I have been a while on this form and I usually pook stuff. About 10 month ago, I started changing and improving and putting myself to use.
I became comfortable taking to girls and being around them. I treated my hobbies like they were more precious then women. I knew what I wanted and how to get it.
I was shrugging of that AFC guy within me and was on the road to Don Juan.
I met a girl one in younger than me in our high school. I didn't have any interest in her because my friend was attracted to her, but I still talked to her in a friendly way. After a few month we started to talk and have fun together.
Summer came and we were getting closer. We got really close to each other and we fell in love.
When summer ended and school started, I was a bit confused if I wanted her or not. I thought : “I have changed and I am sure I can get all the girls I want. Should I go for her, or should I look for other girls?” And that was when I was lost to my vanity and ego.
One month had passed since school started, and I barely talked to her. One day came when she of course had her hopes down that I would go for her, and started talking to another guy.
I didn't do anything about it the first week I saw her with him. I actually felt a strange happiness and didn't really care.
But after that week had ended my whole life changed. My heaven turned into hell.
I realized how much I love her.
I tried to fix things and I told her that I want her and I want us to be together. She was lost, and told me she has feelings for me, but she also have feelings for him. I believed the crap she said, and I told her that I can't be with her if she doesn't choose me. That was the last thing I did as a Don Juan I believe.
After that, I was crushed. I changed completely, but in a negative way.
I was always mad, unable to focused. I hated talking to girls, and I lost the smile on my face and the joy in my heart and life. All that I strived and fought for in my life was lost. I turned into a pessimist.
I was the exact opposite of what was written above 10 month ago.
The way I think changed and I lost all that I ever was. Now, I am a ****!ng desperate wimp.
I try talking to girls, but I can't remember what used to make it fun. I even stopped doing it because I am doing it all wrong. I am back at ground zero.
I hate what life has become the last 3 month and I can't bare it anymore. I am broken, I always lose, and all I do is weep and cry. I lost the most two precious things in life : me and her.
When I lost her, I lost myself. I tried so hard to win them back, but I just lost.
I told her many times I love her and got rejected. Desperate just doesn't attract girls, but I just can't seem to get out of this state of desperation. She is really a special girl ; the kind of girls you really want.
I want to win everything I lost.
I lost my dreams, patience, joy, love, peace, meaning of life, goals, passions, optimism.
Before, I wasn't completely satisfied with my life because I wanted so many things, but I had the most important things: joy, happiness and dreams.
What do you do when you are in so much crap?
How do you get out of this sh!t hole?
How do you break out of a life filled with sadness and desperation?
What do you do when your heart is torn apart, broken to pieces?
I tried many times to make things right, and in every time I failed harder.
Before, life was a gift to embrace ; Now it is immense pain to bear, and I can't keep up with it.
It has been 3 month I have been in a an eternal hell. All my thoughts are of desperation, fear, death and failure. It didn't use to be like this. I am at the bottom level of the AFC phase now, after I was climbing the Don Juan litter.
I just want to help myself and win back that love I lost along the way.
I became comfortable taking to girls and being around them. I treated my hobbies like they were more precious then women. I knew what I wanted and how to get it.
I was shrugging of that AFC guy within me and was on the road to Don Juan.
I met a girl one in younger than me in our high school. I didn't have any interest in her because my friend was attracted to her, but I still talked to her in a friendly way. After a few month we started to talk and have fun together.
Summer came and we were getting closer. We got really close to each other and we fell in love.
When summer ended and school started, I was a bit confused if I wanted her or not. I thought : “I have changed and I am sure I can get all the girls I want. Should I go for her, or should I look for other girls?” And that was when I was lost to my vanity and ego.
One month had passed since school started, and I barely talked to her. One day came when she of course had her hopes down that I would go for her, and started talking to another guy.
I didn't do anything about it the first week I saw her with him. I actually felt a strange happiness and didn't really care.
But after that week had ended my whole life changed. My heaven turned into hell.
I realized how much I love her.
I tried to fix things and I told her that I want her and I want us to be together. She was lost, and told me she has feelings for me, but she also have feelings for him. I believed the crap she said, and I told her that I can't be with her if she doesn't choose me. That was the last thing I did as a Don Juan I believe.
After that, I was crushed. I changed completely, but in a negative way.
I was always mad, unable to focused. I hated talking to girls, and I lost the smile on my face and the joy in my heart and life. All that I strived and fought for in my life was lost. I turned into a pessimist.
I was the exact opposite of what was written above 10 month ago.
The way I think changed and I lost all that I ever was. Now, I am a ****!ng desperate wimp.
I try talking to girls, but I can't remember what used to make it fun. I even stopped doing it because I am doing it all wrong. I am back at ground zero.
I hate what life has become the last 3 month and I can't bare it anymore. I am broken, I always lose, and all I do is weep and cry. I lost the most two precious things in life : me and her.
When I lost her, I lost myself. I tried so hard to win them back, but I just lost.
I told her many times I love her and got rejected. Desperate just doesn't attract girls, but I just can't seem to get out of this state of desperation. She is really a special girl ; the kind of girls you really want.
I want to win everything I lost.
I lost my dreams, patience, joy, love, peace, meaning of life, goals, passions, optimism.
Before, I wasn't completely satisfied with my life because I wanted so many things, but I had the most important things: joy, happiness and dreams.
What do you do when you are in so much crap?
How do you get out of this sh!t hole?
How do you break out of a life filled with sadness and desperation?
What do you do when your heart is torn apart, broken to pieces?
I tried many times to make things right, and in every time I failed harder.
Before, life was a gift to embrace ; Now it is immense pain to bear, and I can't keep up with it.
It has been 3 month I have been in a an eternal hell. All my thoughts are of desperation, fear, death and failure. It didn't use to be like this. I am at the bottom level of the AFC phase now, after I was climbing the Don Juan litter.
I just want to help myself and win back that love I lost along the way.