SlappaDaBayyys said:
So I've noticed a pattern in my past relationships..........basically the chicks drill me constantly for information, and at the start I'm pretty good at deflecting their questions with humour, but by a few months in they basically know everything about me and get bored.
I've seen variations of this question and complaint many times on this forum. But at some point, if you hang onto a chick long enough, she's going to know you pretty well. I don't think the object should be to keep her in the dark as long as you can. You should be interesting enough that she can know most things about you and not be bored.
Part of this is just being fun. I am far from being a party beast, but I have a positive attitude and a fairly quick wit, so I am generally fun to be around when I am with my girl, even after all these years. If you're a negative nancy, people will tire of you a lot more quickly. That's just one example.
But I don't think it's possible for a woman to know
everything about you. Or at least I would never reveal my very innermost thoughts that no one else is privy to.
