I´ve been thinking about the meaning of this all for a long time. I think I´m finally coming to terms with the facts of life. I may seem cynical to you, but now I just accept how women are and life is in general. The following points have helped me to find a peace of mind. Please ignore grammatical errors.
1. Happiness won´t last
I knew already as a child that health isn´t the most important thing in life. Some disabled people were happier than me. So I tried to be happy, but was so only temporarily. I was always in a pursuit of something that would bring me joy as a result. Nothing brought me long lasting happiness. I was happy with my ex-wife for 3 years. I thought it would have lasted forever. I bought my dream apartment. Now I´m searching for the next. I could go on, but you get the idea. Long lasting happiness is possible, but it is NOT achievable. It comes from acceptance. How you react to random moments of life determines your happiness. Stop achieving, start accepting!
2. Everything is temporary
You must prepare to lose everything, because some day you will. Life is pretty much winning and losing. Mostly losing, even for Charlie Sheen. If you want to be happy, put your focus on experience, not on results. If you want to learn something, you must learn by doing. Then you gain experience and experience is living. Even the bad experience. Experience will make you skilled for future, but that´s not the point. The point is to live. The meaning of life is to live! You take nothing with you from here, so the results mean nothing.
3. It´s all about your journey (and some tail on the side)
Your path isn´t written in the stars, it´s random even if you take action and try to steer the boat. It doesn´t matter what you have achieved at the end. Don´t listen to society. If you are into young girls, date them. Who cares if you are 40 and she´s 18. We all want young and fresh. Some are honest about it. Do what you want! Don´t let anything or anyone to control you. Respect the law though. Go into LTR with a BPD teen and experience it. Be the first who can manage it! If you can´t, post here about your therapy sessions. I was rather with my BPD girl for a year than with my boring ex for the rest of my life. (BPD girls are dangerous drugs I don´t seriously recommend.)
4. Love isn´t your key to happiness.
Women will never love you. Men value love, but it doesnt exist between a man and a woman. Love is unconditional. You are conditional to women. Fall in "love" for experience, but don´t expect it to make you happy for good. Only God and your parents love you unconditionally. So call your mother today. Eventually only God´s left. Even God who loves you unconditionally, could cast you into hell, if you had been a bad boy. There´s no more to be said about love.
5. In big picture your life is meaningless
Unless you are Nikola Tesla or equivalent. For you, your life is priceless. Small things can make a huge impact. But you don´t need to do anything! That said, more you do more you experience and live life! Donate, do some charity work, fly to Malawi and hug starving kids. Still you aren´t happy because your trophy wife **cks your neighbour and your own kids hate your guts. Happiness isn´t love, people, work or anything considered as a result. It´s coming to terms with the facts of life. It´s gonna end and I can´t be in charge of everything. That´s difficult for men to accept, because we naturally want to control. Especially women. That´s a road to disaster. Don´t let anyone control you AND don´t let yourself to control anyone!
6. What happens, happens for NO reason.
Life is random. That´s why it´s full of opportunities. React to those random moments with acceptance in order to make the best out of them. Time is the only actually valuable thing in your life. You have only one time.
1. Happiness won´t last
I knew already as a child that health isn´t the most important thing in life. Some disabled people were happier than me. So I tried to be happy, but was so only temporarily. I was always in a pursuit of something that would bring me joy as a result. Nothing brought me long lasting happiness. I was happy with my ex-wife for 3 years. I thought it would have lasted forever. I bought my dream apartment. Now I´m searching for the next. I could go on, but you get the idea. Long lasting happiness is possible, but it is NOT achievable. It comes from acceptance. How you react to random moments of life determines your happiness. Stop achieving, start accepting!
2. Everything is temporary
You must prepare to lose everything, because some day you will. Life is pretty much winning and losing. Mostly losing, even for Charlie Sheen. If you want to be happy, put your focus on experience, not on results. If you want to learn something, you must learn by doing. Then you gain experience and experience is living. Even the bad experience. Experience will make you skilled for future, but that´s not the point. The point is to live. The meaning of life is to live! You take nothing with you from here, so the results mean nothing.
3. It´s all about your journey (and some tail on the side)
Your path isn´t written in the stars, it´s random even if you take action and try to steer the boat. It doesn´t matter what you have achieved at the end. Don´t listen to society. If you are into young girls, date them. Who cares if you are 40 and she´s 18. We all want young and fresh. Some are honest about it. Do what you want! Don´t let anything or anyone to control you. Respect the law though. Go into LTR with a BPD teen and experience it. Be the first who can manage it! If you can´t, post here about your therapy sessions. I was rather with my BPD girl for a year than with my boring ex for the rest of my life. (BPD girls are dangerous drugs I don´t seriously recommend.)
4. Love isn´t your key to happiness.
Women will never love you. Men value love, but it doesnt exist between a man and a woman. Love is unconditional. You are conditional to women. Fall in "love" for experience, but don´t expect it to make you happy for good. Only God and your parents love you unconditionally. So call your mother today. Eventually only God´s left. Even God who loves you unconditionally, could cast you into hell, if you had been a bad boy. There´s no more to be said about love.
5. In big picture your life is meaningless
Unless you are Nikola Tesla or equivalent. For you, your life is priceless. Small things can make a huge impact. But you don´t need to do anything! That said, more you do more you experience and live life! Donate, do some charity work, fly to Malawi and hug starving kids. Still you aren´t happy because your trophy wife **cks your neighbour and your own kids hate your guts. Happiness isn´t love, people, work or anything considered as a result. It´s coming to terms with the facts of life. It´s gonna end and I can´t be in charge of everything. That´s difficult for men to accept, because we naturally want to control. Especially women. That´s a road to disaster. Don´t let anyone control you AND don´t let yourself to control anyone!
6. What happens, happens for NO reason.
Life is random. That´s why it´s full of opportunities. React to those random moments with acceptance in order to make the best out of them. Time is the only actually valuable thing in your life. You have only one time.
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