Repeated Flake

phil2015

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Hi guys,

Got a little problem with a HB6/7 I've been dating about a month.

Everything seems to be going okay, but problem is she has a tendancy to flake and cancel dates on me. It has happened about 5-6 times in last 2 weeks. Range of excuses, child's I'll, has to babysit somewhere, snow, feel I'll etc

Problem is, she seems interested, texts me a lit, fcks on demand, calls me a lot etc and I'm wondering how can a girl Exhibiting high IL, simultaneously cancel/flake so much??

Two extremely contrasting behavioural streaks....

I believe I should go off what she does, rather than says, and whilst I'm not feeling anything untoward, I do feel my gut is telling me something is not legit.

Any advice, no matter how brutal is welcome.

Regards

Phil
 

Building_and_Loan

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5-6 times in the last two weeks? That's an awful lot of times. First month of dating you should only be seeing each like once or twice a week anyway.
 

Harry Wilmington

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She's got a kid? Ewwww - been there, done that, single moms are ALWAYS having something come up with the kid. Whether or not it's true or an excuse, the outcome is the same: lots of last minute flakes, and not generally worth your time.
 

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You have over extended yourself by giving her way too many chances bro.

maybe her interest level is dropping.

forget about her, until she contacts you or just next her. That's poor behavior.
 

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Unlike singletons, this is the nature of dating a woman with a child. The child will always come first (unless she's a future Jeremy Kyle contestant).
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Cloudtopsun2100

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just next her, she has no right to be acting like a princess when her value is so low
 

Peña

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Never let no woman repeatedly flake. Don't be no fool.
 

VladPatton

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Why are you waiting around for her? She's got a kid whose problems will always come before you 100% of the time. Single mothers are for rich beta providers who want an instant family. Tell her to call you when she wants to bang. Till then, seek other females....single ones!
 

salinechow

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This is a simple arithmetic

HB6+child(at 21?)-you= your happiness.
 

Albatross953

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You need to finish the second half of "pump and dump".
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Zarky

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phil2015 said:
Got a little problem with a HB6/7 I've been dating about a month.
Your problem actually seems to be that there's a lack of other women you're currently f*cking. Fix that and this "problem" will fix itself.
 

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Albatross953 said:
You need to finish the second half of "pump and dump".
LMFAO!!!
 
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