Seduction-focused World Travel

[zentraveller]

I would like to elicit the thoughts of the mature DJs on the forum regarding a topic I hold near and dear to my heart: and that is seduction-focused world travel.

I will be leaving in several days for Europe for business, but with the express intent of also seducing and bedding the beautiful local women of Scandinavia. I should point out that while many men travel abroad for *paid sex* (either directly or indirectly), this is something that I personally am NOT interested in. That's a different topic altogether.

For those of you who have travelled with the intent to aggressively seduce and practice your techniques on foreign women, I have the following questions:

1. Favorite countries: Which European countries did you particularly enjoy and/or have success in? I deliberately leave out developing countries in Latin America and SE Asia because of the economic disparity which comes into play (i.e. poor gold diggers flock to Western men, making it difficult to gauge whether it's you or your passport doing the seducing)

2. Special techniques: Many women want relationships, or at least some assurance the the man will be stick around for a while before they giving their bodies to him. Given that you were a *traveller* and not a resident, how did you handle things? Tell the truth? Lie? Bend the truth?

3. Special planning: Did you put any special planning into where you would stay, what you would do, the places you would visit, in order to maximize your chances in the short amount of time you would be in country?

4. Overall experience: Did you feel more confident while travelling? Did you experience more success? Any advice or wisdom learned?

Cheers.

 

[Don_Marko]

Dude if you are going to Scandinavia make sure to go on www.fastseduction.com and in their PUA archives to download the Toecutter's archive.

The guy has much props in the community and wrote a few EXTENSIVE posts about the scenes and women in Finland and Sweden, in fact he even recommended clubs and all.

 

[AgonyUncle]

The biggest advantage you have is an accent. I spent 2 years backpacking Europe.

An accent is a good opener on its own. You say anything, anything at all, and chances are you can strike up conversation just from the fact that you are someting different.

From there on in, its the usual shyte.

 

[Marcopolo]

Don't totally discount teh "third world" when I was 20 I backpacked all around SE Asia, China, and Nepal. One thing that I discovered were that many young people, especially Europeans and Australians, love to do this style of traveling in these areas. There are entire resort towns (such as Kuta in Bali) that cater to these types. I had more sex with different women than at any other time in my life. One was British, one Aussie, one French Canadian, a Sweedish gal, and another Canadian from Vancouver, all in the space of three months. I spent about six of those weeks with the French Canadian hotttie having some of the best sex of my life(she was 19 I was 20). There were plenty of women in their late 20's and 30's as well that were travelling. Man, I miss travelling, that was without a doubt the best time of my life, not just because of the sex- I love adventure as well.

 

[Alpine]

What about a Brit. in the States. Is it a plus or a minus for the Ladies? and in which States. I quite fancy getting a flavour for different States as they seem very diverse in culture.

I fancy doing white water rafting (but not in the southern states) and seeing the Grand Canyon etc.

 

[Gipper]

Very interesting topic. Finally!

Alpine, to answer your question, your British accent is very much an advantage in the states.

I worked with an engineer who helped me install some equipment in my plant. He currently lives in Ohio, but was born and raised outside London.

He wanted to find a sports bar that had a soccer game playing that night, so I joined him for dinner at a local O'Charlie's. As soon as one girl heard his accent, we were swamped and could scarely watch the match, as girls were coming up and initiating conversations, just to "hear him say something". He could have taken home one girl for sure, and probably two more. He was married however, and felt a little guilty about all the attention.

Gipper

 

[zentraveller]

Brits with some game do EXTREMELY well in the states. In some ways, this whole country is starved for European culture, and it shows in the way women react.

The movie "Love Actually" wasn not too far off.

 

[Alpine]

Yeah,

Took a girl to see that, she was laughing and sobbing all the way through. All I kept thinking was how you could want a Divine Brown when you've got a Liz Hurley. Maybe Hurley didn't do head.

Anyway, this is good news the accent thing, you've got to exploit any possible advantage. However it would be secondary to site seeing and activity stuff.

If I could meet a canoeing, rock climbing babe, with a nice toned body who's into good food, cars and quality sex then I'd be happy. Not too much to ask for is it?

I don't think the American accent makes that much difference over here.

What I do think is that Brits are much more reserved, yet when they hear the accent they naturally assume Americans will be generally more outgoing and sociable and respond accordingly.

 

[PocoDiablo]

Alpine,

I lived in Denver, CO, and my best friend was a Brit. He picked up chicks left and right, and he was a short little guy. It was amazing! Definately a plus.

Also, Boulder is near by (45 minutes) with lots of college girls and outdoor types. I am sure you would have a blast there.

 

[Alpine]

Sounds perfect, I'm a bit of a shortarse too. I thought that might be a problem 'cos Americans generally seem to be bigger than Europeans.

I'd love to do some climbing out there although we are fairly spoilt here too, but the weather well

 

[zentraveller]

Hey Alpine,

I'm just curious. I know London itself it completely international and so you'll run into non-English chicks as often as English ones.

But are there certain cities/regions of England particularly *known* for its good looking women?

I thought I read some stereotypes about Essex blondes at some point.

 

[zentraveller]

By the way, I did around a dozen street approaches per day (and more at night in the clubs) while in Germany and got great responses.

Unlike New York or Los Angeles for example, I don't think German women get approached by men very often in the daytime. Almost all of them were HB 6-9s.

Even though my technique was pretty amateurish (and my nervousness leaked through on a few of those encounters), they seemed flattered and # closes were pretty easy (a same day F-close was doable as well IMO with one young blonde student from Heidelberg Univ.).

I'm finding that a lot of guys are basing how "friendly" the women are in a particular country on bad data. In other words, they'll hit a few pubs and if they luck onto 1-3 girls who talk to them (or more), they judge the women of that country "friendly". Or they form a "connection" with 1 or 2 girls they randomly meet and certainly start raving about the woomen of X country.

I think this is TOTALLY unreliable and you can ONLY truly trust the opinions of DJs/PUAs who form their opinions AFTER approaching 40-50 women on the streets + dozens more in the clubs/pubs.

 

[Alpine]

Zen,

Well i live near Bistol now, but I used to live in Wokingham nr. Reading and went into London a fair bit. Trouble is foreign birds in your own country turns the tables on the scarcity/uniquness concept that the foriegner abroad has, so your chances are no better.

Londoner's can be snooty, and have their own clique. But a Yank will be fine. Although I am convinced that London is now completely run by Aussies, Kiwis and South Africans.

Nottingham had a reputation for a 5:1 ratio women to men, not sure how true that is.

Uni towns are best, young independent things looking for new experiences. Also where major hospitals are. Reading trainee nurses were always up for it.

I really like Bristol, Bath has some nice rich (daddies girls). To be honest, the further north you go, the friendlier people seem to be.

Essex girl jokes are to some degree justified, but still a generalisation.