Satisfying sex life

[manfromitaly]

Who among you is really successful with women? I'd be curious to know what your strong point is.
In my life I have known 2 people in particular who are very successful, and they are the opposite of each other, one is very elusive almost unable to hold a normal conversation, I would call him mister attraction.
The other boy, on the other hand, studied psychology and started working for an Italian pick-up artist company as a kid, and has a truly excellent conversational game.
I believe that the thing they have in common and that we who would like to improve our dating life should keep in mind, is INTENT. What do you think about it?

 

[CornbreadFed]

We all have different battles to face. What works for me might not work for @Deadshot for example. Find someone similar to you in personality tbh and mimic their success. Playing with Fire’s style helped me the most because we have a similar personality.

 

[manfromitaly]

My success was always higher when I let the women come to me. Example, if I was on a dating app I didn’t break my neck swiping right. I chose out of which chicks I wanted to holler at and moved into action.

Another key point was weeding out the flakes and red flags very early.

It all comes down to what scale are we judging by also. If a dude has a 90% success rate with 3s and 4s vs a dude 50% success with 7s and 8s. Who’s more successful?

If I understand well what you said I can say that we are very similar, in the sense, especially in the last year and a half I came out only with girls who have come forward, it has been not chase for a while.

However I understand your speech on success with women, I was curious to know if any of you could attribute to a certain characteristic or action, the real strong point of his game

 

[manfromitaly]

We all have different battles to face. What works for me might not work for @Deadshot for example. Find someone similar to you in personality tbh and mimic their success. Playing with Fire’s style helped me the most because we have a similar personality.

I agree, everyone has their own qualities and one of the best ways to improve is to watch content from pick up artists with similar characteristics

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

PUA's are going to tell you what you want to hear rather than what you need to hear so they can make money and make you feel like you are benefiting from their insight, only to continuously update their program and charge you more money. You're better off working on inner game and confidence, and establishing whether you want to be direct or indirect with approaching. There's benefits to both, but I recommend direct for numerous reasons. Most PUA's are indirect with their approaches, and will leave you confused and frustrated (downfall of indirect). When you're direct, you set the frame, you are confident, masculine, up front, and detect whether the girl is a reciprocator or rejecter. If you want to learn direct game, read mode one by Alan Roger Currie. I also recommend The Book of Pook which is basically scriptures that teach inner game for men to attract women.

 

[manfromitaly]

PUA's are going to tell you what you want to hear rather than what you need to hear so they can make money and make you feel like you are benefiting from their insight, only to continuously update their program and charge you more money. You're better off working on inner game and confidence, and establishing whether you want to be direct or indirect with approaching. There's benefits to both, but I recommend direct for numerous reasons. Most PUA's are indirect with their approaches, and will leave you confused and frustrated (downfall of indirect). When you're direct, you set the frame, you are confident, masculine, up front, and detect whether the girl is a reciprocator or rejecter. If you want to learn direct game, read mode one by Alan Roger Currie. I also recommend The Book of Pook which is basically scriptures that teach inner game for men to attract women.

I agree with what you say, for years I have been watching videos and reading books of different puas.

But in the end I think I've never really learned anything from them, in the sense that I've never tried to imitate them, it doesn't come naturally to me, they certainly helped me a little to take courage and put myself on the line, but I've always tried to be me himself,

and if I go to analyze "my successes" I can say that the only thing that then led me to the goal were good body language and escalation, nothing else that comes to mind, I think the important thing is to act, whether it's kissing her rather than inviting her home

Ok mate, I'll take a look