Ressurection of a Lost Soul

[driver55]

Hello Fellow DJ's and Trainees,

I am writing to report on my current situation. I have finally begun to understand the position I am currently in, in my life. For further elaboration, see my desperately need advice thread.

I am been reading the bible and additional material from this site that has inspired me...and I must say I am in awe. My two attempts at engaging HB's (a 7 and 8) recently were successful in number closing, using techniques presented here. The 7 turned out to be a little too young for me (I was also immediately able to identify her as an attention-***** based on information I read here and the actions she displayed, and summarily next'ed her without any remorse..I love it!), and I have yet to call the 8. Future plans have been made though for the weekend. The way I engage others in coversation, professionally and socially has changed. I can literally feel the changes within myself. I have begun a new "journey" and it is exhilirating.

However, I must say I feel like I may be rushing things. I feel like I have not consumed nearly as much information or fully digested everything I have come to read as of yet. This is what holds me back. I feel like I should read more then go out into the field, instead of cramming what I can read here (I have only read the first 2 weeks of boot camp in like 3 days) and I already plan on going out tonight to test the methods and my new persona. I am curious as to what anyone elses thoughts are on this "diving head first in" approach.

As stated above, I have not been rejected yet. I know this is because I have not made enough attempts yet. This is the purpose for tonight...

I will be heading out to the clubs tonight. Alone. This is not by choice. Due to my job, I am the new guy in town and have no wings to accompany me. Ironically, I am ok with this, as I feel I need to go out into the field and test the waters. The plan for tonight will be to simply get out of town for a bit, have some fun, hopefully meet some cool people and attain some rejections. These will purely be for practice and to build up an emotional callous (something I require) for future attempts.

A transformation has begun. I feel like I am truly on the path to become a DJ. This AFC-in-transition has been resurrected from the depths of desperation from one-itis into a brave new world! I appreciate everyone sharing their stories here. I will post results on how tonights events go...

 

[Desdinova]

Take baby steps. This stuff sounds easy as hell when you're reading it online. The real challenge comes when you take this knowledge into the real world and put it to work. Work on one thing at a time. Use women for practice and experimentation if you like.

You're going to make a lot of mistakes before you get everything down. You'll find yourself ignoring women too much, being too boring on a date, and many, many other things. Try and learn from these mistakes. It'll make your game much more stronger.

Work on the basics (approach, converse, number close) until you got it down pretty good. Then work on other things to improve your little routine (setting up a date, using kino).

Good luck and remember to have fun!

 

[driver55]

Status Report

Ok....Here goes,

So last night I decided to go out to the clubs alone. My plan began with making a trip to the local mall looking for a fresh new outfit to wear out. So after spending a few hours there, and 200 dollars later, I walk out with a fly new get up.

I get home, proceed to start up some dance tunes to get me pumped up for the night. After showering, and getting gussied up I head out the door. After 1.5 hours of driving I get to the club, and I'm ready for fun!

Well, I did some research before I left and found out the club I was headed to allowed no cover for wearing green (it was St patty's day), so I brought along a lame green shirt just to avoid the 10 dollar cover and just took it off once I got in the club and stashed it somewhere in the club. It was 10:30 by this point. I walked up to the bar and order a drink from the friendly bartender. This was after surveying the club and realizing there were VERY few people there. The bartender tells me that it starts getting busy after 1100. OK...

So I head to one of the more crowded dance floors after finishing my drink and watching people dance. Still no conversation with any girls. Many of them appear to be with guys. I proceed to get my groove on. I can hear hollering from upstairs where I know there are girls (I was standing next to them) and wonder if the are cheering for me (I was dancing more agressively and probably looked like I was having more fun than most of the other guys there, or so I thought) because of my dancing. I make no attempts at finding out the cause for the cheering...

1200 - After a few beers and chilling out for a while, the place gets packed. I'm on the dance floor having an awesome time dancing by myself, the DJ is slamming good tracks. This girl sees me dancing and shuffles closer to me. We begin dancing. She is a good dancer and we're diggin it. After about 10 minutes of dancing the song changes. I comment I like the way she dances, she follows suit with the same compliment....

Me: You wanna go get a drink?
Her: No thanks, I'm with my friends.
Me: Oh it's ok, Im not drinking anymore, I just want some water, you sure you don't want some? (with smile)
Her: Yah, thanks.

I leave dance floor feeling good. I chalk this up as a rejection. After my bottled water I head back out to the dance floor. This is where it gets interesting. I squeeze into the middle of the floor (more target rich). I am dancing next to a pack of 3 girls. After 5 minutes I feel like one of them wants to dance up next to me (althought she never did turn around to look at me). This assumption proved incorrect. As I danced closer to her I lightly put my hand near her waist...she turns around annoyed and migrates with her friends to another part of the dance floor. At that point I noticed B!tch shields were on full power. That was rejection number 2.

Later, what appeared to be a 30 something sees me dancing and starts dancing with me. We are grinding....HARD. Hard to tell the club lighting but I decided she was a HB 6.5. Since she likes the closeness I decide to use more touching. I begin to massage her shoulders and upper back while we dance. I can hear her moan when I do this. I spend most of the last part of the night dancing with her. She kisses me on the lips and says thanks when we're done. I feel good, although she was older. Now here is the interesting thing...the first girl I danced with is now dancing near me and this woman, and she is staring at me/us. I can see it through the corner of my eye! I think she is jealous! I don't work the balls to look up and make EC or anything, of course, but I can see it! Interesting...

The club is now closing. I am looking for my shirt I stashed and its gone! Not even the staff can help me find it. I'm ok with that though, since it saved me 10 bucks and it wasn't that great of a shirt anyway. I head over to a drunk food stand and chat it up with some dudes. Its 230 am by this point and I decide to head home....

As my ears are still ringing as I write this, I think the night was an overall success. I had alot of fun, got what I call a few rejections (unless you think otherwise, plz comment), and DIDNT STAY AT HOME. I didn't know I was capable of having so much fun by myself.

Thank You for reading all this! ANY comments or critiques are very welcome! This is a learning experience for me.

Additional notes:

At the mall, as I entered a store, the clerk girl said hi while giving me EC, as I walked past her, I maintained this EC trying to show her I was the dominant one and returned the hello. I felt palpable tension, but couldn't work up the f***in balls (or had the quick wit) to think of something else to say. She was HB 7, and looked interested. Lesson - be more quick witted to open up conversation with those who look interested.

As I left the club, I recalled making EC with ANYONE about 25% that entire night. Why? Because I was looking down ALOT when I danced. I think I need to change this, to make EC with a girl to get her to dance with me.

 

[driver55]

2nd Day of weekend PR

Called the 8 and got the voice mail....

This is the second time this has happened with both number closes...it must be something with my approach? I got the numbers...why no dates? They don't answer...I shouldn't waste time overthinking it. If they give the numbers...there must be IL. But not enough to answer the phone? Argh...just move on.

Decided to go on the "date" by myself and enjoy the nice day. Had some coffee. Made EC w/smile with a cute woman (7.5) walking by...she returned it, should have spoken up and said hi at least...why is it so hard at the time?! I need to be more natural and stop being mesmerized by a woman smiling back at me when I should say something. Later, walked by an 8 and asked directions to the theatre, she seemed taken back by someone just stopping her in the street, I didn't detect a warm reception. She quickly gave directions and continued on her way. Her body language was indicating "I don't wanna stop for you but I will since you seem lost".

Found the theatre and grabbed a beer. Watched a movie by myself. Chatted with the bar staff, they were friendly. After that I decided to head home. In retrospect I should have tried harder to talk to people, considering I drove 1.5 hours each way just to get out of town.

Damn...this s*** is hard without a wingman. I need to create a social network somehow. My confidence has decreased...f*** I'm gonna leave the country for a while and read more bible, and implement.

--Desdinova - You comments prove correct. It is VERY easy to read the information and say to myself "That's it? I can do that! It seems so simple!" Well, implementing in the field is different. Mental blocks eventually surface. Self doubt. Evil monkey of self-awareness/akwardness. I will work on wrenching this monkey off my back...he has been stuck on there for most of my life so we'll see how long it takes. I know I am more determined to get him off than he is to stay on though, and that is what matters. --

 

[Bourne]

This is very inspirational man. I'm in similar shoes as you. I am going through and changing my ways and how I am around girls and other people.

 

[driver55]

-nt

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

DRIVER: Good job. The real test for a man is how comfortable he is when he's alone. This is a great indicator of confidence and independence, and women will pick up on this self-comfort by way of the subcommunications that naturally manifest themselves when you are. When you are comfortable enough with yourself to initiate solo working with a wing only emboldens you that much more.

Beware the quick and easy path. There is no magic formula or pill that will make you a DJ or even a PUA in a couple of weeks. You have to find out what works for you and this takes effort and experimentation. The DJ forum is the lab, but you have to put your technique and theroies to the test in the field with all of its variables and your own as well. Take the time necessary to educate and change yourself (mentally and physically). A black belt in Karate doesn't achieve his self-confidence, self-control and discipline in 2 weeks. It takes years of conditioning, practice and perseverance (not to mention having his ass handed to him more than once) to reach his degree of accomplishment. This isn't to say that successful sarging will take years, but you get the idea.

Also, be more critical of yourself when you do succeed. Beware the ONEitis trap that success will foster in an incomplete DJ. Far too many an otherwise confident DJ will revert back to his AFC insecurities and supplications - negating the very qualities that made him attractive - once he's reached his 'goal' of securing the intimacy of an HB 8.5. It would be better for you to simply remain an AFC than practice and ape the behaviors of a DJ, "get the girl" and have the whole house of card fall in on itself because you never made a genuine, positively masculine, transition to being a DJ, both in and out of an LTR. Quick success all too often leads back to the AFC path. Your intent should always be to spin as many plates as you can at a given time and only much later in life choose one worth spinning continually (if at all). The AFC will go with the first thing that comes along that was better than anything he'd ever had, but the DJ will collect multiple good Ones to select from as they prove their merit.

Now, in the short term, remember - There is no failure, only feedback. There are no mistakes, only results. They may not be the results you'd like to see, but they are results to be learned from. The only mistake you can make is not to learn from your outcomes. This is why a successful outcome is to be picked over more meticulously than those that aren't. You are to be commended for self-initiating without the benefit of a wing, it's a tough road to confront self-consciousness in an unfamiliar environment, but see that you learn from your experience and develop new methodologies based on what you thought worked and what didn't.

 

[resilient]

Props Driver. Keep sarging!:cheer:

 

[driver55]

Interim Report

Attempted to gain rapport with a customer service girl (HB 6.5, practice only) I was assigned to, in an office I had to handle buisiness in. I analyzed her as an academic mixed with an un-talkative personality. Slowly through my persistant talking/questions it seemed like she began to open up. While doing this I was also analyzing my game mid-way and mixed in some C&Fto combat the apparent shyness. Also attempted to relate stories and places during the conversation. This seemed to have a positive effect! She began laughing more and opening up more than originally. I took a mental note of this and left.

Began friendly conversation with coffee shop girl (HB 4, again practice only. The 8 I originally wanted to talk to was busy doing something else, damn!). She did not seem like getting into conversation. Kept trying though...after 3 failed attemps took my coffee and left.

--- Todays Lesson Learned: There are DEFINATE signals a girl will unconcsiously/subconsciously send while engaging in conversation. These appear to be (not limited to) extra -smiling, EC and body langauge directed at me. ---
I recieved none of this today.


Got done reading the 15 lessons by pook. Incredible. I am currently reevaluating my game because of this. I have so much to learn...

Working on selling engagement ring from oneitis. Hopefully I can pay off the car once sold.

Thanks for the encouragement guys. Hope all is going well for you.

 

[driver55]

Success

Ok...bringing back the post with a Prog Report:

Took a trip out of town. While I was only there for a day, decided to attempt some cold approaches. Started flirting with the hotel desk clerk girls. This got me warmed up good, although I wasn't getting high interest level signals, they engaged me in conversation when I started it. Good pre-game for what was to come.

Walked over to a coffee shop where there were some 8's working the counter. Started some fluff, but it went nowhere. Talked to some rando's (dudes) in the shop for a little bit, got my coffee and left.

Went up the street to a bakery shop near a shopping mall. Saw a 8.5 through the window so I went inside. Upon further inspection downgraded to an 8 for a very miniscule reason. This girl was smokin otherwise. Only one in the store too! Perfect set up. Started some fluff, noticing her sitting alone. After 3 minutes of convo, built the balls enough to sit down alone with her and enjoy some more conversation/snack. It was gravy from here, fellas, let me tell you. I was using a bunch of techniques, (and to my amazement) ALL of which worked textbook. I was analyzing while throwing game, and picking up ALL the telltale signs of IL, i.e. playing with hair, solid EC, laughing. Life was good. Eventually had to end it, but did number close. That was a huge boost of confidence, and ALOT of fun! :woo:

Good luck to ya'll! :rockon:

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

DRIVER: Excellent. Now go over what went right for you in this instance and post it here. Also, review what didn't work as well.

 

[driver55]

Crib Notes

* Upon entering the store (which was very quiet) I began talking alot and very confidently. Mixing in a slight ****y demeanor to my speech, this seemed to grab her attention. Merely just fluff talk about what to buy, and adding humor to her responses. I.e. "Are you a muffin expert? Because I think this one here is calling my name, and you look like you chose yours carefully."

* After confirming she had some IL from the initial conversation (she was asking me questions about myself at this point, i.e. where I was from, what I was doing in town, etc) I simply said I was going to sit down and join her. I felt confident she would'nt refuse, since she was alone and I believe someone would rather talk to someone interesting rather than read a magazine by themselves. I know I would. It worked like a charm.

* The rest was very simple, although curiously enough, I can see how easy it is to NOT do. Simply listen. Not just hear, but listen. I would listen to what she was saying (what she did for a living, liked to do for fun, places she had been, etc) and somehow or another way relate it to myself. This brought along the sense of closeness/familiarity. I would bring back recent topics she talked about then joke about them, or add them to the current topic. I believe this further displayed my ability to LISTEN to what she was saying, showing I was interested in what she had to say. I would also make jokes and be funny/smiling about things she would say, making her laugh. It just seemed to flow naturally. However, I will say this, there were a few lull periods in the conversation. I was quick to re-engage though. I learned this can be a life-saver in a conversation. Always have a hip-pocket topic ready to pull out in a pinch. If that happens to much though, I would pull out, because then she would be boring me, although this was not the case here. She was re-engaging me an equal amount.

* Analyze the subject. I was able to develop the understanding that she was a good Christian girl halfway through. Nothing wrong with that, infact I like it. But I did make an effort to steer away from subjects like my drinking alchohol, swearing during the conversation, etc. You get the idea, those types of things.

That is what did work. Not to toot my own horn, but very little did NOT work. I am left to extrapolate that I was very lucky in this instance, and will only credit some of the success to my abilities. This was only 1 girl. I still have a long road ahead of me, and much to learn. Thanks guys, keep on truckin!

 

[driver55]

Inevitable

I figured this would happen sooner or later. I received the tolken phone call from the ex today. Didn't answer, and didn't get a voice mail. In addition don't plan on calling back. Curious though. I wonder why. It has been months. Maybe it was just an accidental dial...however, that still begs the question...why is my phone number still in this persons phone list? My assumption is it's one of those tests..."Hmm... OH look who called me! NowI wonder if I should waste time thinking about it and wonder if I should call back!" Predictable if that's what it is. Hmmm...Ok this post is as much thinking as I care to give this subject. Interesting nonetheless, and caught me by surprise.

Your thoughts, fellows who have had a similar situation happen?

 

[StrongBad]

Nice work, sir

Hey man,

You are doing very well so far. The hardest part is actually getting out there and doing it. You learn best from being active and learning from your mistakes, so be confident that you are well on your way. It sounds like you have a lot of potential at this!

Anyway, regarding the ex, I don't know the history between you two and whether things were left on positive or negative terms, but unless absolutely necessary I would avoid contact with her. It would just bring you back into your pre-DJ mindset and mindset is everything with this stuff.

Just my two cents (from personal experience). Keep up the good work...

 

[driver55]

Small Hiatus

Hey all,

Just checking in after a few months break. I just visited a female aquiantance I haven't seen in a while. Man, this chick is making it so obvious. She kinos ALOT and makes it very apparent she is interested. She is 7 years my senior. A little older than i like, and not exactly my type, but it helps the confidence.

Well, I have to admit haven't been progressing much, or feeling like it anyway. I have been working hard lately so not much time. Hopefully I can take a break soon to talk to more people and go out.

Hope all is well with everyone.

 

[driver55]

FR: Bar hop

Ok

My hiatus post pissed me off enough to the point where I decided to go out with friends and do it right last night. Went out to eat, then proceeded to the first bar (Irish). Waitresses were very cute. Ordered drinks for friends and myself, and scoped out the scene.

Spotted a 7.5 and was losing inhibitions enough to where I started conversation. Talked to her for like 2 hours almost. What a waste. Let me tell you why. As the conversation progressed I found out alot about her. She was a single mom and hated men. I was analyzing the situation as I engaged her in conversation. I could tell she was enjoying my company very much. But I knew I was being used as an emotional tampon because of her "blah blah he did this to me I hate my ex, blah blah". I needed to get out and talk to other people/girls.

Now this part is VERY interesting. While I was talking to this 7.5, 30 something, I became VERY aware of my surroundings! I noticed other men watching her and I talk (but mostly looking/staring at me!). It was as if I could read their thoughts (very scary). I knew they were wondering what I was saying to her to make her laugh so much and let me kino her so much and her kino me back. While keeping my eyes moving around the bar I noticed 2 girls about 5 feet from us sitting down watching me! I would have bet money they were wondering what I was saying to get this woman acting this way. One of them was a 8 the other was a 5 (ugh). The 8 was looking at me while I was listening to the 30 something woman talk to me about whatever, and so I caught her staring, smiled and winked and she smiled back!

Ok I said screw it at this point, left the emotional woman and started conversation with the 2 girls. Maybe a bit rude, but I was there for me and no one else. I think my opener line was about the music in the bar. It worked great! Proceeded to talk to them about what they did, etc. The 8 seemed like she was digging me, but I found out she was married. The 5 bored me, so I dropped her to a 4 and cashed out of there. Decided to leave it at that and moved to another table of people to talk to! Man, I was all over this bar! I felt bad leaving my friends for so long. They were kinda pissed, but kinda shocked that I was talking to all these girls and people. I decided to hang with them the rest of the night.

2:00 AM. THe Irish bar closes and we walk up the street to the next bar. F***'in-A it is smokey as hell. Ratio was pathetic to boot. So I pretty much stopped trying at that point as my buzz was going away and the smoke was dragging me down. I did analyze a funny situation though. I was people watching near the pool tables and saw literally about 8 guys around the hottest girl in the bar, an 8.8. Well she had all these guys buying her drinks and smokes and etc etc. She had a hot little mini skirt on and had SMOKING hot legs. But I called it just as quick as my buddy did...she was a damn cash cow. It was even more pathetic and obvious when these dudes who would normally not stand a chance with her were seen walking down the street with her later counting their money in front of her to see how much they had left for drinks, mostly for her I'm sure!

Before I forget, I will say I did some AFC things at the first bar. I considered it AFC to buy the emotional tampon woman a drink. It got caught up in the moment while talking to her, and I wanted another beer, then it just spilled out of me..."what are you drinking? I'll get your next one!" So stupid......she had her cash out ready to pay and everything and I did that. I didn't owe her anything. F*** if anything, looking back on it she owed me for listening to her spiteful drivel.

I read more of the djbook today. I feel like I am evolving once again. I love it. I was worried there for a second that I was going to get in a rut that would be tought to climb out of again. I never want to go back to the way it was before. There is still so much to learn....but I try and put more of it into practice each time I'm out in the field. No doubt I made mistakes last night, and I'm sure there will be more. But I AM LEARNING. And that is what is important to me right now.

I still wish I could have at least got some head that night =).

 

[Bible_Belt]

good job

At school I occasionally meet girls who work at the domestic violence clinic, and as soon as I hear that, it gives me a great opportunity to tease them for hating men. Accuse her of hating all men, then she will deny it, then you tell her you don't believe her. It's fun, and the frame is set so that she is working to prove to you that she does not hate men, which is exactly what you want. It's a great amog, too, for when you see her talking to another guy. "Look out dude, this one hates men."

 

[driver55]

Fr

Ok,

Went to the club again with friends. Wasn't really in the mood, but felt like I had to get out. Damn, I put on some fly gear and thought I looked good. Even got compliments from my bud. But once we got to the club...I just let loose and had a good time. Got some drinks, danced for a bit. Talked to some girls, got rejected by them. WTF? Ok hooker, whatever you're just a money grubbing hooker since your in VIP. Procceded to just enjoy myself the rest of the night.

Did get some high-fives for my dancing by some hotties...that was cool.

Some random dude ended up chatting with me for a bit, talking about how it's almost impossible to get pvssy in this town, esp at the clubs. They feel like meat markets sometimes. Hard place to get some pvssy. Oh well. Bottom line, I had fun. Maybe better luck next time!:wave:

 

[GirlCrazy]

That's awesome, man - truly inspirational.

You're actively taking steps to improve yourself, and having a blast doing it. Doesn't get much better than that.

You mentioned that some women were just for "practice". For me that was the key to having the right mindset. When they all become just practice, you end up focusing less on individual results, and more on improving your game and having fun.

 

[driver55]

Weekend FR!

Busy doing some home improvement, with my bud helping me when he decides we should blow off steam and go out on the town. I agree thinking it's a great idea since we haven't been out in about a week or so.

So we get all juiced up, and are looking good. He has got some fly gear on (better than mine) and he is looking to get some numbers. Now, just a little background on my wing. He has a similar history like mine, he had a LTR that got messy and had a crappy breakup. We agree on alot of issues, so we get along well. He makes so much more of an effort than I do though, to meet girls. Almost too hard, but I respect his efforts. I try to calm him down and tell him to try to enjoy life more without worrying about the girls too much. It seems like that is literally ALL he thinks about. But he is a great guy and somehow he motivates me more towards that aspect of my life. Anyway...

We get to the bar. It is a great place with live music, friendly bar staff and HOTTIES galore!!! I get us kick started by buying the first round. We scope out the scene, bounce to some music, generally just have a good time. He spots a group of girls with one (HB 8, brunette) that catches his eye. I keep telling him to go for it and talk to her, but she (and her friends) are SWARMED with other dudes. I don't blame him for not going up there just yet.

/Flashback to earlier that night/ - Now, earlier on the drive we were talking about rejections and how it sucks, and how he gets it alot. The dude just tries alot, so he gets alot of rejections. It's not like he's bad looking, he is actually a pretty good looking guy with a great attitude. So I tell him.. "Ok bro, tonight I will get 10 rejections just to let ya know it don't mean s***!"

***Back to the club***
I see what I thought was the group of girls he was talking about. They are isolated now. I walk up to them and smile. "Hi! Do you ladies mind if I borrow her (I nod to the short brunette I like, not the one my bud likes)?" They are like "OK" the the brunette is like "Umm, alright". So I pull her away from her girls and introduce my self saying I noticed her looking at me earlier and I looked back and smiled, commenting on her smile. Well as I shake her hand I notice the other has a ring on it!!!! S***! I laugh about it with her and make some flaky comment about her being married. I find out all of them are out to celebrate their friends birthday (Just turned 31). So I say I'll buy her a drink for her happy birthday. It gets me a quick "in" to talk to the group and say hi. I meet the rest, say have a nice time, and they all go to the dance floor. I chalk it up as a rejection, even though it really wasn't. My point was taken by my wing though...don't hesitate, just find an able opportunity and take it!

I am out dancing having fun when I can't take it anymore cuz the damn music is so loud I have to take a break. I sit down next to a 8 commenting on the damn volume of the music. She is very friendly, we get to chatting, introductions and talk for a while. Her male friend comes over and I introduce myself to him, just incase (no hard feelings if its his girl, you never know...I have done that sort of thing before). Anyway, I can tell she ain't withhim, so I get her number! I tell her I'd like to take her out sometime for fun, she smiles and agrees. She is upgraded to a 8.5 for attitude but then downgraded to 7 for having a kid which I found out later. Damn...the good ones seem to always have a downside somwhere. Oh well, I'll still call her. NICE!

Meantime, apparently my bud somehow got in with the girl he wanted to talk to. Apparently though this girl was a MEGA-B**** and she let me know it. I made some joking comment about where she was from and she got all fired up about it. I told her she better calm down because her anger makes her look ugly (or something to that effect). She speechless for a second. I laugh for a second and brush her off. My wing however, gets to talking to her sister and gets her number!!! Way hotter, because of physicals and more so, her genuinely nice attitude. What a cuttie. She was a 9 for sure. Damn my wing was so happy. I was happy for him too.

2 AM - We end up leaving and looking for food. Damn, everything looks closed. Somewhere in the mix we get this 7.5 (who ended up getting downgraded to a 5 for her stupid attitude and being and all-around prude) asian to tag along with us to go find food. Really random and wierd, having some stranger get in our car with us to find a Denny's to eat at. She wouldn't even let me or my bud get a little physical with her (just hugging or put our arms around her). What a B****. We drove her out to get food and that's how she acts. She should be more careful whose car she gets into...she was lucky we were good dudes.

We eat our breakfast and drop off the asian. While we were eating though, I noticed two cuties sitting by themselves and one looks at me. I smile, and wave them over to join us. She rolls her eyes at me. What a b***! Chalked up another rejection. (There were a few more at the club just for the record, but I never did get 10, sadly). Before we leave I go up to them and say "So what, you're too good to join some people for company?" To which they just kind of stared at me. The black dude sitting next to them tells me they are russians. I laugh and say "Oh so they speak russian?" - Except I say this in russian!!! (I know a little). And the prude is just speechless for a sec then mumbles something. I don't think she expected that since I am not exactly a blonde hair blue eyed dude. She has just got this fiery look in her eyes, staring at me, even the black dude said something out loud about it. I wink at the girls, and my group and I leave.

4 AM - My wing and I get home, talk about the night and how we had a blast and it was a success. FUN FUN FUN, that's what it was all about. We discuss calling the girls later and part ways to crash out.

I get home, and crash out. As I begin to fall asleep I am somewhat disturbed by the girl I met having a kid. Never tried to have fun or a relationship in that kind of situation, although I have read some of the horror stories on here that can be a result of that. She is late twenties, so I don't think she is too bitter, yet. Anyway, I think she would be fun to hang out with, and maybe have sex. :woo:

I feel like my game is still progressing upwards and to higher levels each time I go out. I am no longer inflicted by oneitis. My wing may still need help with some "vaccinations" to get over those damn feelings of the "one". I think we'll make the journey a good one.

Advice and comments are welcome. Thanks for tuning in! :crazy: