Good tidings, this is Rym, a new denizen of the DJ forum.
Although I am successful with females, I have come across a few nuances and roadblocks that I have not been able to surmount. This is why I have come to seek advice and enlightenment from the elder forummers and Don Juans here...
Advice would be greatly appreciated.
First, an introduction about myself.
I am a junior in high school, in the high 5-foot range, weighs around 150 lbs, with a very athletic and muscular build, without the bulk. I am of Chinese descent, and, like many Asian kids growing up in America, was raised very White. I grew up upper-middle class with nice clothes, an ample supply of money, and access to many opportunities to advance myself. I am currently ranked 1 in my class, with a perfect GPA, recently recieved a 1540 on my first SAT attempt, and have garnered numerous academic accolades. I have also been doing martial arts for many years, and, as a result, have quite unassumingly acquired a highly toned physique.
I keep shave my head pretty close, but has recently let it grow out. My wardrobe (including shoes) consists of Nike, Hilfiger, Fubu, Reebok, Adidas, Lugz... for more stylized look, Kenneth Cole, other Kenneth Cole-esque clothes... I usually dress in a more urban/hip-hop style, but not thug (although I've been known to sport the do-rag/beater/chain-cross look
).
Being quite successful in high school thusfar, I have acquired a reputation of being a jerk and arrogant. I have many friends, and a few very hardcore comrades. I have been in several relationships outside of school, with white as well as Asian girls, but have been mostly single and usually hook-up with girls and not pursue anything further than that.
The current situation is that I am at a very confusing position. There are three girls that I would like to pursue, each path, however, has its problems and the whole circumstance is very convulated.
The first girl is a friend that I have known since middle school. She has long, dark brown hair, a little shorter than I. She is very voluptuous... very nice curves, and has a very beautiful face. She is currently going out with someone outside of our school, and has been in the relationship for a few months. There was/is sexual chemistry between us, and there were several times when we it seems we were at the very fine line of professing our attraction toward one another, but both of us backed off. I think she was hesitant because I hadn't made a definite move, which was my fault, and didn't want to risk anything. Now that she is with someone, I feel very regretful - something that I have never felt. We still hang out and talk often, and I use kino on her frequently.
The second girl is someone I have known for even longer, but not as a friend. She is also a little shorter than I. She is very conservative and religious, but is on the cheer squad. She is very attractive, and her best physical assets are definitely her ass, her legs, and her face. She is very athletic... has blonde hair. When I talk to her, she is very shy, and I always have the upper hand in the convo. A kid - a relative AFC with some DJ tendencies, I know is trying to get with her. They are friends, and sometimes talk and walk together, but I don't think they are in anything serious. I haven't really gotten a chance to use kino on her, and we are still relatively unknown to each other. I had a chance to show her my physical prowess in a gladiatorial-style battle at tailgate before the homecoming dance. I was wearing a black beater and kicked the other kid's ass... something that was quite talked about afterwards. I'm sure she noticed my physique. I don't know how far I can get with her, due to her conservative background as well as our relative unfamiliarity.
The third girl is a gorgeous Chinese girl thhat I only had the pleasure of meeting once. She doesn't go to my school like the previous two, and is actually the ex of my very good friend. My friend is still trying to get with her, and they hang out a lot, so I don't know the likelihood of us actually hooking-up... also due to the infrequency in which me meet.
This is the basic rundown... a mouthful I know, but something I wanted to get out there for critique and, hopefully, advice.
Advice very much appreciated,
Rym
Although I am successful with females, I have come across a few nuances and roadblocks that I have not been able to surmount. This is why I have come to seek advice and enlightenment from the elder forummers and Don Juans here...
Advice would be greatly appreciated.
First, an introduction about myself.
I am a junior in high school, in the high 5-foot range, weighs around 150 lbs, with a very athletic and muscular build, without the bulk. I am of Chinese descent, and, like many Asian kids growing up in America, was raised very White. I grew up upper-middle class with nice clothes, an ample supply of money, and access to many opportunities to advance myself. I am currently ranked 1 in my class, with a perfect GPA, recently recieved a 1540 on my first SAT attempt, and have garnered numerous academic accolades. I have also been doing martial arts for many years, and, as a result, have quite unassumingly acquired a highly toned physique.
I keep shave my head pretty close, but has recently let it grow out. My wardrobe (including shoes) consists of Nike, Hilfiger, Fubu, Reebok, Adidas, Lugz... for more stylized look, Kenneth Cole, other Kenneth Cole-esque clothes... I usually dress in a more urban/hip-hop style, but not thug (although I've been known to sport the do-rag/beater/chain-cross look
).Being quite successful in high school thusfar, I have acquired a reputation of being a jerk and arrogant. I have many friends, and a few very hardcore comrades. I have been in several relationships outside of school, with white as well as Asian girls, but have been mostly single and usually hook-up with girls and not pursue anything further than that.
The current situation is that I am at a very confusing position. There are three girls that I would like to pursue, each path, however, has its problems and the whole circumstance is very convulated.
The first girl is a friend that I have known since middle school. She has long, dark brown hair, a little shorter than I. She is very voluptuous... very nice curves, and has a very beautiful face. She is currently going out with someone outside of our school, and has been in the relationship for a few months. There was/is sexual chemistry between us, and there were several times when we it seems we were at the very fine line of professing our attraction toward one another, but both of us backed off. I think she was hesitant because I hadn't made a definite move, which was my fault, and didn't want to risk anything. Now that she is with someone, I feel very regretful - something that I have never felt. We still hang out and talk often, and I use kino on her frequently.
The second girl is someone I have known for even longer, but not as a friend. She is also a little shorter than I. She is very conservative and religious, but is on the cheer squad. She is very attractive, and her best physical assets are definitely her ass, her legs, and her face. She is very athletic... has blonde hair. When I talk to her, she is very shy, and I always have the upper hand in the convo. A kid - a relative AFC with some DJ tendencies, I know is trying to get with her. They are friends, and sometimes talk and walk together, but I don't think they are in anything serious. I haven't really gotten a chance to use kino on her, and we are still relatively unknown to each other. I had a chance to show her my physical prowess in a gladiatorial-style battle at tailgate before the homecoming dance. I was wearing a black beater and kicked the other kid's ass... something that was quite talked about afterwards. I'm sure she noticed my physique. I don't know how far I can get with her, due to her conservative background as well as our relative unfamiliarity.
The third girl is a gorgeous Chinese girl thhat I only had the pleasure of meeting once. She doesn't go to my school like the previous two, and is actually the ex of my very good friend. My friend is still trying to get with her, and they hang out a lot, so I don't know the likelihood of us actually hooking-up... also due to the infrequency in which me meet.
This is the basic rundown... a mouthful I know, but something I wanted to get out there for critique and, hopefully, advice.
Advice very much appreciated,
Rym
