Right place, right time.

[MG81]

Any of you folk out there got examples of how a guy (it could be yourself), even an AFC, got laid/in a LTR without really making any DJ moves at all, but purely by being in the right place at the right time and a chick took a shine to him? Here's a couple:

My AFC buddy hadn't been to a nightclub or with a woman for almost four years till he joined up with me, a mutual female friend and some of her (female) work colleagues, none of whom I was interested in, recently (largely 6's and lower). I've been going to clubs for around 4 years, but with another set of friends, and have not once in that time got a number, used kino or anything (this site has saved me basically, my game was all wrong). My buddy's confident and outgoing, but still the kind of guy who puts women on a pedestal, and even chased our female friend off (she's in a serious LTR) by trying to get her to go with him. As it turns out, one of the work colleague chicks liked my buddy, (purely on face value, they didn't speak on the night) and asked our female friend to put him in touch with her. She did, they met up, and have declared their love for each other after just 3 weeks, meeting the parents, having sex on a 2nd date - and basically everytime they meet up - going to each other's places, etc. And to think he wasn't even invited till I suggested he come along...

Same with my younger bro. He usually gets up around midday, spends most of his time on the computer, goes to college a few days a week, and he's got at least two women after him, phoning up, going out etc. Guess it might just be his 'could care' attitude.

 

[squirrels]

You know, I can sort of think back a few times when I've "gotten lucky" back in my AFC days...times when I've managed to hook in with girls (never got very far, but had opportunities) at what seemed like random.

But when I think back on it, a lot of these times, the REASON that I hooked in with these women was because I WAS being "DJ" and just didn't realize it.

Think about it...think back to a time when you were AFC and "got lucky," then consider what you did and how she reacted to it. You may surprise yourself.

 

[Ser_i]

Originally posted by squirrels

Think about it...think back to a time when you were AFC and "got lucky," then consider what you did and how she reacted to it. You may surprise yourself.

I agree, I know I did and probably others did it as well, you were being the DJ cause there was no stress no thinking, the scene was right, the moment was there and you were just going with it.

 

[b's nuts]

Originally posted by squirrels
Think about it...think back to a time when you were AFC and "got lucky," then consider what you did and how she reacted to it. You may surprise yourself.

This is very true, i used to be the utmost AFC, but there were the occasions when i did get some play. One occasion I can think of, a girl i was on swim team with, i wanted her for like 2 years but didn't have any balls to do anything about it. She left for college, I stayed in school, she was back home for a bit, and since she had gone I no longer cared, and the first night I saw her I got in them panties. Its true, if youre AFC, you only get play when you stumble into some DJing.

 

[Kodiac]

True that, i have a few example of my own.

1. Buddy goes out (hes AFC, but a gr8 guy) to a club, just sitting around talking with mates when some chick just comes up to him and tells him to meet her outside the club at 11pm for some 'action'. Well, 2 cut a long story short, they went behind the club and fuked..... Not to mention, he lost his virginity this night.

2. I was AFC, bumped into a mate in another town (whats the chances??) and he was with a HB, i figured they were together (they werent) so i didn't really give a fuk what i said. I mentioned how the woman from our home town sucked and i never have any luck with them - total AFC, but i said it all while laughing / smiling.
Found out later she was actually from my town, doh! A few days later back at home town my friend tells me she thinks im cute. She makes a move on me and that was a great night for little old AFC me

3. Local club. Hottest babe ever dancing on stage. Always saw her and made comments about her all the time. ALL my friends were telling me i should approach her (like they ever would lol) and i never even CONSIDERED approaching. I had NO BALLS at all. I would even dance on the other side of the room if i saw her dancing This went on for about 12 months.
Finally she got my number and called me and that developed into the greatest relationship i have ever had.

Sometimes u just get lucky. But if i was a DJ, i wouldn't have needed luck, i would have still gotten these girls plus a hell of a lot more! By not approaching and by being a passive AFC hoping the p*ssy will come to you... you are literally letting hundreds of opportunities pass you by!

Ohh, and did i mention i fuked both these relationships up?? Especially the first one, god...im not even going to go into details on what i did wrong, but i was so AFC it's not even funny, even now!