sad story i heard from a good friend

[da_guy_wt_a_bus_pass]

I was talking to my lady friend last night on the phone. Shes just my friend and I am not attracted to her that way. We are pretty close and we were on the subject of how many people have we slept with. Then she told me something that I felt really sad and pissed about.

This is when she was about 15. Her best mate was chatting to some guy on the net. Her best mate and the guy hadn't seen each other, they just chatted. They later on swapped pics but the guy liked the other chick (my friend) in the pic. He sort of gets hold of the chick's email and arranges to meet her. He is visiting from another town btw.

The date seems to be going alright until the guy asks the chick to accompany him to his hotel where he was staying. THe chick thinks its daytime and shes just gonna go there for a few minutes. I know dumb idea but she was 15 back then and he was 23!!!. He starts to put the moves on her and chick tries to resist but cant. She keeps saying no but he still ends up fvcking her. Its her first time and the whole thing happens in a flash. Shes not sure what to do and is too scared to go to the cops. She just tries to move on with her life. She kinda starts to like him a bit, cos hes 23, independent, got a car... He tells her he really likes her and thats why he did what he did. He keeps saying sorry for what he has done but then goes back to his town.

Shes gonna be turning 18 now. And this dude still emails her asking her if shes got a bf and if shes had sex with someone else since then. Hes about 26 now. I can kinda see this chick has been hurt. She is kinda pissed off because she says he has something of hers that was very precious to her. I was speechless. If I saw the dude I would probably give him a good bash.

The guy is white and the chick is asian. Shes kinda cute. She hasnt slept with anyone since then. But its nice to know how desperate some guys get. 23yr old guy, 15yr old chick? Then being a rapist. This guy takes the crown for king of desperados.

 

[backbreaker]

okay... what's the question?

She made a stupid decision, and honestly I wou ldn't be associated wtih any one that easy if I were you.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

I don't get the point of the story or what the question is. So she was raped, now she is 18, she now likes the guy that did it to her and the guy likes her also. Are they gonna get married now?

btw, what did she expect going to the guy's room? that he was just gonna watch cartoons? In this day and age most people know that when a guy and gal go to a private place it ain't just to watch cartoons. I think most girls at 15 know that when their boyfriend wants to take em to a private place such as a motel room it ain't just to talk.

Considering the above, lots of rapes could be avoided if girls learned to say "NO" when a guy asks if she wants to go somewhere private, NOT when they are already in that private place.

 

[spider_007]

Originally posted by backbreaker
okay... what's the question?

She made a stupid decision, and honestly I wou ldn't be associated wtih any one that easy if I were you.

SHE GOT RAPED, YOU FVCKIN IDIOT. Are you that God damn stupid. Rape doesn't happen only when the chick is skeeming and is being held down.... Rape is also whe the chick gets bullied, and intimidated into it. THIS SOO PISSES ME OFF. I can't bolive there are idiots like this outhere. Because of that, this gurl is damaged for life. She will never have a healthy relationship with guys...... Im not NOT a womens rights freak, and i do have a view of women that is somewhat demeaning (because they deserve it) but to do that to someone INOCENT, makes me SOOOO MAD.

 

[duttylove]

Im as much against rape as the next guy, but the girl should have gone to the cops, she would have had him put away for sex with a minor at the very least

 

[Lost In Translation]

A Street Pimp's Perspective :

wow where do i start

ok for my DJ's that are upset i just wanna say if this story is true and it's 100% as the girl remembers it 3 years later

it is rape and it is a crime and i hate guys that do that $hit

they should be shot nuff said


now to what i think after seeing years of bad $hit on the streets

i'll start with the break down

This is when she was about 15

15

He sort of gets hold of the chick's email

yeah like a lucky dip just guessed it

and arranges to meet her

she AGREES to meet a TOTAL STRANGER

OFF THE MUTHA F*CKING INTERNET

she is 15

he is 23 !!!!!

and she AGREES TO MEET

He is visiting from another town btw

and so it goes

The date seems to be going alright

the DATE

with a TOTAL STRANGER

OFF THE INTERNET

at 15 years of age

until the guy asks the chick to accompany him to his hotel where he was staying

so now the date was making her nervous ? TOTAL STRANGER FROM OUT OF TOWN

off the mutha f*cking interent

aged 23 ( my guess older )

no... not making her nervous yet ???

THe chick thinks its daytime and shes just gonna go there for a few minutes

a few minutes to do WHAT ?

in her SMALL BRAIN a few minutes to do WHAT ?

snort a line of coke off the coffee table ?

what then ? sex ?

I know dumb idea

total stranger from out of town off the internet invites her to place where there are not witnesses who is alot older than her

yes dumb

but she was 15 back then and he was 23

when i was 15 i was running head on up against the cops and serious dudes trying to take my life

God gave us all A BRAIN

15 is not 5

15 is old enough to remember " don't trust strangers "

there are child soldiers in third world countries at age 10 that know when $hit is going down

He starts to put the moves on her and chick tries to resist but cant. She keeps saying no but he still ends up fvcking her

who took her pants off ?

ok before you flame me YES it sounds like she was raped from her story

especially this part

Its her first time and the whole thing happens in a flash

Shes not sure what to do and is too scared to go to the cops. She just tries to move on with her life

ok i'll give you the heads up in a minute but unless a chick/woman goes to the police i have a policy

I DON'T BELIEVE HER

i'll explain why in a minute

She kinda starts to like him a bit, cos hes 23, independent, got a car

the above line is the one we need to remember as DJ's

women do some dumb $hit and pay the price just like anyone who makes a stupid decision

women sometimes lie

ok but what about the fact THAT HE RAPED HER ????

is she mental ? is she lying ?

does she have stockholm syndrome ?

NOW SHE LIKES HIM WTF ?

Shes gonna be turning 18 now

3 years later

And this dude still emails her asking her if shes got a bf and if shes had sex with someone else since then. Hes about 26 now

slap yourself in the head Don Juan she is replying to his emails

yes the emails of the guy who raped her

I can kinda see this chick has been hurt. She is kinda pissed off because she says he has something of hers that was very precious to her

she is " kinda pissed "

raped and only " kinda pissed "

so pissed in fact that she LIKES HIM

and EMAILS HIM

3 years after the rape

I was speechless. If I saw the dude I would probably give him a good bash.

if anyone needs to be hit it's both of them

him for being a rapist ( see my comment to shoot )

and she needs a f*cking smack in the head to peform corrective brain surgery for :

not reporting to police
falling in love with rapist
getting into such a stupid situation
maintaining contact with rapist for 3 years
planning to marry rapist

But its nice to know how desperate some guys get

yes rapists should be shot

but how about we change what you said to include

ITS NICE TO KNOW HOW F*CKING STUPID SOME CHICKS ARE


now i am going to give you a few 100% real life stories that i have experienced with GIRLFRIENDS

Girl No.1 says she was raped at 14. i was like oh **** man thats bad tell me who did it and i'll go kill him.

i act like a crazy AFC and do it all like any man would.

6 months later she tells me she had sex with the same guy that raped her 1 week later

i was shattered man

i couldn't understand it

i was 19 years old and i had no idea how someone could be so fu**ing stupid

she broke my heart

Girl no.2 Girlfriend 2 years ago. she was a bad b*tch i didn't find out for 6 months. hooked up for some ex sex. BIG MISTAKE. this very bad chick says to me with an EVIL look in here eye after we have sex in my car. after we have an argument. she says WHAT IF I TELL THE COPS YOU RAPED ME

i swear my fellow don juans I **** A GEAR i FREAKED OUT

she had me

no way out

lucky i was able to talk my way out of it

but DAAAAAAAMN that was a f*cking hard lesson man

you gotta feel that $hit to know how much power women have in our world today and how BAD some women are

i have been to jail ( minor $hit ) so i really felt that lesson


Non Girlfriend examples

i have seen more chicks lie about being raped than those that told the truth

also just so you know from the other side so if you looking for a virgin

1. if they didn't like it they still a virgin
2. if they were drunk or tipy or high they still a virgin
3. if they were raped or raped in their mind they still a virgin

guys i wish there was some way i could just give you all the images and stuff i have seen chicks do on the streets so you know this $ht is real and you watch your back

i still go back to my rule after seeing chicks lie about rape

IF SHE DON'T TELL COPS SHE CAN'T GET MY SYMPATHY


and now for the encore for our 15 year old internet rape victim

where were her parents ?

daytime ? why wasn't she at school ?

where were her friends ?

when is the last time she SLEPT with him ?

i doubt he has emailed for 3 years especially with that COOL CAR that she loves

bro guard your heart

unless it's your family member

don't believe it unless she will go to the police station

and if it's your family member and she says no to telling cops

grab the b*tch by the hair and drag her to the police station

rapists should be shot



Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[squirrels]

She's trying to reconcile the dissonance in her mind from being raped by saying she really DID like the guy...and he's trying to reconcile his guilt by saying he really DID like her.

Maybe they'll get together and live bizarrely ever after.

I guess I have pity for rape victims...but I have a little bit of disdain for them for not being rape SURVIVORS. It seems like women who are raped constantly make things worse for themselves by bottling stuff inside. I don't agree with their decisions not to report it to the police, but if you're going to come to terms with it on your own, then COME TO TERMS WITH IT. If you hold it over your head for the rest of your life, then it's going to simply push you down. If you need help/support, people will be there for you, but seek RESOLUTION, not PITY.

Maybe this is how she resolves it in her mind, to convince herself it was some sick form of "love". I say let it go. What're you gonna do?

 

[TheRelic]

Summed it up fairly well LIT

 

[backbreaker]

Originally posted by spider_007
SHE GOT RAPED, YOU FVCKIN IDIOT. Are you that God damn stupid. Rape doesn't happen only when the chick is skeeming and is being held down.... Rape is also whe the chick gets bullied, and intimidated into it. THIS SOO PISSES ME OFF. I can't bolive there are idiots like this outhere. Because of that, this gurl is damaged for life. She will never have a healthy relationship with guys...... Im not NOT a womens rights freak, and i do have a view of women that is somewhat demeaning (because they deserve it) but to do that to someone INOCENT, makes me SOOOO MAD.

Dude, I get that she got raped, but I am a pretty blunt person.

First, even at 15, what the f uck was she doing putting herself in that situtation?

Also, what's done is done, even if this guy is her friend, why should he have to solve her problems?

I was in a similar situtation where a good friend of mine, who was also an attractive female, got abused by her dad for a while, and for years she would complain to me about her problems, but she enver wanted to do anything about them (like the story above))

Eventually Ihad to move on... I have more then enough problems of my own, rather than attending someone else's perminant pitty party.

I mean, it really is sad that there are some sick people out there like that, but either you are going to press charges and move on, or I have to move on, because otherwise she just wants to feel sorry for herself.

 

[Lost In Translation]

Quote - backbreaker
rather than attending someone else's perminant pity party

i agree



Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[spider_007]

Originally posted by backbreaker
Dude, I get that she got raped, but I am a pretty blunt person.

First, even at 15, what the f uck was she doing putting herself in that situtation?

Also, what's done is done, even if this guy is her friend, why should he have to solve her problems?............................................................
I mean, it really is sad that there are some sick people out there like that, but either you are going to press charges and move on, or I have to move on, because otherwise she just wants to feel sorry for herself.

I could be wrong but in my opinion, at 15, SHE DON'T HAVE A FREAKING CLUE, what she was doing. She was drawen in by a 23 year old INDEPENDENT MAN. what women could resist that. I'ts inate. It's in her blood from the moment she wraped her arms around her dads neck when she was an infint..............(Froid sh1t
but to say she new haw the world really works, is rediculis. At 15 chicks still think that there is such thing as a romance, perfect guy..........bla bla bla.....
and then she is taken to a room under false pretances.... and some a-hole wips out his thing, and just rips it in her, and boom done, couple of minutes and he is putting his pant on......
Im quiet sure that's not anything any women expects for her first time. And even tho he raped her, she still has a conection with him, and she always will. He was her first.

Anyway, i don't know what happend and haw it happend it's all speculation. It could be that she just wasn't happy haw her first time went and is all pisseda about it, who knows. And I agree with you. Nobody cares about your problems more then you do, doesn't metter haw big they are.

 

[Leporello]

Just for the record, a girl CAN get raped by a guy she likes. That's what 'date rape' is all about; if I girl likes a guy, but doesn't feel like having sex with him, and he forces her to.

 

[Engetsu]

Thank you for the b.s. detection, Lost in Translation

 

[casaanova]

She kinda starts to like him a bit, cos hes 23, independent, got a car... He tells her he really likes her and thats why he did what he did.

HA

The guy is white and the chick is asian. Shes kinda cute. She hasnt slept with anyone since then.

Pretty much explains it. If her parents found out they'd probably be trying to get them married. Must be nice to be White