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Rolling out alone to meet a girl at a club tomorrow

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I'm looking for some advice for tips on what to do tomorrow night in the club. I was invited by a girl who I'm interested in to go out to a club tomorrow night so I'm going to go. I haven't seen her in like 4 weeks, but the IL seems to still be high after last night's phone call.

Anyways, I'm going to be rolling alone unless one of my friends decides to go at the last minute, but I won't count on that. The club is huge (4 levels) so I'm not worried about standing around like a loser. If she asks, I'm going to tell her I split up with my friends. She's seen us do that before so it shouldn't tip her off that I'm out alone. Anyways, she doesn't really seem to care if I am, but I don't want her to recognize a pattern.

OK, the plan is to arrive at the club around 9 when it opens and it's slow. They have an open bar from 9-10 so I'm going to get my drinks then to loosen up and scope out the club. I'll try to talk to some people and have fun before she gets there, get comfortable.

When she gets there, I'll go hang with her for a while and I'm sure we'll do some dirty dancing. I'm just hoping she doesn't bring any guys this time, although we'd still get down even if she did. I'm trying to build off the momentum I built on the phone last night and go for a kiss close, at least. Unlike last time, I'm not just going to hang around her all night. After dancing with her a little bit, I'll make my way around the club again and try to have some fun. Later on in the night, I'll find her again and try to close the deal.

What do you guys think of this plan?
 

Walden

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Sounds like a solid plan to me D.
Even if worst comes to worst you can always go rock some baggable skank from the club.

Good luck and goosd hunting!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Impressive. I would make sure to get to know as many people as possible before she gets there. That will make it more YOUR place than hers. Who knows, you could impress her (show off) by introducing HER to a few people. ;)
 

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I always roll out solo to clubs. Here are a few words of advice:

-Go to the club when it is busy, that way you don't look like a stalker, standing around by yourself.

-When you have nothing to do, wait in line at the bar and pretend that you are getting a drink.

-Talk to as many guys and girls as you can.

-Don't worry about the girl you are planning to meet. Meet other girls in the club.

-Think as though you are having the best time of your life at all times.
 

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Actually, it looks like I might have some homies at the club tonight after all so I don't need to worry about this. Here's to a good night!
 
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