I looked through over 200 of his archived post to come up with the following. He's a lot older then most of the people here and has to step his game up 10 times harder to win young girls. A afs legend? Comment on whatever or just save it for whatever...
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1) Learned how touchy-feely-receptive she is before you invite her anywhere.
2) If the finger hasn't been wet, then you don't let her know where you pay the rent!
3) You DON'T give women chances. You correct their mistakes.
4) Women *want* men who *don't* want them nearly as much as the women do.
5) Never want a woman more then she wants you.
6) Give to her only *after* she has given to you.
7) The moment a woman sees she'll get whatever she wants from you, you've lost your value and sparkle in her eyes.
8) When a woman sees you as undesirable, you'll be taken for granted and walked all over.
9) Nothing makes a woman see you as desirable, more then another woman finding interest in you.}
10) If you don't give a woman something *to* be pissed about every now and then, she'll find something on her own, and that will be harder to get out of
11) If you don't direct her, she is going to direct both herself and you.
12) The thing you *most* want to watch, in the beginning, is the individual's face as you're saying and doing things.
13) Take one item, become proficient at it and accept the fact that if you had known more, you would of gotten more women then you did by just using and becoming proficient in just that one area. When you have easy, automatic proficiency with that one item, take another and do the same thing. Keep repeating it, and you will soon learn that when you have about seven proficient things, you will know and have much more then guys who have two-three dozen things, but aren't very proficient at any of them.
14) Don't use Introductions. Use what you see at the moment to make your introduction. Either say "hi" and lead right into a comment or question, or simply lead into a comment or question.
15) As long as you continue to go out to "pick up women", you are going to have problems because you're turning the simple little act of meeting and getting to know people, into some kind of chore, and something that you have to get a "win" on.
16) If you keep making this something you have to do, you're not going to be very successful in doing it.
17) Add to your repartee what makes her feel comfortable.
Add to your repartee what is fun to her.
Add to your repartee what is sexy to her.
Add to your repartee what is romantic to her.
Add to your repartee what is exciting to her.
Blend the commonality together, and enjoy that magnificent creature and her wonderful body.
18) I just repeat back to them what they want to hear, which I get by asking them certain leading questions: what makes you feel good, what makes you feel sexy, etc., at the appropriate time in the discussion.
19) See the good and uniqueness in yourself so you feel really good/great about yourself, and present it.
20) Know what you want, know your own preferred style.
21) Never ever use money to obtain women or to keep a woman. (You'll have to do so from that point on, if you do otherwise.)
22) Accept the fact that no matter how much you know, or how good you become or are, you are *never* going to get every woman you would like to have, or all the women you would like to have.
23) Get over you fear of meeting and talking to women.
24) See what women are showing you about themselves so you can create a discussion from it.
25) Listen to what women are saying, so you can build and lead a discussion about it.
26) Know where you want to go and where you are going (leading the discussion, providing the kino). This includes not fighting with a woman, but rather using what she gives you in conversation to have her accepting what you want.
27) Learn to see more then just a body; learn to say no; learn to walk away and not fear having another, better woman in a matter of minutes.
28) "Flower" your conversations emotional details.
29) Add one new item at a time to your repartee, never adding a second
until you have that one perfected, or just don't want to use it
anymore.
30) Don’t go into the pro leagues(bars, clubs, etc.) until you have completed the minors.
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Notes
1) Learned how touchy-feely-receptive she is before you invite her anywhere.
2) If the finger hasn't been wet, then you don't let her know where you pay the rent!
3) You DON'T give women chances. You correct their mistakes.
4) Women *want* men who *don't* want them nearly as much as the women do.
5) Never want a woman more then she wants you.
6) Give to her only *after* she has given to you.
7) The moment a woman sees she'll get whatever she wants from you, you've lost your value and sparkle in her eyes.
8) When a woman sees you as undesirable, you'll be taken for granted and walked all over.
9) Nothing makes a woman see you as desirable, more then another woman finding interest in you.}
10) If you don't give a woman something *to* be pissed about every now and then, she'll find something on her own, and that will be harder to get out of
11) If you don't direct her, she is going to direct both herself and you.
12) The thing you *most* want to watch, in the beginning, is the individual's face as you're saying and doing things.
13) Take one item, become proficient at it and accept the fact that if you had known more, you would of gotten more women then you did by just using and becoming proficient in just that one area. When you have easy, automatic proficiency with that one item, take another and do the same thing. Keep repeating it, and you will soon learn that when you have about seven proficient things, you will know and have much more then guys who have two-three dozen things, but aren't very proficient at any of them.
14) Don't use Introductions. Use what you see at the moment to make your introduction. Either say "hi" and lead right into a comment or question, or simply lead into a comment or question.
15) As long as you continue to go out to "pick up women", you are going to have problems because you're turning the simple little act of meeting and getting to know people, into some kind of chore, and something that you have to get a "win" on.
16) If you keep making this something you have to do, you're not going to be very successful in doing it.
17) Add to your repartee what makes her feel comfortable.
Add to your repartee what is fun to her.
Add to your repartee what is sexy to her.
Add to your repartee what is romantic to her.
Add to your repartee what is exciting to her.
Blend the commonality together, and enjoy that magnificent creature and her wonderful body.
18) I just repeat back to them what they want to hear, which I get by asking them certain leading questions: what makes you feel good, what makes you feel sexy, etc., at the appropriate time in the discussion.
19) See the good and uniqueness in yourself so you feel really good/great about yourself, and present it.
20) Know what you want, know your own preferred style.
21) Never ever use money to obtain women or to keep a woman. (You'll have to do so from that point on, if you do otherwise.)
22) Accept the fact that no matter how much you know, or how good you become or are, you are *never* going to get every woman you would like to have, or all the women you would like to have.
23) Get over you fear of meeting and talking to women.
24) See what women are showing you about themselves so you can create a discussion from it.
25) Listen to what women are saying, so you can build and lead a discussion about it.
26) Know where you want to go and where you are going (leading the discussion, providing the kino). This includes not fighting with a woman, but rather using what she gives you in conversation to have her accepting what you want.
27) Learn to see more then just a body; learn to say no; learn to walk away and not fear having another, better woman in a matter of minutes.
28) "Flower" your conversations emotional details.
29) Add one new item at a time to your repartee, never adding a second
until you have that one perfected, or just don't want to use it
anymore.
30) Don’t go into the pro leagues(bars, clubs, etc.) until you have completed the minors.
