Say you could make every woman you ever met fall in love with you, would you do it?

The_Reaper

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2006
Messages
284
Reaction score
1
Location
Europe
If you could cast a spell on every woman you ever spoke with to fall in love with you, and you knew of course you could not even take all of them out, never mind have a relationship with them, would you do it?

Would this cause more pain to the women you would reject than the pleasure it would give them to feel such feelings for you?

Is there any selfishness is trying to make most women attracted to you, yet knowing you will not reciprocate for many of them?
 

L777

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 1, 2005
Messages
1,206
Reaction score
20
Age
38
Location
manchester UK
What, if you could choose which ones? Hell yeah. If it was every woman and you didn't have a choice, cos then avery woman in the world except one would be heartbroken.

Why do you ask? Got your hands on a magic lamp or something?
 

The_Reaper

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2006
Messages
284
Reaction score
1
Location
Europe
L777 said:
What, if you could choose which ones? Hell yeah. If it was every woman and you didn't have a choice, cos then avery woman in the world except one would be heartbroken.

Why do you ask? Got your hands on a magic lamp or something?
No, say you had no choice.

The question is really about players, not magic spells or any of that ****.

Is it selfish to try to make most women attracted to you, yet knowing you will not reciprocate for many of them?

Do you give a damn if a woman loves you but you don't feel anything for her?
 

L777

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 1, 2005
Messages
1,206
Reaction score
20
Age
38
Location
manchester UK
The_Reaper said:
No, say you had no choice.

The question is really about players, not magic spells or any of that ****.

Is it selfish to try to make most women attracted to you, yet knowing you will not reciprocate for many of them?

Do you give a damn if a woman loves you but you don't feel anything for her?
Well I personally think being 'in love' with someone takes a long time to develop....being attracted to someone is something different. The player makes women attracted to him and then, depending on his motives, leaves them afterwards or makes them a part of his rotation etc.

I have no guilt over making women attracted to me and then finishing with them after the deal is sealed. We both have a good time and thats all there is to it. Always leave them better than you found them.

If a woman actually was properly in love with me and I didn't feel the same way, I wouldn't pretend to love her back....it would just be wrong.
 

The_Reaper

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2006
Messages
284
Reaction score
1
Location
Europe
L777 said:
Well I personally think being 'in love' with someone takes a long time to develop....being attracted to someone is something different. The player makes women attracted to him and then, depending on his motives, leaves them afterwards or makes them a part of his rotation etc.

I have no guilt over making women attracted to me and then finishing with them after the deal is sealed. We both have a good time and thats all there is to it. Always leave them better than you found them.

If a woman actually was properly in love with me and I didn't feel the same way, I wouldn't pretend to love her back....it would just be wrong.
What if she doesn't want to seal the deal and wants instead to stay with you?

What about potential stalkers?
 

Ll Principe

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 28, 2006
Messages
185
Reaction score
0
Location
South Africa
I wouldnt want every woman to fall in love with me but what I do is what a Don Juan would do and that is to never leave any woman without her being satisfied. That is the mark of a true DJ.

Lets imagine every woman fell in love with you... you would be running down the street like in that one movie "The Bachelor." I would like it if I could get every 5/10 woman I hook up with to fall in love with me though that would be tasty:)
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,502
Reaction score
63
Location
Galt's Gulch
The_Reaper said:
...Is there any selfishness is trying to make most women attracted to you, yet knowing you will not reciprocate for many of them?
Is this just to boost your ego or is there some other underlying purpose?
 

Sir Juanalot

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 10, 2006
Messages
234
Reaction score
5
Location
England
The_Reaper said:
What if she doesn't want to seal the deal and wants instead to stay with you?

What about potential stalkers?
What if you get hit by a bus tomorrow?

What if you lose your **** in a bizzarre gardening accident?

What ifs are wasted energy.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,573
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
I'd get the CEO of Ebay to become infatuated with me and have me on he personal payroll for about 1 million a month
 

bman

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2002
Messages
442
Reaction score
1
thats a tough one

pros:
bang any chick you want
get sugar mommas

cons:
wouldnt your family members fall in love with you?
you would have about a zillion stalkers

i would say no, i wouldnt want it.
 

Axcell

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 12, 2007
Messages
520
Reaction score
6
I've felt like I could do this - and I can tell you that no is a good answer. Why would you want women who don't like you to fall in love with you? That would be leading them onn, and I hate seeing their faces once they realize you do not feel the same way towards them, it hurts them very much, and it will hurt you even MORE to see them this way.
Find a woman you absolutely are attracted to and work on her - that is it.
 

mrRuckus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 14, 2005
Messages
4,444
Reaction score
87
The_Reaper said:
Is it selfish to try to make most women attracted to you, yet knowing you will not reciprocate for many of them?
Who gives a sh1t? They all go out dressed like wh0res to attract men knowing full well they will have nothing to do with most of them.

So yeah. They could all suffer from a severe case of ruckusitis for all I care. Think they worry about all the hard ons that will never get relief that they cause?
 

L777

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 1, 2005
Messages
1,206
Reaction score
20
Age
38
Location
manchester UK
To the OP, you should write a movie script about this guy who wished for every woman to fall in love with him, and then how it turns out bad but his one love remains or something.

A comedy....someone like Jim Carey could star. I can actually just see it now...:D
 

Poonani Maker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2007
Messages
4,407
Reaction score
929
I have mixed feelings on this in that, concerning women who are spiritually (usually a large ambition like getting married Quick) connected to me before they are sexually attracted to me, I feel more of an obligation not to lead them down that path the way I'd lead some hoe from a bar or club down to my c0ck. Some of my sisters really need it, but I'd rather just keep them at bay as best I can until or "if" one of them really "tries" to do better with me (maybe lose weight, always look her best, act alone all the time on her cellphone trying to get me to see her alone, always say "hi" when we are around each other even if we've got nothing to say).

The ones that are just young or naive to fall into my trap, I don't feel sorry for, because we have nothing in common outside of sexual affection. She may feel bad but, that's tough, I Really don't know you, and you're not in the same boat as these other girls over here who I know share my beliefs or outlooks on life (matters not pertaining to sex, dancing, drinking, blowing money, tanning, swimming, school even etc). I've had the ones act like they can't go on with life, because I refused to show them attention after I had showed them a little attention and my wallet, and they walk around aimlessly, looking for me or another me, well even if they found me, I would not let her head fall on my shoulder or heart. She's just gonna have to live with the facts that she can't have me, and I'll forget her name or call her by her last name.
 
Joined
May 23, 2006
Messages
2,436
Reaction score
11
Depends on what the price is spiritually. I mean - something would be wrong with me spiritually if I was really that vain. I should be happy without seeking validation or wanting every, or any woman for that matter to provide happiness in my life.

That's one vein. Another vein is spells are witchcraft and occult -- manipulating other people. That's not right. If someone loves me, then I would like that to be natural or genuine, something that is of God, not some devilish counterfeit.

The fact is that true inner person we all are - is not what is being liked - it's the image that someone has of us that is liked, and not who we really are and that would not be acceptable. I dont want people to fall in love with a perceived image they have of me under a spell because that's not the real me. They aren't really connecting with me - they are connecting with someone else and would be nothing more than mindless zombies under the influence of something to me.
 

Tha Realnezz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 12, 2004
Messages
1,352
Reaction score
8
uh...no....lol................
 
Top