I used to know two things about women, and those two things were jack and sh*t. For me, things only started turning around once I realized one key thing-- If I wasn't getting laid, it was my fault, not anybody else's. Were my friends stopping me from getting laid? Nope. My upbringing? No. My busy schedule (lol)? No. My gene-given looks? Never a problem. Things started turning around for me when I said this to myself, and knew that it was true:
If I am not getting laid, it is entirely my fault. If I am getting laid, it is entirely due to my own skill.
This freed my mind up to focus on the problem and not the excuses. It is the start, I think, of everything else.
If I am not getting laid, it is entirely my fault. If I am getting laid, it is entirely due to my own skill.
This freed my mind up to focus on the problem and not the excuses. It is the start, I think, of everything else.