Seduction and Ballroom Dancing

[Deathfyre]

Any Ballroom/Latin Dancers here who are also seductionists? If so, any tips for combining the two. I know that dancing is a great opportunity for kino, and close conversation. But is there anything else I should be aware of in this particular situation? Kino doesn't give you as much of an advantage if everyone is doing it. Advice for either a one night stand or a relationship is welcome, as at the next few dances there will be girls there that I'm interested in for either.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Alot of eyecontact and smiles is always great in ballroom dancing!

 

[DJmonster]

I'm taking swing dance class. It seems like when I just focus on my dancing and lead with confidence, the girls have more fun dancing with me, and other girls want to get in on the action. Don't worry about trying to seduce them, just be a fun guy to dance with. When the ones you're interested in show their high IL (heavy eye contact, smile, trying to dance closer), then work your seduction (not an expert on this, but maybe try dancing closer, smelling, deep wispering, whatever seems appropriate) Be sure to show all the ladies a good time first : )

 

[tiburon]

OK I AM THE KNIG AT THIS>..

I AM THE KING AT THE FOLLOWING SO LISTEN CAREFULLY:

I am Cuban and like most cubans salsa is an ingredient to my life ...just like water. I love dancing and fortunately women love dancing but even better a man that can dance. Here is an example of me and the boys on a night out at a party.......


First thing you do is each of you go their own way .
Then you make sure you have two beers in your system or ven better a nice mix of BACARDI RUM(yes thas a cuban drink...which the puerto ricans are trying to steal from us ..but BACARDI was founded in my beautiful CUBA ..the land of SALSA, BEAUTIFUL WOMAN , NATURE, AND RUM).

You scan the place ....start dancin ASAP which whoever....even if they are fat ....make your precence felt...but most importantly make sure every girl sees you are there to have fun and not get pvssy.

Dance ..with girls and after a dance respectfully cut them of and say ill be back ladies it has been my pleasure......

Keep scanning the room and yes keep the beer coming but dont get drunk just a buzz. Once you find the girl you like and most importantly digs you..( which shouldnt be hard as she has seen you dance with other womnan and having fun ...and not looking desperately)....forget about the fact you want to fvck her......to be a great dancer you have to like to dance ...to drive a woman crazy in the dance floor.....believe it or not you must be a CHALLENGE.

Realize if she is a slut(most probably ) or a girl that respect herslef. The difference its with one you go all throttle and the latter you go slower and show her how fun you are to be around ....FUN= Confidence in a woman's mind.

If she is a slut sping her turn her .......and slowy bill the tension ...
But before we get to building the tension realize that the only way to seduce a woman in the dance floor is by making her laugh ...

First dance .
Make her laugh but this doesnt mean you need to open your mouth
Do crazy moves (Salsa is the best dancing music for this reason....i have a move call the kiss with three variants that NO WOMAN CAN RESIST...but i pull it whne the tension is at the right moment )
Then the hips ....women dance with their hips....so you must softly touch them .

Her eyes are very important they are what gives away her IL in you and this is true in the dance floor aswell..

Look at her eyes everynow and then specialyy when both of you are dancing face to face because when she is about to go crazy for you those two pearls will shine and say "kiss me like no other."

Then if she is a slutt kiss and progress until she is the one that wants to kiss you tooo...>TRUST ME THIS WILL HAPPEN >>>>>>if you do the right moves.

IF she respects herself kiss her anyways and if she says no ......then at th endof the dance move away .....and say: Listen Maria i had a great time dancing with you , looking at her in the eyes........leave.

If you like her at the end of the night get her number ...her home phone number....if you are drunk she wont give you it........


Finally if you get the kiss fro m the slutt or anyone else keep on having fun but let her go crazy on you.....you touch in seductives places......form there is ytour judgement ..aske her to go to your place .., get the number, keep on dancing ...ect.....



Tiburon.....


p.s Salsa lessons are good if you dont know salsa aslo dont ever dance BACHATA ..and merengue is the second bess latin music to dance too in the dance flooor but nothing , no music in the united states or the rest of the worldcomes close to THE CUBAN SALSA.

 

[Deathfyre]

Sorry, but I have to disagree with you on some points...

Specifically, Samba and Rhumba are way better than Salsa and Merengue. Other than that, I'll give your advice a try, thanks.

 

[SourFox]

Salsa is easier than samba technique-wise. Also, in salsa it is easier to do turns and fun moves. I would also hazard a guess that cuban salsa is a bit different from the salsa you are used to. Rhumba is good b/c it is slower and easier to teach if she is a beginner. I've found that salsa and samba are hard to teach b/c it takes a while to get her up to speed. I much prefer the latin and nightclub dances to swing and ballroom. Swing seems too goofy, and ballroom seems too stiff, but everyone knows that salsa is cool.

Of course, the danger of dancing is that sometimes a woman might end up seeing you as just entertainment.

 

[tiburon]

You have to be kidding me ....

Boy ---OOH Boy ...SALSA ....Cuban SALSA and RHUMBA come from the same place ...the most beautiful island in the world ....CUBA...

RHUMBA is great but a different generation...SALSA is the most romantic dance,, the dance with the most life ...the most DON JUAn Dance in the planet ...because the song itself is about a man and a woman 90 percent of the time.......is either a man macking to a woman like a true latin lover......or telling her she needs to go and that this is sad but life goes on and that he has the music to dance his pains aways..or something along those lines....HONESTLY it doesnt get any better than that.

SAMBA is great but it misses the Romance Salsa brings and it misses many other things aswell.

Salsa is so great because is a descendant of RHumba, CHA CHA CHA and other great dances originated by the Cuban culture .....
What really makes salsa great is the way the woman moves ......
The man moves great but when you see a cuban woman move to salsa .....BOY YOU GO CRAZY..>>YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT A WOMAN REALLY IS>......and the man has an opportunity to guide the woman just like life should be...fun, romantic, sexy, and with meaning!

As far as it goes being use for a form of entertainment ...i find this almost impossible ..unless you are gay ..or a big AFC.....
Good Dancers in Salsa they love woman.....or they are gay...there is no other way around it.....SALSA IS A CELEBRATION OF A MAN AND WOMAN FLIRTING WITH EACH OTHER, AND MANY OTHER THINGS.

All woman i have known in my life would agree with the following even it has been har to get it out oif them at first.....They all feel that if he is that good in the dance floor he must be great in bed...HAHAHAH...hard to become an entertainment on the Dance floor and not be considered one for later that night if you can dance salsa like the GODS...but maybe you can the GODS ARENT CUBANS.

Below there is a link to one of the best dancers i have seen .....HE IS A NATURAL ..He is a Cuban male ....in Cuba ....
The girl is a "mulata"( mix of white "Spaniard" and black"African"). She aint that hot .....but see how that woman moves those hips ...play it one or more times if needed but for the love of God see her hips move....They will make you understand how lovely any woman can be .....whats the escence of a woman...but specially you would understand what dancing with a woman its really all about...look closely........

http://www.salsaville.com/salc/video_clips/jj0.mov

Take care and SAMBA IS GREat but it has nothing on SALSA ......SALSA IS to versatile.



Tiburon


p.s : this dancers in my opinions are better than any that compete in this country ..because they do it to wash their pains away ..they dont make any money ..infact they are starving because of the goverment....they Dance because they love the music...they are The music....and is not about the hardest move ..they understand is about having the most fun.......

 

[Deathfyre]

Rhumba, when done well, is much more sensual than Salsa ever can be. Think of the song Goldeneye, one of my favorite songs to rhumba to. Samba on the other hand, is just a lot of fun to dance. It can be very sexy if done well, and to the right song (think "Ooh La La" by Chicadee).

 

[Player_Supreme]

When your dancing exert your dominance and control and she will melt. If you exhibit any weakness then yo've lost the game.

Even if you've fawked up a step...act like you ment to do it and make her bend her will to you...make her follow YOU in everything that she does while on the floor.

You will dance your way into the land of pvssy!

 

[tiburon]

I love when ..

I just love how you try to explain Rhumba to a Cuban who is all about Salsa , Rhumba, CHA CHA CHA and many others that you dont even know....but its a free country ...its your opinion ...but in NYC , MIAMI, LONDON, HABANA, TOKYO, AMSTERDAM , PARIS, MADRID, BARCELONA, SANFRACNISCO, LOS ANGELES...when they want to dance to latin ..they dance SALSA...of course GOLDENEYE is a movie........and if you base your contents on that ,...good luck trying to dance Rhumba everyother night you go out.........I AM CUBAN I know how to dance to it and in Miami where the latin and cuban population is at it maximum ...its hard to dance to Rhumba .,..because salsa is just partof a new Generation..........and Rhumba is a good weapon to have ..but you rarely get to use......Remeber more knows the devil for being old than for being a devil...So listen to advice and you will be a devil in the dance floor as well.

And to all of those that think salsa is easier technique wise --than Samba --i dont know who is teaching you salsa....honestly


Tiburon

 

[Deathfyre]

I meant the song, it's a good one for Rhumba, don't care for the movie too much myself. Don't care if you're Cuban, you think just because you are, you know dancing, and that because I'm not, I don't. Obviously you've never seen Rhumba done well. I don't actually know how to Salsa, but I've seen it done, and seen it done well (it looks like a lot of fun, and I intend to learn it, have 2 workshops on it on saturday). I've also seen Rhumba done well, and I have yet to see a dance that can compare to it. Salsa is more lively, but I find Rhumba to be much sexier. Samba has some hard steps, and the technique is quite difficult to do properly, next week I'll be able to compare it (a little, at least) to salsa.

PS. Not saying I can Rhumba sexier than anyone can salsa, I'm still a beginner at dancing.

PPS. My thread seems to be getting off topic.

 

[tiburon]

lol

Man i have seen and dance more great rhumba than you seen pvssy ...maybe thats not alot to say ... but you get my point.

I am Cuban and i know a good dancer when i see him/her ..no matter if he is Cuban or American or even from Poland...In fact there are some Cubansawho cant dance but ...to be a Cuban and not know Salsa or Rhumba or Cha Cha Cha or other african- cuban dances is a little bit embarrassing.

I have been dancing Rhumba and Salsa since i was 6 ........Sorry that you guessed wrong..but good luck


Tiburon