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Rubato
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I'll spare you all the unnecessary details right here - I'm seeing a girl and I don't know how to manage my life's contingencies right now in order to f*ck her. I'm in a rather unfortunately unique situation as I have lost my license for the next 6 months and cannot drive without risking 30 days in jail, live with my hyper religious parents and 3 brothers, and she lives with her hyper religious mother. Her very obnoxiously loud dog makes sneaking in or out impossible, and like I said, I can't drive.
I've been scarce on this website lately because as I started getting more successful in life (not just with women) I realized that it was much more valuable to try at life and fail on my own merits than to consult the internet world of SoSuave every time I needed to make a decision.
I'd like some wisdom here.
I'm in an LTR with a girl I met around Christmas time. I have not seen any BDP/craziness red flags. She has her stuff together from her work ethic, academic life, to her job. She knows how to be a lady and treats me like a man. And she treats me better than any girl I've ever had. Whenever someone has to make a decision, she let's me know what she wants, but she always defers to my wishes, always seeming happy that I made a direct decision.
I've also been making an attempt to rediscover my religious nature in my absence... I was brought up in a very conservatively traditional evangelical church and tend to agree with that line of thinking. My LTR grew up just about amish (literally, she was in the traditional apostolic church) and so has very similar values.
Well, some of this may be because you just can't perpetually withhold your sexuality as a man (or a woman), some of it may be that old habits die hard. But I can't help myself anymore. I want to f*ck the living daylights out of this girl. And I feel like my hesitation towards doing so is making her want it badly.
I knew this was going to happen somewhere in the back of my mind. This was way before we started "dating". I would just kiss her casually. Then we started making out. Now clothes are starting to fall off. The problem is that I do not have (at least that I'm aware of) an accessible environment to have sex with her. When she stays later, my dad has a tendency to come down and "check on us". Her mom does the same thing. And I feel like given her religious convictions, sex is going to need to be something that she'll need to get "caught up in" rather than plan. Obviously I could book a hotel room for us somewhere, but I just don't like that idea... it's not even that I don't think it would work, I legitimately like this girl and don't want our first sexual experience to be something that feels sleazy.
She works 9-5 Mon-Fri so there's no time during the day she could come by when my house would otherwise be empty. My parents are not planning any weekend trips anytime soon. The next time I'll have the house to myself *may* be sometime next month when my little brother has this church thing he goes to that my parents take him too... and that all depends on whether my 2nd youngest brother goes with them (he does sometimes) and whether my brother closest in age goes to hang out with his GF.
Too many ifs.
Now that it's getting warmer outside, I could see taking her to a park, but it's still pretty d*mn cold out. This girl wants it and so do I. I don't hardly have to do anything. She is all over me. I don't have to start kissing her. I don't have to start touching her. She was so wet tonight, I could feel it through my jeans through her jeans!
Any ideas of what I could do with this? This escalates literally every time we're together. She's stayed over at my house on nights she's had to work till 3AM before not wanting to leave. I have to kick her out sometimes. So maybe I will just end up f*cking her on my couch and hope my dad doesn't come down and that she can be quiet about it.
I've been scarce on this website lately because as I started getting more successful in life (not just with women) I realized that it was much more valuable to try at life and fail on my own merits than to consult the internet world of SoSuave every time I needed to make a decision.
I'd like some wisdom here.
I'm in an LTR with a girl I met around Christmas time. I have not seen any BDP/craziness red flags. She has her stuff together from her work ethic, academic life, to her job. She knows how to be a lady and treats me like a man. And she treats me better than any girl I've ever had. Whenever someone has to make a decision, she let's me know what she wants, but she always defers to my wishes, always seeming happy that I made a direct decision.
I've also been making an attempt to rediscover my religious nature in my absence... I was brought up in a very conservatively traditional evangelical church and tend to agree with that line of thinking. My LTR grew up just about amish (literally, she was in the traditional apostolic church) and so has very similar values.
Well, some of this may be because you just can't perpetually withhold your sexuality as a man (or a woman), some of it may be that old habits die hard. But I can't help myself anymore. I want to f*ck the living daylights out of this girl. And I feel like my hesitation towards doing so is making her want it badly.
I knew this was going to happen somewhere in the back of my mind. This was way before we started "dating". I would just kiss her casually. Then we started making out. Now clothes are starting to fall off. The problem is that I do not have (at least that I'm aware of) an accessible environment to have sex with her. When she stays later, my dad has a tendency to come down and "check on us". Her mom does the same thing. And I feel like given her religious convictions, sex is going to need to be something that she'll need to get "caught up in" rather than plan. Obviously I could book a hotel room for us somewhere, but I just don't like that idea... it's not even that I don't think it would work, I legitimately like this girl and don't want our first sexual experience to be something that feels sleazy.
She works 9-5 Mon-Fri so there's no time during the day she could come by when my house would otherwise be empty. My parents are not planning any weekend trips anytime soon. The next time I'll have the house to myself *may* be sometime next month when my little brother has this church thing he goes to that my parents take him too... and that all depends on whether my 2nd youngest brother goes with them (he does sometimes) and whether my brother closest in age goes to hang out with his GF.
Too many ifs.
Now that it's getting warmer outside, I could see taking her to a park, but it's still pretty d*mn cold out. This girl wants it and so do I. I don't hardly have to do anything. She is all over me. I don't have to start kissing her. I don't have to start touching her. She was so wet tonight, I could feel it through my jeans through her jeans!
Any ideas of what I could do with this? This escalates literally every time we're together. She's stayed over at my house on nights she's had to work till 3AM before not wanting to leave. I have to kick her out sometimes. So maybe I will just end up f*cking her on my couch and hope my dad doesn't come down and that she can be quiet about it.
