Saying just "oh" alone/Question

[Solja J]

Should you never ever say just "oh" after a girl says something to you about herself. Also I wanted to know if you guys could help me out a little. I'm kinda shy guy who had this encounter with a beautiful female last school year. I was just sitting in Geometry class one day and I decided to stand up to get something ou tof my pocket. The bell had not yet rang yet and she was just entering the class. So she came over and gave me like a 30 second hug, lying her head on my chest with her arms wrapped around me. Whenever she saw me in the hallway she always said "Hey Jerry!" Another time she rubbed my hair and then said hey Jerry. Myself being the shy guy I am just said a little hey back. Well she did something similar in the 9th grade and did that in the 10th. My first day of highschool upon walking to my bus she wrapped her arm around me just to say "
Hey Jerry! You see she use to ride my bus until she got her own car mid-10th grade. She live like a 1/2 a mile away ftom me. I was just wondering is it to late to tell her how I feel. Have I been defeated by my shyness again?

 

[mrsoy]

Originally posted by Solja J
Should you never ever say just "oh" after a girl says something to you about herself.

i hate it when a chick is being insecure and is like "oh im so ugly/fat/gross" i often say 'oh' but im sure theres better shlt to say. its like 'if you werent hot do you think id be talking to you?

 

[Solja J]

Thnx for the quick response....Do you have an answer for my second question?

 

[Raven125]

Originally posted by Solja J
Should you never ever say just "oh" after a girl says something to you about herself. Also I wanted to know if you guys could help me out a little. I'm kinda shy guy who had this encounter with a beautiful female last school year. I was just sitting in Geometry class one day and I decided to stand up to get something ou tof my pocket. The bell had not yet rang yet and she was just entering the class. So she came over and gave me like a 30 second hug, lying her head on my chest with her arms wrapped around me. Whenever she saw me in the hallway she always said "Hey Jerry!" Another time she rubbed my hair and then said hey Jerry. Myself being the shy guy I am just said a little hey back. Well she did something similar in the 9th grade and did that in the 10th. My first day of highschool upon walking to my bus she wrapped her arm around me just to say "
Hey Jerry! You see she use to ride my bus until she got her own car mid-10th grade. She live like a 1/2 a mile away ftom me. I was just wondering is it to late to tell her how I feel. Have I been defeated by my shyness again?

NEVER! GO OUT AND GET LAID!

 

[Solja J]

^What are you talking about^?

 

[Raven125]

Originally posted by Solja J
^What are you talking about^?

Go for her, dont miss another chance.

 

[Solja J]

Thanks man I just wish it were that easy and it probably is. I just dont know how to approach her after all of this. She might ask me why I'm just now telling her this and I wouldn't know what to say. Dang I wish I weren't shy!

 

[Raven125]

Originally posted by Solja J
Thanks man I just wish it were that easy and it probably is. I just dont know how to approach her after all of this. She might ask me why I'm just now telling her this and I wouldn't know what to say. Dang I wish I weren't shy!

Review the bible. Memorize it.

 

[Raven125]

Oh and always remember that there will always be someone better. After this girl there are many others, just take it easy with her, nothing to be nervous about.

 

[drixsa]

Do not jus go for it.

find some way to re-connect your relationship

but DO NOT STALK HER

my best piece of advise would be to forget about her and move on but it doesnt sound like you are willing to do so

IM her to say whatsup? if you must

even call her if you have enough of a relationship to do so

 

[Solja J]

thnx for your advice

 

[seloifter]

the best peice of advice I can give you (if you're going to make a move) is DON'T BE TOO EAGER!
You'll scare her away!

Here I am going to lay it out with a brilliant analogy.
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Imagine you are trying to catch a rabbit.
How would you go about it?

Would you run after it?
It would run away from you, and outrun you easily. Not only that, but it would never return to you: it would be too afraid.

Would you beg it to come to you?
It will casually meander away.

But lay a carrot on the ground in front of you, and it will come to you. While its focus and trust is on the carrot, you can easily (but slowly, or its instincts will cause it to flee!) pick it up!

 

[oreo_renegade]

Something tells me your going to screw up :\

lol


How exactly are you plannign on handeling this?

from how you speak, "ill tell her how i feel" It seems like you are going to screw yourself.



Chicks dont give a **** about how you feel, they care about what you do.


Your best option here is to casually move the relationship along.

Shes so eager to see you, shell probably take it fast with you too.

Just ask her to go some fun place with you, dont try any of stupid sh1t like "i have to talk to you...." and gett all dramatic, that will backfire on your ass.


Just go out wiht her, have a fun time, KINO her, and shell make a move on you most likely.




Also, I dunno much about that girl, but some girls are just social huggers.


In english some big time popular girl just hugged me while standing next to me at the teachers desk, wihtout saying a word, just hugged me, and said my name, and then loked at me.

they do all sorts of crazy sh1t just to make you panic, they test you constantly to see if your a man.


I also know another chick who hangs around every guy, touching them here, hugging them and grabbing them, etc etc etc.

Make sure you really know about this girl before you get laughed at for acting like a dumbass.

remember, always stay fun and laugh, smile, enjoy the game.

Games are meant for fun, unfortunately some poepel get their fun from making others lose, you wont let this happen to you.

 

[hardwork]

Abandon all "rules", ye who enter here!

Originally posted by Solja J
Should you never ever say just "oh" after a girl says something to you about herself.

This is basically what I do if I can tell she's fishing for a compliment (in the off chance that I'm listening to her, anyway ). I like to use "yes" more often, though:

Originally blabbed by compliment-angling girl
"I really like this shirt."

Originally said by Von Neuen
"Yes."

Saying "oh" after things like that isn't anything other than annoying. Now, if she says that something makes her look fat, "oh" might just keep you out of the dog house (trust me).

Originally posted by Solja J
I was just wondering is it to late to tell her how I feel.

No, it's not. Quite to the contrary, it's too early.

This wanting to rush is a recurring problem with "newbies". Snap out of it, man! Relax and go with the flow and all of that, but also make sure you're flowing down a path that leads to where you want to go (IE, The Bible, as has been posted), 'cause you're not going to get to Margaritaville if you're walking towards the Land of Oz.

The "trick" to the Bible is keep in mind that it's not supposed to be a set of rules: not only CAN the Bible be bent, it SHOULD be bent. The Bible is only there to guide you in the right direction; it's there to guide you in the teachings of the quasi-philosophy of Don Juanery, not to tell you exactly how to live your life. Take the Bible, read it, and adopt it, just make sure that you don't get so caught up in what to do and what not to do that you choke. 'Cause, baby, it ain't fun--I've been down that road, and it's a ticket to Hell: Level 5 and the River Styx.

 

[Solja J]

Thnx for the response....I'll take yall advice and not try to rush it!

 

[Solja J]

Well I guess it is she doesn't even say hey anymore. She just comes up to my freinds and say hey how are yall doing. Ask everyone except for me. I guess trying to make me feel good, but its cool.

 

[DuckMan]

Rabbits? Carrots? instincts?

You are a GOD

 

[Solja J]

what?