Search for something more interesting than sex

[DJ4Life]

I once read this quote

"An intellectual is someone that has found something more interesting than sex."

Wow that qoute can't be more right. A mortal hopelessly stranded in the desperate quest for sex is like a bird being trapped in a 2 feet cage unable to spread its wings and journey into the outside vast world.

When the only desire you have is sex, you limit your possible accomplishments you would have had if your desire was set something else.

When the only thing you see is sex, you limit your perception of the world around you that otherwise would have let you see wisdom and the truth.

This board has always taught AFC not to be desperate for women, but let's face it, desperation for sex eventually leads to desperation for women too, or even worse in some cases. And in my opinion, in the majority of circumstances, the source of desperation for women actually comes from desperation for sex.

I know for a fact that the savage animal urge for sexual intercourse is built deep inside of us, awakened with the rise of horomones during puberty. But imagine if somehow we can minimize that urge, or maybe control it. The possibility for DJing is endless.

Im not that smart, and yet so far i haven't found anything that is more intersting and attractive than sex yet

But hadn't all the great people that emerge from the history of mankind found "It"? At least for a period of their life time, enough for them to accomplish what they had to do, or what they were so insanely passionate about.

Sun Tzu found it in the studying of the Arts of War. Alexander found it in the conquest and expansion of his empire. Beethoven found it in music. Edison found it in inventing. Now if all their lives they were chasing after women, i just dont see them accomplishing what they had accomplished.

I am not saying that we should all be like them, doing nothing but writing a book about military strategies, starting wars, and blowing ourselves up making little lightbulbs etc, but just IMAGINE, if a person can resist sex while knowing, and able to ultilize all the secrets and techniques of DJing flawlessly, he would truly be an alpha male with any women down on his knees, just begging to be banged. But you know what? Although all these fine hot babes literally naked in front of you voluntarilly gets you all hot and hard, but you can still say "No." Because you have a passion in life that is more significant and placed higher than sex. You can have sex, or leave it, any time, anywhere, and with anyone.

I think it's probably one of the greatest power and self control any mortal can achieve. And if it is achieved, like i mentioned before, the possibility of what you can accomplish then is almost endless. You have the potential to be a president, be the greatest rock star ever known, anyone you want.

It's just what i have been thinking last night, any opinions or critisisms are welcome.

 

[resilient]

Or, how about this quote from Jlaix (RSD instructor, also in The Game) opened at the Cliff's convention 2006 recently with

"Sex is for losers, it's for people who don't have anything to do."

Despite his reputation as the badboy comedian of the PUA community,
Jlaix spoke about a recent metamorphosis that he's had in his life.
Having spent the past several months in Spain, he decided to change
his life around. He spoke of learning about new cultures,
developing 3 new skills (every three months) such as dance lessons,
language classes, stand up comedy, etc. This is for the purpose of
adding value to life and giving value to others.


He covered so many territories when it comes to life and pickup
that one could not be impressed by the vast knowledge and wisdom
that Jlaix has garnered in his 30 years. He spoke of pushing
oneself to take action. You should not aim for perfection, but for
consistency. Other memorable quotes, "Return to center, move
forward. Play to your strengths. Be different. Be unique."

I think it's true, if we focus ourselves off our carnal desires for sex we can accomplish a lot in life with the concentration and dedication of a genius mind. I forget where I read this but someone said the most powerful men in past society were single and often obstained from sex.

 

[Unregistered]

I've found that the key to my happiness was the realization that there is a big difference between ephemeral pleasure and long-term satisfaction. Only the latter leads to happiness.

I haven't found anything ultimately satisfying about casual sex except as maybe a form of validation, and even that is shallow and unreliable. There are better ways to feel good about yourself. Never rely on a woman to determine your self-worth.

I'm not trying to denounce sex, but there are much, much more important things in life. I certainly don't define success or happiness by the amount of women a man has bedded.

The way I determine the value of an action is to ask myself, "What will this amount to?" That's when I came to the realization that becoming to become a better man one must learn to resist banging the pleasure button every chance he gets. Self-denial = self-improvement.