derringerG
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S.F. has gotten such a bad rap that the criticisms drown out one basic fact: S.F. is a HUGE city with tons of bars, clubs, concerts, endless social events, and a significant concentration of hot, single women.
Let's get the main negatives out of the way;
1. it IS true that there is a huge surplus of thirsty, socially awkward tech geeks. To make matters worse, most are making far more money than same age non-tech peers meaning they tend to throw huge wads of cash (or crypto) at the first woman who shows even the slightest sign of interest
2. as a result, many, probably the majority of women in SF develop an oversized ego well beyond their objective SMV in any other sane dating environment. The SF 49ers meme ( a 4 who thinks she is a 9) is overstated, but there are enough examples where this is actually true it can get a llittle scary if you fixate on it
3. the city is incredibly expensive; it's difficult to put together an inexpensive date, and even a single night of gaming can put a dent of hundreds of dollars into your wallet.
So, it seems like a recipe for disaster: egotistical women, severe male thirst and sky high prices for almost everything. But you would be wrong.
1. there are tons of very hot girls. Almost all of them are concentrated at specific times and in specific locations. You will find a lot of hot girls as long as you game college girls in college specific venues. Yes, these girls are typically traveling in their social circles as expected, but that's true anywhere. The good news is, there are lots and lots of collegs and universities and therefore plenty of hot girls
2. there are endless niches and scenes so you have plenty of options: hot sorority girls, goth chicks, EDM/House music enthusiasts, immigrant girls, Asian girls, etc.
3. there are a staggering number of bars and clubs throughout the city: again, you can find granola/hippie chicks, mainstream hotties, athletic chicks, hot chicks who are regulars at gay bars and after hours spots, etc.
There are a few "requirements"
1. have a thick skin: even when it's not immediately apparent, it can be shocking to deal with 4/5/6 caliber girls who not only ACT like hot girls, but are actually TREATED like hot girls. Don't get huffy. This is the alternate universe which is SF.
2. either set aside wads of cash like most SF goofs, OR better yet, find out where there are concentrations of hot girls in no-cover bars. Surprisingly the mission, which is a lower income hood with fewer pretty girls has the HIGHEST covers. Meanwhile venues in the marina which has the hottest girls from rich families have few covers.
3. Avoid the most crowded venues during peak hours. I have never seen bars and clubs get more crowded and become as utterly useless as those in SF during peak hours. It's like there no such thing as fire codes and every "hot" venue is seemingly trying to set a record to see how many warm bodies they can cram into a venue as possible. You're best off with day game and early evening gaming.
4. SMV is at a premium. Looks trump money in SF (as long as you have SOME money, of course). Millionaires are a dime a dozen. There is also a surplus of good looking guys. Still, you are much better off being good looking as opposed to flaunting your VC portfolio.
5. you're going to crash and burn an inordinate number of times as you ramp up in your learning curve. SF is not a friendly city. Few peope smile, and there is a very strong individualistic, cutthroat, sink or swim mentality in SF. Don't get burned out or become cynical if you find yourself stuck in SF for a while, even if it's just for a weekend! It really is not you, it really is the city.
Don't take anything personally while you're in SF. Just do your best to systematically collect PERSONAL data on what venues, neighborhoods, scenes and girls you click with and find success in and then concentrate your efforts accordingly.
Let's get the main negatives out of the way;
1. it IS true that there is a huge surplus of thirsty, socially awkward tech geeks. To make matters worse, most are making far more money than same age non-tech peers meaning they tend to throw huge wads of cash (or crypto) at the first woman who shows even the slightest sign of interest
2. as a result, many, probably the majority of women in SF develop an oversized ego well beyond their objective SMV in any other sane dating environment. The SF 49ers meme ( a 4 who thinks she is a 9) is overstated, but there are enough examples where this is actually true it can get a llittle scary if you fixate on it
3. the city is incredibly expensive; it's difficult to put together an inexpensive date, and even a single night of gaming can put a dent of hundreds of dollars into your wallet.
So, it seems like a recipe for disaster: egotistical women, severe male thirst and sky high prices for almost everything. But you would be wrong.
1. there are tons of very hot girls. Almost all of them are concentrated at specific times and in specific locations. You will find a lot of hot girls as long as you game college girls in college specific venues. Yes, these girls are typically traveling in their social circles as expected, but that's true anywhere. The good news is, there are lots and lots of collegs and universities and therefore plenty of hot girls
2. there are endless niches and scenes so you have plenty of options: hot sorority girls, goth chicks, EDM/House music enthusiasts, immigrant girls, Asian girls, etc.
3. there are a staggering number of bars and clubs throughout the city: again, you can find granola/hippie chicks, mainstream hotties, athletic chicks, hot chicks who are regulars at gay bars and after hours spots, etc.
There are a few "requirements"
1. have a thick skin: even when it's not immediately apparent, it can be shocking to deal with 4/5/6 caliber girls who not only ACT like hot girls, but are actually TREATED like hot girls. Don't get huffy. This is the alternate universe which is SF.
2. either set aside wads of cash like most SF goofs, OR better yet, find out where there are concentrations of hot girls in no-cover bars. Surprisingly the mission, which is a lower income hood with fewer pretty girls has the HIGHEST covers. Meanwhile venues in the marina which has the hottest girls from rich families have few covers.
3. Avoid the most crowded venues during peak hours. I have never seen bars and clubs get more crowded and become as utterly useless as those in SF during peak hours. It's like there no such thing as fire codes and every "hot" venue is seemingly trying to set a record to see how many warm bodies they can cram into a venue as possible. You're best off with day game and early evening gaming.
4. SMV is at a premium. Looks trump money in SF (as long as you have SOME money, of course). Millionaires are a dime a dozen. There is also a surplus of good looking guys. Still, you are much better off being good looking as opposed to flaunting your VC portfolio.
5. you're going to crash and burn an inordinate number of times as you ramp up in your learning curve. SF is not a friendly city. Few peope smile, and there is a very strong individualistic, cutthroat, sink or swim mentality in SF. Don't get burned out or become cynical if you find yourself stuck in SF for a while, even if it's just for a weekend! It really is not you, it really is the city.
Don't take anything personally while you're in SF. Just do your best to systematically collect PERSONAL data on what venues, neighborhoods, scenes and girls you click with and find success in and then concentrate your efforts accordingly.