This is sort of a field report, or as close as I’m going to get to one at this point. I recently started up my second summer session class. Last session, it was pretty unfortunate, because there were only three females out of about twelve students, only one of them was above a 7. This session, however, there are quite a few very attractive females in my class. One of them in particular easily qualifies as a 10. The first day of class, I sat down a couple of seats over from her in the front row, but I came home angry with myself for failing to talk to anyone, apart from asking two girls sitting together if this was the right class (even though I knew).
Yesterday was the second day of class. This time as I was in the lobby trying to remember where the restroom was, one girl, a solid “8”, asked me where I was going, claiming she didn’t remember where the class was. I instead told her I was looking for the restroom and if she knew where I could find it. Wasn’t until I actually got to the rest room that I started thinking “Damn, I should have walked her to class.” (It’s not like I had to go that bad). Later on I realized she was one of the two I’d asked on the first day about class. When I entered the classroom, I sat down next to a girl I though was the one who talked to me outside. I sat down one seat over from her. I proceeded to make conversation with her, and realized she was a different girl. But it didn’t matter. I’d say she was definitely an “8” as well. We talked about the usual stuff—work, school, class, etc. I was kind of pleased with how I handled myself, and she seemed to be pretty friendly. When the class ended, I talked to her a little more and sort of walked her out of class into the hallway, although I could feel myself losing my confidence, afraid she might think I was being too clingy and not leaving her alone and all that.
During the fifteen-minute break, I saw those two girls sitting outside, having a cigarette. I didn’t go outside, because it seemed pretty obvious that they were friends, and I find that intimidating. I’ve had experience dealing with girls who are friends. Who knows what they’d be saying to each other about me after I left? During the break, I also see the “10” dart out of the building as she’s talking on her cell, and the girl I talked to in class was nowhere to be seen. After class had ended, I saw the “10” coming out of the ladies room as I was standing around waiting for my ride, but she seemed in a hurry to leave, and I didn’t want to appear too eager by stopping her in her tracks.
I’d like to talk to as many girls in the class as I can. But how do I do that effectively? On one hand, if I sit next to or talk to a different girl every day, it’ll be obvious to the other girls what I am trying to do. I’d almost have to make an effort to talk to a lot of the guys in the class, just to make things less obvious, which I really don’t want to bother with. However, if I talk or sit next to this one particular girl too much, she may get annoyed with me and end up wanting me to leave her alone. I’d like to establish a connection with at least one girl in the class, but I’m not really sure how to do it. How do I accomplish this without inviting negativity?
Yesterday was the second day of class. This time as I was in the lobby trying to remember where the restroom was, one girl, a solid “8”, asked me where I was going, claiming she didn’t remember where the class was. I instead told her I was looking for the restroom and if she knew where I could find it. Wasn’t until I actually got to the rest room that I started thinking “Damn, I should have walked her to class.” (It’s not like I had to go that bad). Later on I realized she was one of the two I’d asked on the first day about class. When I entered the classroom, I sat down next to a girl I though was the one who talked to me outside. I sat down one seat over from her. I proceeded to make conversation with her, and realized she was a different girl. But it didn’t matter. I’d say she was definitely an “8” as well. We talked about the usual stuff—work, school, class, etc. I was kind of pleased with how I handled myself, and she seemed to be pretty friendly. When the class ended, I talked to her a little more and sort of walked her out of class into the hallway, although I could feel myself losing my confidence, afraid she might think I was being too clingy and not leaving her alone and all that.
During the fifteen-minute break, I saw those two girls sitting outside, having a cigarette. I didn’t go outside, because it seemed pretty obvious that they were friends, and I find that intimidating. I’ve had experience dealing with girls who are friends. Who knows what they’d be saying to each other about me after I left? During the break, I also see the “10” dart out of the building as she’s talking on her cell, and the girl I talked to in class was nowhere to be seen. After class had ended, I saw the “10” coming out of the ladies room as I was standing around waiting for my ride, but she seemed in a hurry to leave, and I didn’t want to appear too eager by stopping her in her tracks.
I’d like to talk to as many girls in the class as I can. But how do I do that effectively? On one hand, if I sit next to or talk to a different girl every day, it’ll be obvious to the other girls what I am trying to do. I’d almost have to make an effort to talk to a lot of the guys in the class, just to make things less obvious, which I really don’t want to bother with. However, if I talk or sit next to this one particular girl too much, she may get annoyed with me and end up wanting me to leave her alone. I’d like to establish a connection with at least one girl in the class, but I’m not really sure how to do it. How do I accomplish this without inviting negativity?
