School starts next week!

[Boricua_33015]

Something that is covered in the DJ Bible is social status.

But there isn't really a post that covers it in-depth.

I am starting school next week on a clean slate. I currently have no freinds. I know some people from last year but no freinds which I hang out with or have their numbers. I decided to ditch my only 2 freinds from school last year because they treated me like sh*t. Almost got into a fight with both of them, it got really hostile, and still is. I admit though that its my fault and the reason why they treated me like sh*t was because I got too emotional and I took the teasing WAY too seriously so that made me more prone to more teasing.

I have no problems talking with girls. I got the whole "women" part of the DJ mindset down. I beleive I am going to be a lady killer when school starts. I know this because of the great summer I had involving girls.

I have lost 22 lbs of fat during the summer and continue to lose weight.

All that being said; I have a problem making GUY freinds. Basically ever since I ditched my last 2 freinds I developed a view of guys as being hostile all the time. I don't trust other guys because I see potential hostility in most guys nowadays.

Now I get nervous talking to guys. I get more nervous with guys my size or bigger (Im pretty big) than with nerds or skinny lookin wimps. But I don't make it apparent at all. I talk in a confident manner. I know how to handle teasing but still the uneasiness is still there and it bothers me.

Enough rambling....

I need some tips on making guy freinds. I have no car, and I currently have absolutely no contacts. Perhaps the step by step process of making a guy freind that I can eventually hang out with on the weekends. Maybe I can get into a group.

I will be coming to school the first day trying to greet everyone I know. My enemies; a pity laugh. I will be as talkative and outgoing as I can push myself to be the first day.

That way I can have people at ease when around me. So the next step, to take it further, making them freinds is what I need help on.

Thanks

 

[digitalrat]

Sup man, I live in Pembroke Pines. Maybe we could meet up sometime.

 

[Mr. Latte]

I live in Miami Lakes...we should all chill sometime.

 

[digitalrat]

Cool, I live the exit right before Miami Lakes going South on I-75.

Give me acouple weeks to recover from my accident. I totalled my car and broke my collar bone. So I have no transportation and wearing a brace.

 

[Smooth as Anything]

You post a lot, stop and grow some balls.

I won't answer this, I feel like I'm talking to a wall.

 

[Boricua_33015]

Smooth:
The last time I made a thread it was about them 2 sisters that had very high IL remember? Guess you didn't read that one. That 3 weeks ago and your saying that I post alot?

This is not a matter of growing balls. This is a matter of knowing how to make freinds and ungayingly number closing a guy.

Last time I had a good freind was in elementary and early middle school. Ever since then I had bad freinds who always teased me and treated me like sh*t. So maybe I was doing something wrong. Don't tell me I dont try because I really do.

Now I just find it hard to trust another male.

When I asked for a guy's number in the past, I came off kind of needy for a freind and the guy would ask me "why!?" in a way like he didn't want to befriend me.

Of course that was in the past when I was an AFC.

I feel like I have improved on almost all aspects of the game. Just need to improve social status because Im sick of bein a loner.

Get me now?

Stop bein so damn stupid you aint Mr. Perfect. For all I know you could be as smooth as the fukin Rocky Mountains.

Mr. Latte and digitalrat that would be great if we could chill. If your really down to chill we could chat over AIM. My s/n is xXTha 0neXx.

 

[oreo_renegade]

The quickest way to make guy friends is to make GIRL friends.


I made a lot of girl friends when i switched schools, and they introduced me to their guy friends, and i high-fived them and then just chilled out in the group with my chick friends and the guy friends.

One of the coolest guy's I know I met through a chick friend.

Also, I dont havea ton of guy friends anyway, i have like one "friend" who i hang out after school sometimes, and then i have a sh1tload of acquintances. However it's easy to hang with guy friends, just spend a few days chilling with em, at lunch or whatever, and then invite em to your house to hang out.

or invite em to go someplace like movie or arcade, etc.

 

[Boricua_33015]

Well right now I cant invite anybody to my house because the house I live in isn't mine or my dad's. We both live off his girlfreinds roof.

But in about a month... because of problems with everyone in the house, we are turning the garage into my room.

Its gonna be one big ass room! And I can invite people over. already have a set plan for how Im going to organize my room. ****s going to be awesome!

When I ask people to come to my house, Id have to ask more then one person so I don't look like a loser, being by myself right? But how do I get the people to my house if they don't have a car? I dont have a car.

If I invite people to go to the movies, Id have to tell more than too right? I guess I can get a ride from my parents then or just ride a bus.

What exactly do you say to invite a person to your house, or to the movies or something, without sounding gay, or needy?

 

[Boricua_33015]

BTW, here in Miami, everyone is into the clubscene, and the party scene. Like 1 or 2 parties every weekend. The most popular people go. They are also into get togethers at people's houses.

More or less 80% of people are into drugs.... at least drinking.
Everyone like to hang out in groups. My school is big, so there isnt no 1 popular group There are LOTS of popular groups. There is no way you can know everyone in the school You always see like 10 or more new people everyday. Theres more than 5,000 people that attend. So its huge.

Eh,. now that I know what the majority of the people like..... they like big ballers with cars and money so they can go to clubs, they are into drugs....

Me I have no money, no cars, no contacts or connections to anything except weed. I could smoke weed about twice a month but I dont like doing it much because I work out......

!!!!!

I think I just need to wait for school to start and then get accustomed to and talk to lots of people then figure out a strategy.

 

[ReD MaFiA]

Originally posted by Boricua_33015
What exactly do you say to invite a person to your house, or to the movies or something, without sounding gay, or needy?

"Yo muthafvckaz!! Get youz azzes by mah crib, i gots mad liqua an' treez so grabz tha biznatchez an' get them rimz rollin'"

 

[Brazilian_Blues_Boy]

Is it just me, or is it really easier to make Female friends and very hard to find male friends?

Isn't it funny how girls always complain that other girls are very false and jealous and that's why they like to have a lot of male friends, while us boys used to have a lot of male friends and few female friends?

Then, lately, I have noticed that I have few male friends, and it's hard meeting new guys because mostly they're unreceptive or simply a bunch of jealous a$sholes??

It's something that got me thinking lately... There's a role reversal going on in my life... I'm seeing that girls are really sweet and easy to get to know, while guys always seem to envy me or hate me...

And my school buds are getting kind of distant.
They have game, but is simple, and they get girls mostly because of their looks alone.

It should be like the curse of DJ or something like this. While you become so good and attractive to the ladies, all the rest of the male population of your environment isn't, so they envy you and hate you. Guys are too proud of themselves to "learn from" or to "look up" to someone better than them with women.

I wonder if this happens to you guys too?

Not that I'm the Gay-friend of all the girls, who walks around them all day and well you know the type... I hang with my buds, play soccer, but, I find myself having more fun when I'm around the girls...

Is society living a role reversal situation where guys are acting more and more like girls, and girls acting more and more like guys?

BBB

 

[Zangatti]

Well, Boricua, I feel similar to how you are feeling. I can't seem to make any NEW guy friends at my new school. I suppose the reason behind that is that I am afraid of the fact that some of the chicks that are interested in me at the school might see the guy walking next to me, and get all the attention instead of me. Another possible cause could be similar to yours, because I did have bad friends in my previous school (last year) not because they teased me too often (a guy that always cries takes the crap instead of me) but because they would very often just plain ignore me, probably because my sentences didnt have at least one "sound effect" in them such as pffffkkkkkkkkktcchhhh!!! or pppppppkkkkkooooooof!!! and maybe also because I didn't talk about video games, TV, movies, and talk toilet humor like all four were the only reason I lived. At any rate, I feel what you feel, except maybe not physically because i live in the desert, you don't.

 

[RawkinKaoticStyle]

yo man..


i was writing this long as thing but then i just figured out that its the exact same thing as if your DJing chicks man, well i mean of course you wouldent go that deep into it with sexual kino , haha but .

me and my homies kino eachother

sometimes we crack jokes on eachother - aka neg hits

you might even look in their eyes

if you were to act like a ***** to then then they will treat you like one

its all the same

the best way ive gotten guy friends though was through things that i do , weather it be dancing , or the drawing i do , or maybe were partners in a project , thats where ive gotten my closest friends.

 

[Sato21m]

hey mr latte i live close to goleman so thats miami lakes we should chill sometime

 

[The Antichrist_Star]

Originally posted by Brazilian_Blues_Boy
Is it just me, or is it really easier to make Female friends and very hard to find male friends?

Isn't it funny how girls always complain that other girls are very false and jealous and that's why they like to have a lot of male friends, while us boys used to have a lot of male friends and few female friends?

Then, lately, I have noticed that I have few male friends, and it's hard meeting new guys because mostly they're unreceptive or simply a bunch of jealous a$sholes??

It's something that got me thinking lately... There's a role reversal going on in my life... I'm seeing that girls are really sweet and easy to get to know, while guys always seem to envy me or hate me...

And my school buds are getting kind of distant.
They have game, but is simple, and they get girls mostly because of their looks alone.

It should be like the curse of DJ or something like this. While you become so good and attractive to the ladies, all the rest of the male population of your environment isn't, so they envy you and hate you. Guys are too proud of themselves to "learn from" or to "look up" to someone better than them with women.

I wonder if this happens to you guys too?

Not that I'm the Gay-friend of all the girls, who walks around them all day and well you know the type... I hang with my buds, play soccer, but, I find myself having more fun when I'm around the girls...

Is society living a role reversal situation where guys are acting more and more like girls, and girls acting more and more like guys?

BBB

BBB... my brother, I know exactly what you are talking about man. In HS... most of the guys were jealous of me and my three other partners in crime. They would try to hate on us because we always dressed well, and because would have rather spent our time talking to the ladies than messing around with those losers. So definitely... I think the roles are changing a little bit. Dudes are getting catty and jealous, and I've met some pretty cool girls in the last couple of months.

The Matrix: Revolution™

 

[RawkinKaoticStyle]

OMG man yes...

all i ever get is looks


"they think everything is ungrateful because everything looks great"

 

[dip]

SUp dawg here are some ideas..

Since you feel like its easy for you to get girls, chill with a girl you like and one of her friends. Tell her that it would be dope if the 2 of ya went on a double date (the one that you like, her friend and a date) And of couse, be funny, show that guy that you are a DJ on the date, and im sure you and him will become good friends.

Get a hobby like RKS said...breakdancing, djing on turntables, rapping, graffiti, anything you like, and meet people thru that. Me and osme of my friends did the talent show for breakdancing and we met so many new people like that!!

Crack jokes in class, and talk to some of the guys in class. IF u have any projects work with them and ****.

If u need more ideas ill try to think of some and tell u later, but basically just be mad chill, funny, and kool and everythin wil lcome to u this year.

ALSO-why do they make fun of you? Make sure u shower/dress nice/dont smell like **** all day lol..

 

[RawkinKaoticStyle]

hey the elements ! haha dip

 

[MaGiC_PiMp_69]

Originally posted by Brazilian_Blues_Boy
Is it just me, or is it really easier to make Female friends and very hard to find male friends?

Isn't it funny how girls always complain that other girls are very false and jealous and that's why they like to have a lot of male friends, while us boys used to have a lot of male friends and few female friends?

Then, lately, I have noticed that I have few male friends, and it's hard meeting new guys because mostly they're unreceptive or simply a bunch of jealous a$sholes??

It's something that got me thinking lately... There's a role reversal going on in my life... I'm seeing that girls are really sweet and easy to get to know, while guys always seem to envy me or hate me...

And my school buds are getting kind of distant.
They have game, but is simple, and they get girls mostly because of their looks alone.

It should be like the curse of DJ or something like this. While you become so good and attractive to the ladies, all the rest of the male population of your environment isn't, so they envy you and hate you. Guys are too proud of themselves to "learn from" or to "look up" to someone better than them with women.

I wonder if this happens to you guys too?

Not that I'm the Gay-friend of all the girls, who walks around them all day and well you know the type... I hang with my buds, play soccer, but, I find myself having more fun when I'm around the girls...

Is society living a role reversal situation where guys are acting more and more like girls, and girls acting more and more like guys?

BBB

yo i totaly agree with ya. like last year in the first semester i macked like crazy i had like 10 - 20 chickz after me. it was crazy i mean one group of them would yell my name if they saw me walking down the other side of the street lol. but i had no guy friendz, then in the second semester i stopped pimpin cuz i was feeling down and somehow i started to get to know more guy friends and hand out with them at launch and stuff. So the way i see it is either u get lotz of azz and no friend or u get friends but no azz. Maybe this year i'll try getting friends first then later macking the babez up.

 

[Lost]

opls. school started 2 weeks ago for me