-Well I was giving her some crap about follow dude, they went off to her cabin to get some more alcohol and when they came back since I knew she didn't want him I said, "So did ya get lucky?" and she goes "F&^K OFF" and glared at me (she definately doesn't like him) and later she came and sat next to me and I said "oh are you missing follow dude" and she goes "hah yeeeaah" (sarcasm) and I said "I know if I wasn't here you would be missing me terribly though" and she said "Of course, thats why i'm sitting here" I talked to her a bit (not much at all) then went off somewhere else (I made a mental note not to be a Follow dude like the other guy)

-There was these people from another country dancing around and singing another language and I said to her "Ill go and do a pole dance near them" and she goes "Go on I dare ya" and I said "nah, im not gonna take my pants off because youll get too turned on" and she laughed.

-She lit a smoke (I hate smoking) and I go "get rid of that ****" and went to grab it off her and she laughs. I've done this to a few girls and they seem to love it, guess its because I'm showing them theres something I don't approve of that their doing and im not being a chump about it?

-We were sitting on a chair and someone started telling stupid "yo momma" jokes and she said a sick one and I went "ahh" and tried to push her off the chair and then she tried to push me off too.

-We were all at this playground and I sat on some equipment and got a wet ass, I said "oh now my ass is wet" and pointed at her and said "BUT NO TOUCHING OKAY!" and she laughed and said "Oh ill try to resist"

After that the other girl there went off to talk with my friend and at the same time this other girl went back to the cabin with follow dude to get some water and they called me over and told me "she wants to sex you" and I said I know and they said theyed go talk to her and i said "no I can do this myself.

Well the girl and follow dude were taking ages so her friend rang her up and follow dude had passed out on the couch and she said she would sneak out when he went to sleep. A while later they werent back so I took her friends phone and rang up follow dude, and put on my best scottish accent and pranked him, he finally figured out who it was and told us the girl had passed out now, we didnt beleive it so went over there and it was true. She woke up totally ****ed for a while, but after a bit she was fine.

We were all sitting down watching a video that they made just being stupid and pretending to be other people doing interviews.

It had something on the video about kissing and follow dude goes to the girl "wheres my kiss" and she got the "EWWWW" look on her face and moved away from him, (He surprisingly had sat next to her, haha) and then looked at me and I laughed. After that she was looking at me and smiling I just smiled and nodded my head (ok I know... now I thought of what I should of done.. motioned for her to come over and sit on my knee)

-Well it was getting late and I had to go so they came out with me to my car and we went for a bit of a walk and i put my arm around her and she put hers around me for a bit but then she took it off and walked off to her friend (whispering i think) - That is the first weird thing I don't get... Any ideas?

Ok so we went to my car and she went inside to get something and I said to my friend and the other girl "can you 2 disappear for a while" and they went off and she come back and said "hey where are they and was going to look for them and I said "hey come back here" and she did and I got out my phone and said "here chuck your number in" and she did she said "prank me so I can get your number, but I have no credit" I said "bs". She was standing there looking at me and I went to put my arms around her and she hugged me, and then I reached up and moved her hair out of the way and kissed her, she kissed me for a little bit then stopped and I asked when she was coming back and she said in 2 weeks for a long weekend. Then went to look for her friend again.

Ok when I left I hugged her again and then she said "im hugging xxx too" (my friend) and hugged him... this is weird too, I guessed it was to try and make me jealous. I should of hugged the other girl but didn't think of it then.

I went home and my friend stayed a while longer and I talked to him the next day about it and asked if they were gossiping and he said they said nothing to him, but there was alot of whispering between the girls.

Shes coming back in about 2 weeks.

Next time im going to sex her ;)

Ok, so today I rang her, and pretended it was the police and she actually beleived it and went all quiet (oops) And instead of playing along I stuffed it up maybe b/c I was a bit nervous and said, "dont you know who it is" in my normal voice and she goes "oh Ben, you had me scared there". Asked what she was upto and just said "nothing" said she sounded tired and she said "yeah a bit" and I said "I think you need a sleep".

Well she sounded real tired and wasn't saying much and the reception was bad :( The annoying thing was she asked what my friend had been upto, I just said "I havent seen him for a few days" (true). That doesn't sound good, maybe she likes him. She goes, can you ring me back later. I said "maybe, but maybe not" and she laughed, and I said "no you ring me" and she goes "ok" and I went to get some paper (supposedly, took a while) and I gave her my number. I kind of think she won't because chicks usually don't but we will see. Maybe she just wanted a sleep?

I don't know how I'm gonna continue this, whether I should ring her again or just wait until she comes down. (I hate the phone, would rather be in person) But I might have to ring her before then anyway to organize to meet, I know where they most likely will be but might not see them otherwise.

Well i'm gonna keep advancing when she comes up and not just give up because I think it now "seems" like shes not as into me as she was before. Well I'll find out next time.
 

JustDoItAlways

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Hey, you're doing really good with the c0cky and funny stuff. I'd say you had her.

But there always comes a time when the guy has got to put his cards on the table and make the move. The move is not words, it is action.

Just grab her and start kissing. Push her up against a wall and go. Take her hand and take her to a bedroom upstairs. You get the picture.

She was waiting all night for it and you didn't make the move.

Hence the jealousy routines and the semi-flake on the phone.

Wait a bit for her to phone you like she said she would. If she doesn't, grab your unit and you make the call. Use the c0cky and funny which you seem to have down pat but set something up (before the 2 week thing if possible) where you can make the action move on her.
 

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I'm to tired to give you a full step by step answer but when you were isolated that first time when the dude and her friend was at the cabin YOU HAD A GOLDEN OPPORTUNITY! You were ISOLATED, completely ALONE, having FUN, KINOING, had raport, what not....... You could probably had sex right there.
 

rben69

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She was the one who went to the cabin with the follow dude. If it was her friend and she stayed there I would of done something earlier. But we were all in the cabin watching a video and then I had to go. And thought I better make a move.
 
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