Seducing a female friend?

[ARrocket]

So there is this friend I have...when we first met I know she was interested, but nothing happened and we just became friends. I used to flirt with her a lot, but then I kinda stopped. Anyway, I've become pretty flirtatious again, and she usually responds well, but she often tells me that my "joking" annoys her....but at the same time it makes her happier after awhile when she's sad (she seems to be very moody). Well anyway, I'm not so sure I'd want a relationship with her, but I seem to be quite infatuated lol. How should I go about doing this? Should I avoid having more "serious" conversations with her? Because we seem to be further apart after those...

 

[Drumstick]

In my experience once you are a "friend" in her mind it is very difficult to change that. It's a real b!tch, eh? You got to set the attraction from the get go, or else it generally won't happen.

 

[ARrocket]

Well, what happens when you start out as more than a friend, then just fall into the just friends sort of thing? Is that different?

 

[Bible_Belt]

when we first met I know she was interested, but nothing happened and we just became friends.


Well you fvcked that up, didn't you? With the next girl, don't do that. Make a move, and either get laid or get rejected, and move on from there. Then you won't ever be in this situation again.

 

[ARrocket]

Well, there isn't really a situation....well maybe there is lol. I'm not in love with her or anything, the girl just turns me on. I don't want a relationship with her...

 

[JackPrescott]

So there is this friend I have...when we first met I know she was interested, but nothing happened and we just became friends. I used to flirt with her a lot, but then I kinda stopped. Anyway, I've become pretty flirtatious again, and she usually responds well, but she often tells me that my "joking" annoys her....but at the same time it makes her happier after awhile when she's sad (she seems to be very moody). Well anyway, I'm not so sure I'd want a relationship with her, but I seem to be quite infatuated lol. How should I go about doing this? Should I avoid having more "serious" conversations with her? Because we seem to be further apart after those...

You are in the "friendzone"....the closest you will get to sex with her is mastrubating by yourself, holding a picture of her, and calling her name as you climax in sexual frustration.

 

[Tookie]

lol what they are basicly saying man is just the work you would have to put in for this wouln't be worth it. Get that there is only one girl for me thing out your head.

But if none of that steers you away keep trying then. Every Don juan know that there comes a time when you got to break a rule or two but the odds are set against. The only way I ever ever seen this work out is when the girl secretly had a crush on the guy the whole time, which from what you told don't sounds like it.

 

[ARrocket]

lol thanks Tookie but you guys aren't understanding...

I am not thinking she's the girl for me, I am NOT interested in any kind of relationship or anything with her...I date other girls, but (not to sound too crude) I would love to bang her