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SamePendo's prey, and complications.

SamePendo

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Well guys, my problem has ALWAYS been kino. Im not THAT of a sexual being, so kino IS needed. Other than that, im excellent. Everything I do comes off naturally.
Well, at the gym:
Ive known this girl from some while now. She is great.
The complication:
Today I remembered KINO, so I did anything I felt like doing to do so.
First thing I did was pushing her when she was in her bike heating up. I was a bit strong when doing so, I didnt drop her though, or anything similar.
Well then... (I dont remember each detail hehe) I played around, with my index finger, with her navel ring she has. Well, I actually played around with her skin, god, so soft, so tight.
Then, when I was helping her carry a 20kg weight (I dont want to get into details on why im not a niceguy for doing it, trust me) I went a bit forward, the weight touching her t!ts. Playfuly. I didnt hide it with any excuse, it was plain sexual-playful.
I THINK (I dont remember though haha, but she said something about it) with a weightbar (dont know proper name, a bar that has 2 weights at each extreme) I also did something similar to the weight. VERY light touching, not pressing or anything.
Turns out after I did this bar thing she says, firmly, but not angry, that ive been too ¨touchy¨ and next time she will slap me. Firmly, not in a funny tone. I believed her. But, at first I took it as a joke and laughed and she said ¨no! seriously¨ A bit startled by my laugh.
Well, we had further short conversation, but her IL got about 5% down id say, her mood.

Now, I know this wasnt really Kino, because it wasnt subtle etc. Id appreciate some feedback on kino. And comments on my mistake.

Btw, this girl just went up in MY IL. She is not a slvt, she is not easy, she demands respect and wont go around slvting with the first guy who makes her laugh.
 

squirrels

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Maybe too much touch on the boobies?

If you're just getting to know her, there are probably spots you want to touch and spots you don't. Start out with the hands and arms...then shoulders and lower back. Anywhere on the front of the body can get you into trouble...much more intimate than even the ass. We're all more sensitive on our ventral side than our dorsal side.

You have to work your way up to that...there's a difference between being a sensual, kinesthetic person with a woman and copping a feel.

Keep touching her...you've established that you like to touch. Just be a little more conscientious of WHERE and HOW you touch. You can get intimate...just work your way up to it. Boobie-touches take a lot of working up to, and don't go over well in public. :)
 

SamePendo

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Thanks!
(did you notice I made you a Master?) ;) !
 

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Originally posted by SamePendo
Thanks!
(did you notice I made you a Master?) ;) !
I don't think I deserve that title until I get laid...or at least get over all these damned ghosts and apprehensions.

Seriously, my advice is worth what you pay for it. :D
 
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