same old story, another 5er hit on

[Mr.Hash wid da Stash]

This is really getting me down boys, so on my smoke break at work a co-worker of mine starts talking to me and gets all friendly.... then asks if I wanna hang out sometime, I used the the old bullshyt excuse(the ones chicks use) that I've already got a girlfriend. God damn it!

I don't wanna bang supermodels I'm just looking for a 7+, but the 7+ girls aren't interested in me in "that way"

This brings me back to leagues (you're all probably tired of hearing about leagues but bear with me) you see I figured that these 5/10 girls hit on me because they believe they have a chance with me, like they think I'm not outta their league. So whenever an unattractive girl asks me out I feel real down, coz I think "jeez is this my range?, are 5/10 girls all i can get? because none of the ones I'm into aren't into me" You know what I mean fellas? I'm about a 6/10 I'd say and so have some of my buddies.

Know how frustrating it is that every girl I'm attracted to doesn't feel the same and all the girls that are interested in me I don't find attractive!? Very frustrating...... so what do you think it is? are these 5ers asking me out coz they think they have a chance? All I'd want is one 7+ girl to show me some interest....

Thanks dudes.

 

[Knicknack]

let me tell you how many hot women have come up to me and made the first move or asked me out. are you ready? ................................ you ready for this?????????? ZERO!!!!!!!!!!

only ugly women who never get asked go AFC and ask guys out. stop believing that hot women will throw themselves at you. this site is about how to deal with the hotties and how to get dates with them. once you progress you might even fvck one of them. keep reading the bible.

 

[Austin Allegro]

As the song goes, 'funny how the girls you fall in love with never fancy you/Funny how the ones you don't, do'.

Up until I found this site I thought that song illustrated a profound truth. But you CAN make things happen yourself, so get started and approach some sevens! Hell, aim high and try for some nines!

 

[Mr.Hash wid da Stash]

Knicknack, yeah I just checked out the bible, but why won't it download and save on my hardrive??? It only comes up on Adobe Acrobat, and there are like a sh*tload of different ones to download...

Yeah but Austin Allegro, wtf? you think I should just approach these babes even if there not showing any real interest? obviously if I were to get some signs of interest from these babes, I'm not too shy, I'd ask them out. Only ever asked one babe out from work (a definite 8+) who I thought was interested, but she "apparently" has a boyfriend, or so she said. Seems like all these babes are always taken And that chic from work, everytime I see her looking my way and I look back at her, she quickly looks away, don't really know what's going on there

 

[Austin Allegro]

Mr Hash - you should never have any fears about approaching women of any grade - even nines.

Here's an example.

Back in the day when I was a 23 year old AFC I saw a 9HB at a party. She literally took my breath away, but I thought, no, no, she's too good for me/too hot/too sophisticated etc.

But then some DJ instinct deeply buried within me said 'go for it, just go for it even if she blows you out'. So I did, and we ended up in an LTR for two years. Turned out she had seen me a couple of times before and wished I had approached her, but she was too shy to speak to me. Yet as an AFC I was convinced she was 'out of my league'.

What I'm saying is that on your smoke break for example I can't see any harm in you chatting up ANY woman you like. Unless she actually ignores you I'd say just go for it and try and charm her. Yes nine times out of ten you may get rejected but DJs know it's a numbers game. This is all covered in the bible.

 

[cyrano]

Ok, I understand where you are coming from, and did once have the same problem. The whole concept of 'Leagues' is self imposed. Nobody is telling you that this girl is too fine/good for you, it is merely a by-product of a lack of confidence. There is no woman too fine, or too good for you. Once you start believing that, then you will probably have a bit more luck.

As Austin rightly said- it is a numbers game. Like in sport- very few players score every time they get the ball. As for the 5s asking you out- at least it proves that you have the basic tools- i.e: you are obviously not repulsively ugly, and must have some good qualities. Therefore, if you add a bit of guts to what you already have, then you will get the better ladies.

Cyrano

 

[Knicknack]

http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/readers.htm

 

[AMF]

Sorry, but we all perceive leagues of attractiveness.

As world series I hate nothing more than to be hit on by someone from ivy league. NOTHING is worse for your confidence.

The might as well just come up to you, and say

"Your not actually that attractive, you know."

Damn. Makes me wanna smack them biatches in the mouth.

 

[OpenMind]

the league of the woman that hits on you is about them.. not about you.. the lower the woman's HB#, the more she has to pursue.. u just can't take it personally.. I have had some heffers chase me and HB9's go out of there way many times to ask me out.. but just because you have a female version of jabba the hut chasing your ass shouldn't lower your view of yourself..

 

[NewMan]

Know how frustrating it is that every girl I'm attracted to doesn't feel the same and all the girls that are interested in me I don't find attractive!? Very frustrating...... so what do you think it is? are these 5ers asking me out coz they think they have a chance? All I'd want is one 7+ girl to show me some interest....

Mr Hash - I consider myself mr Average in looks. Nothing special here - and thats my honest opinion of myself.

But, I've had one LTR for over 4 yrs with an LA 9+ - Total fvcking hottie - with a personality to match - and am currently dating another 8+

Here's the deal. You gotta work for it a little. You've got to approach these women - for a fact if your average looking these girls are not going to be swooing over you - so you have to approach them, talk to them and get to know them.

a lot of hot women of very self conscious. They've been pampering themsleves for years - because for many of them looks is all they have. They live by their looks. Their whole life is measured by the way they look.

The hot ones don't get hit on as often as you think - many guys will not approach them for the exact same reason you described (she's out of my league). So if you can talk to them - and you've got a good personality - your in with a shot.

Something else to think about as well. A lot of the time people don't want to date other people from work. It's a no-no to a lot of people.

Also, I know a lot of hotties who plain refuse to date anyone they meet in a bar or club (I know some as well who will) - so the point is, you've got to make the numbers game. Approach, approach, approach. There are women out there waiting for you - you just got to find them.

 

[ozzfest]

this tends to happen to me often as well. Always asking myself why the good ones won't pursue me but the bad ones do. In fact I've had to really fend off some of these HB5's.

Why is it us guys are often leery of approaching hot women but these HB5's have no problem coming on like gangbusters? I think women just think that a guy will go for anything ..and i know some guys who have gotten on my case in the past cuz i didn't go for it with some HB5.

 

[sux2bu]

Hey, war pigs need love too!

 

[bonjove]

What about if you have had hot ones hit on you?

Like 7,8,9s.....

And you know no real reason why......