Second date... no love for home movies?

[Omerta]

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Donno why img code is off... but this is a fun one so far.

Background: HB7.5 25yr old Polish chick, career oriented, artsy, was a troublemaker when younger, met online, went for a coffee date 1.5 wks ago, she proposed a lame walk second date on a Sunday, I was busy so just didn't bother following though, making new plans now.

Options:
a) agree and amplify, hold the date type
b) rationally mock that I've had success before (probably not smart)
c) Propose venue change, dont like this option

Obviously, I need to build some more rapport... any other options I didn't consider?

 

[SgtSplacker]

She thinks you are going for the easy lay, I don't think it's about the movie. And I don't think it's a good idea to tell her you really only wanted to see a movie. Just ask her out on a couple girly dates, then invite her for a movie again.

 

[Omerta]

Good point, I'll go this route I think:

"I usually just tell them about my floral couches and they swoon! It's cool if you're not comfortable yet - I hear bowling is pretty rad"

 

[yougottaknow90]

Avoid the exclamation marks when texting.

 

[Omerta]

I typically do, out of the recent 10 messages to her - those were the only ones with them.

Apparently shes not a bowling fan with no counter offer... the back and forth is kinda lame. Moving her to the backburner...

 

[yougottaknow90]

I typically do, out of the recent 10 messages to her - those were the only ones with them.

Apparently shes not a bowling fan with no counter offer... the back and forth is kinda lame. Moving her to the backburner...

good call. what did you say after she declined bowling?

 

[Omerta]

Might be over the top but..

thats too bad... I suppose I won't ask you to join my petition to make it an Olympic sport

is lawn darts and curling out too? You'll break my heart

 

[plate's_empty]

trying too hard....I'd suggest NC until she makes a move

EDIT: she snubbed you and now you're throwing her "options" for her to decide on...... that's a slippery slope to fall into. She's got the power now.

 

[visions]

she knew you were planning an easy lay, and she wasn't looking for one...

if you just want sex she proabably isn't worth the hassle.
if you are seeking ltr (which i doubt you are given your text), give it another go
but realize easy sex is probably out the window. if you decide another go, be conservative. or you may just wait for her to contact you, depending how you feel

 

[Zarky]

You're already done for. Your texts and "joking" come off as desperate. Find a girl who has no problem coming over to your place (and sucking your ****) on a second date.

 

[Valentino14]

HB7.5 25yr old Polish chick

Ask her if she can come to your place to prepare your Polish Sausage. :crackup: get chicks that want to come over.

 

[Burroughs]

she's age 25 and uses the word *YIKES!*

what is she a cartoon?

Dump her

waste of time

find a girl who doesn't mind the svck and fvck ASAP

 

[SamTheHobit]

Maybe just go for a walk in the park?

 

[Omerta]

trying too hard....I'd suggest NC until she makes a move

EDIT: she snubbed you and now you're throwing her "options" for her to decide on...... that's a slippery slope to fall into. She's got the power now.

The "options" are far from serious, if you're considering power in that way then she had it all when I asked her to hang out in the first place. The nose dive would to say "OK, so what should we do?"
Shes not being very compliant and I'm leaving for work next tuesday for about 20 days so I was attempting to push it a bit further than just NC and wait... if it burned now or later its still the same result.

A ltr is not really on my radar. If she was cool enough and we clicked after secks I'd consider it... but that point is FAR away. Its not like shes never had a ONS in her life... I just didn't excite her enough on the first impression.

A walk in the park would be boring as hell, I'm not a big fan of it. I'd prefer to go do something that way if she's a bore its not a waste of time.

 

[Korrupt]

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Donno why img code is off... but this is a fun one so far.

Background: HB7.5 25yr old Polish chick, career oriented, artsy, was a troublemaker when younger, met online, went for a coffee date 1.5 wks ago, she proposed a lame walk second date on a Sunday, I was busy so just didn't bother following though, making new plans now.

Options:
a) agree and amplify, hold the date type
b) rationally mock that I've had success before (probably not smart)
c) Propose venue change, dont like this option

Obviously, I need to build some more rapport... any other options I didn't consider?

Sounds like a total kunt...

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

I think she's at the point now to where she's going to give an excuse for anything you suggest. Even a walk on the beach and a candlelight dinner...with some mariachi singers playing in the background.

Only hope now is to run into her by chance somewhere and re-prove your alpha self. Or you could just say **** it and go caveman, take a shot in the dark. Tell her to grab a bottle of scotch and be at your place in an hour....and to hurry the fvck up.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

http://i47.tinypic.com/15gdlhx.png
Donno why img code is off... but this is a fun one so far.

Background: HB7.5 25yr old Polish chick, career oriented, artsy, was a troublemaker when younger, met online, went for a coffee date 1.5 wks ago, she proposed a lame walk second date on a Sunday, I was busy so just didn't bother following though, making new plans now.

Options:
a) agree and amplify, hold the date type
b) rationally mock that I've had success before (probably not smart)
c) Propose venue change, dont like this option

Obviously, I need to build some more rapport... any other options I didn't consider?

Home movies? I hope you aren't talking about setting up a projector to show her slides of your family trip to a National Park. lmao. That used to be a thing everyone dreaded when visiting other peoples places. Yet now people can't get enough of it on Facebook!


If she doesn't want to do any of your suggestions and she's into art and was a troublemaker when younger Google/Youtube places around your area to see if they have a Graffiti Hall of Fame. (Usually in not so nice neighborhoods.) She may like the "danger" element along with the art then take her for drinks and back to your place. Run that idea by her. She may be into it. *I don't know how bad certain parts of Alberta are but if they are too dangerous than scratch that idea and see about a graffitti art gallery then out for drinks and back to your place.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L-wi1FsxzvI

 

[Zarky]

Also in my experience, Slavic chicks (Russian, Polish & Eastern European) are awful. Gold digging control freaks with a cruel streak. You basically have to be in the Russian Mafia with hair on your knuckles and a severely sloping brow to get any respect from them.

If you look at true slavic chicks, the hottest ones are almost always with the most ape-like, fattest, hairiest, dumbest neanderthal men you've ever seen. Why? Because in Eastern Europe that is the alpha. A guy who can't do simple arithmetic but who can kill others with his bare hands.

 

[Hydrak]

**** coffee dates, take her for a walk in the park then convince her to come home to you and watch your nice paintings/drink some coffee or some sh1t.

Edit: next her, she seems retarded. And like the above poster I agree with eastern european girls being control freaks and EXTREMELY status horny. I usually avoid them like the plague.

 

[Omerta]

Home movies? I hope you aren't talking about setting up a projector to show her slides of your family trip to a National Park. lmao. That used to be a thing everyone dreaded when visiting other peoples places. Yet now people can't get enough of it on Facebook!


If she doesn't want to do any of your suggestions and she's into art and was a troublemaker when younger Google/Youtube places around your area to see if they have a Graffiti Hall of Fame. (Usually in not so nice neighborhoods.) She may like the "danger" element along with the art then take her for drinks and back to your place. Run that idea by her. She may be into it. *I don't know how bad certain parts of Alberta are but if they are too dangerous than scratch that idea and see about a graffitti art gallery then out for drinks and back to your place.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L-wi1FsxzvI

Thats a good idea, I'm not from here originally so I don't know what level the 'bad' neighbourhoods are. I'll use it in the future when the weather is better... getting a blast of snow today in goddamn April! Kills the riding weather.

That's funny when you guys say that about slavic chicks, they are usually some of the hottest. Roosh writes about them as if they are godlike... although I did stop reading his blog.

I haven't talked her since the other night. She double texted me yesterday around 4pm and the strikes again with the yikes

"Yikes for the snow.. :S"

I didn't bother responding, might invite her to go shooting today but I'm kinda hung over.