Hi guys,
I've been seeing this girl for about two months. We're not official yet but we already treat each other like bf/gf.
Now here's the thing that's been bothering me. These past few days I feel that she acts differently. I initiate contact more than she does, she often replies my texts without asking something back, she rarely asks questions about me, sometimes takes long to reply texts, etc. So I decided to go NC until she contacts me first. Finally she contacted me, just the usual hi. After this I decided to ask her what's going on, is there something wrong? After some hesitation she answered that she's just pondering about our relationship. That I constantly talk about marriage and our future together but she feels she needs to get her life together first. So I said, forget those things I say about marriage, let's just take it slow. I know, I'm too desperate for a marriage. I thought that with her high interest, it would be okay to talk to her about that. Moreover, she agreed when I first talked to her that I want this relationship to be serious and aim for marriage. But I don't know, did she change her mind or something...
A day passed after I said that and she's still distant. So for now I decided to not initiate contact until she's her normal self. You know, just to "erase" my previous neediness. Am I doing this right? Did I blow my chance with her or is there still a chance? Thank you.
I've been seeing this girl for about two months. We're not official yet but we already treat each other like bf/gf.
Now here's the thing that's been bothering me. These past few days I feel that she acts differently. I initiate contact more than she does, she often replies my texts without asking something back, she rarely asks questions about me, sometimes takes long to reply texts, etc. So I decided to go NC until she contacts me first. Finally she contacted me, just the usual hi. After this I decided to ask her what's going on, is there something wrong? After some hesitation she answered that she's just pondering about our relationship. That I constantly talk about marriage and our future together but she feels she needs to get her life together first. So I said, forget those things I say about marriage, let's just take it slow. I know, I'm too desperate for a marriage. I thought that with her high interest, it would be okay to talk to her about that. Moreover, she agreed when I first talked to her that I want this relationship to be serious and aim for marriage. But I don't know, did she change her mind or something...
A day passed after I said that and she's still distant. So for now I decided to not initiate contact until she's her normal self. You know, just to "erase" my previous neediness. Am I doing this right? Did I blow my chance with her or is there still a chance? Thank you.
