S.O.S. Challenge

[apvcovenman_79]

ths is an email I wrote to doc love


your comments will be appreciated


I saw my girlfriend for about an hour last wednesday since I couldn't see her on thursday when she called me tuesday and said "can I see you thursday?" (we started datin' thursday most of the times 'cause she studies Arquitecture and it is a time demanding career). So most of the times she is busy with her stuff. This is happening quite often, we been together for three months,and I am able to stop calling her and she still calls me and I have to decide if I go out with her or not....on and off I can go out with her when she asks me for it...It happens also for other days like Friday, saturday or sunday... I do not have to do anything... Not calling her at all.. She just delights to be with me...
but here's the question doc:
She asked me yesterday to see her today even for a very short period of times(an hour or so) I wanted to say No(Challenge) because I will be busy... and also say to her "why not saturday? you will be having a class saturday morning" to that she added "it is another thing if you do not want to see me ...I'll understand ...if not then I'll accept saturday...I miss you that's all"
I already said yes to meet today... But how do you handle every suggestion she makes? saying no even if you do not have anything to do ? it is hard to say no when those calls come by surprise ... we're gonna meet today so how do you handle my suggestion of Saturday? Just by saying no? do I have to change plans for today? or do I remain consistent with what I said?
Do I skipp satuday and ask her for sunday? I WANNA WORK CHALLENGE ANd I DO NOT KNOW HOW ....

please help me out

thanks



WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK?

 

[Panther]

Hmm...

My thought is:

If you are a busy person, but she happens to ask you out at a time when you are free, then I don't see a reason of not seeing her.

If you got too much time on your hands, then get more hobbies, so she has to earn the privilege of sharing your precious few hours of free time u got. That's challenge...

ThePanther

 

[apvcovenman_79]

.......

Originally posted by Panther
Hmm...

My thought is:

If you are a busy person, but she happens to ask you out at a time when you are free, then I don't see a reason of not seeing her.

If you got too much time on your hands, then get more hobbies, so she has to earn the privilege of sharing your precious few hours of free time u got. That's challenge...

ThePanther

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but how you say no when you appear to be busy but you're not....for example....you just wanna read a book that night .... what do you say to her

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

she knows she has u already and u know u have her already - and u know she has very little time to see u due to her schooling then u come back and tell her u have other things planned and cant see her and try to make yourself a chalenge - HUH?

if she is so busy and wants to see u whenever shes has a free moment then that is a good sign - she obviously doesnt have time to see other men so i take it u r her priority outside of school - dont shoot yourself in the foot playing hard to get - your strategy just might backfire and erase what u so far have accomplished!

 

[apvcovenman_79]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
she knows she has u already and u know u have her already - and u know she has very little time to see u due to her schooling then u come back and tell her u have other things planned and cant see her and try to make yourself a chalenge - HUH?

if she is so busy and wants to see u whenever shes has a free moment then that is a good sign - she obviously doesnt have time to see other men so i take it u r her priority outside of school - dont shoot yourself in the foot playing hard to get - your strategy just might backfire and erase what u so far have accomplished!

what do I do with my suggestion of Saturday? i am not gong to mention anything to her...but if she does it ...I think I should skip it for sunday .... if she cannot I tell her "let's make it sunday"


what u guys think?

 

[apvcovenman_79]

please

Originally posted by apvcovenman_79
what do I do with my suggestion of Saturday? i am not gong to mention anything to her...but if she does it ...I think I should skip it for sunday .... if she cannot I tell her "let's make it sunday"


what u guys think?

please HELP

 

[jbbrain]

wow, youre a classic AFC

read the relationship advice on the site dude..read mr. fingers' newest post about breaking the limits.

 

[NewMan]

Just do whatever you wanbt to do.

She's seems into you, so see her if thats what you want.

You don't see her very often, so I think the challenge part is taking care of itself.

 

[apvcovenman_79]

shattering the limits

Originally posted by jbbrain
wow, youre a classic AFC

read the relationship advice on the site dude..read mr. fingers' newest post about breaking the limits.

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=41738


shattering the limits??

 

[Walden]

Dude this isn't a technique issue. Just stand up to your goddamn girlfriend already.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

just b the man and make the suggestion of what you'll b doing whenever- saturday - sunday - doesn't matter - just see the chick and b smooth with the kiss approach.