Relationships are Brutally Capitalistic Whichever Way you look at it

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Whilst living in London my entire life I realised how brutally capitalistic relationship dynamics are. Whichever you look at it life is capitalistic and dating has huge inequalities that have gotten wider as a result of technological advances and pure wealth inequality to begin with . Women who are in most senses left leaning in political viewpoints are more capitalistic when it comes to dating than men which I’ll try to argue with this blog post. I don’t think that’s a good thing or a bad thing I think that’s just the thing that men need to understand.
 

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You can understand all of that a lot better with experience. As far as the left leaning viewpoints are concerned, you can change that real quick after she gets to know you. I've changed a lot of women to various degrees.
 

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That article's overstuffed with the sort of baroque logic only found among fellas who begin with words like "I am not a dating coach nor am I selling any dating products or services...", then shortly afterwards writes "...those who want to network in the future please email darrenpua1@gmail.com"

This is the equivalent of Roman Polanski saying "I'm not a pedophile or a rapist... Just a regular guy, who finds beautiful young girls very sexy to look at. BUT, if you're the prudish mother or father of 13 year old, you probably shouldn't allow her to drop my place, unaccompanied, for a photoshoot. Chances of your little girl and I ending up in the jacuzzi together, naked, and me teaching her that her anus has uses other than sh-tting are quite strong" :oops: :mad:
 

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That article's overstuffed with the sort of baroque logic only found among fellas who begin with words like "I am not a dating coach nor am I selling any dating products or services...", then shortly afterwards writes "...those who want to network in the future please email darrenpua1@gmail.com"

This is the equivalent of Roman Polanski saying "I'm not a pedophile or a rapist... Just a regular guy, who finds beautiful young girls very sexy to look at. BUT, if you're the prudish mother or father of 13 year old, you probably shouldn't allow her to drop my place, unaccompanied, for a photoshoot. Chances of your little girl and I ending up in the jacuzzi together, naked, and me teaching her that her anus has uses other than sh-tting are quite strong" :oops: :mad:
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That article's overstuffed with the sort of baroque logic only found among fellas who begin with words like "I am not a dating coach nor am I selling any dating products or services...", then shortly afterwards writes "...those who want to network in the future please email darrenpua1@gmail.com"

This is the equivalent of Roman Polanski saying "I'm not a pedophile or a rapist... Just a regular guy, who finds beautiful young girls very sexy to look at. BUT, if you're the prudish mother or father of 13 year old, you probably shouldn't allow her to drop my place, unaccompanied, for a photoshoot. Chances of your little girl and I ending up in the jacuzzi together, naked, and me teaching her that her anus has uses other than sh-tting are quite strong" :oops: :mad:
don’t sell any products but I have made friends in real life with those who’ve read my blog - some of them have ended up being my wingmen for years hence why I include my email . And yes I’m not a coach and never will be nor have I ever sold anything
 

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Hi Isildur,
"Relationships are Capitalistic."...You nearly made me choke on my Coco-pops!.....Divorce Rates per 1.000:Russia 3.9,China3.2,U.S.2.5.
 

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Hi Isildur,
"Relationships are Capitalistic."...You nearly made me choke on my Coco-pops!.....Divorce Rates per 1.000:Russia 3.9,China3.2,U.S.2.5.
Maybe due to economic inequality people can’t afford to get out of a marriage in the poorer nations? Or there is more social taboo in the countries about marrying someone who’s already been married
 

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You can understand all of that a lot better with experience. As far as the left leaning viewpoints are concerned, you can change that real quick after she gets to know you. I've changed a lot of women to various degrees.
True- as long as the woman has some degree of openness you can impact them well with your own viewpoints
 

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To be fair Britain has been experiencing a historic decline that they are seemingly not going to recover from, at least the normal people anyways
 

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Whilst living in London my entire life I realised how brutally capitalistic relationship dynamics are. Whichever you look at it life is capitalistic and dating has huge inequalities that have gotten wider as a result of technological advances and pure wealth inequality to begin with . Women who are in most senses left leaning in political viewpoints are more capitalistic when it comes to dating than men which I’ll try to argue with this blog post. I don’t think that’s a good thing or a bad thing I think that’s just the thing that men need to understand.
I've always been interested in London. I plan to visit one day to explore the dating opportunities and women environment. Though I have heard it has gotten even more western than before. They say that London was the blueprint for New York after all.

It's not a capitalistic thought. If it was capitalist, men would be in favor in the market. What you are seeing is artificial market propped up by the feminist socialist agenda funded by multiple groups, including your own government.
 

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Maybe due to economic inequality people can’t afford to get out of a marriage in the poorer nations? Or there is more social taboo in the countries about marrying someone who’s already been married
Hi Isildur,
Unless you are suggesting that Folks in the States are poorer than the Russians and Chinese,you would seem to be making a point against yourself?
 

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To be fair Britain has been experiencing a historic decline that they are seemingly not going to recover from, at least the normal people anyways
Hi Capslock,
Imperial glory wont feed you....My Parents lived through a time when Britain was the greatest economic power in the World,it ruled a third of the Worlds People,but its ordinary Folk lived in great poverty....Today they have nothing much to look forward to but a magnificent past...However my Cousin in Scotland tells me he runs a RangeRover on subsidies he gets from NOT growing Potatoes,he calls it Spuddy.
 

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It's always been like this. It's not some new phenomena going around like people want to make it out to be...

As Bob Seager sang in the 70s...

"We weren't in love oh no far from it...
We weren't searching for some pie in the sky summit...
We were just young and restless and bored...
Living by the sword...

And we'd steal away every chance we could.
To the backroom, the alley, the trusty woods...
I used her, she used me, but neither one cared...
We were getting our share"


The difference between then and now is men weren't super simps back then the way they are today and seemingly eager to play the feminine role in relationships.
 
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Hi Isildur,
"Relationships are Capitalistic."...You nearly made me choke on my Coco-pops!.....Divorce Rates per 1.000:Russia 3.9,China3.2,U.S.2.5.
Apologies for bringing up an old term, would that mean that E-EU and E-Asians are more hypergamous?
 

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Hi Chowmein,
Yes,you pose an interesting question....Who can say how hypergamous they are?...Looking at Russia,I would suggest alcoholism plays a large part...Alcohol is certainly not the problem in China,perhaps the large number of People living apart,because of working in different Cities,is partially to blame....What do you think?
 

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Hi Isildur,
Unless you are suggesting that Folks in the States are poorer than the Russians and Chinese,you would seem to be making a point against yourself?
divorce is less Taboo in the West - it's easier for women to get out of a bad situation - places like the Middle East and South East Asia you probably have a lot more men and women staying in relationships that they aren't feeling comfortable in.

however having said that in the south East Asian countries divorce is rocketing up and catching up with the west https://www.ceibs.edu/new-papers-co...ce/marriage,Heilongjiang (averaging over 60%).
 

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Whilst living in London my entire life I realised how brutally capitalistic relationship dynamics are. Whichever you look at it life is capitalistic and dating has huge inequalities that have gotten wider as a result of technological advances and pure wealth inequality to begin with . Women who are in most senses left leaning in political viewpoints are more capitalistic when it comes to dating than men which I’ll try to argue with this blog post. I don’t think that’s a good thing or a bad thing I think that’s just the thing that men need to understand.
I don't know if "capitalistic" is the right word for what you re describing. If women were capitalistic, they would be making smart investments and growing their capital. I rarely see that. Perhaps you mean "opportunistic" or "materialistic".
 

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5.6 per 1,000 up here in the Great [no longer all that] White North.
Hi Bokanovsky,
Canadas divorce rate seems very high indeed....Could it be that your long dark Winters ,force couples together more than elsewhere...Maybe they just get fed up with each other?
 

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As a matter of interest,I checked out divorce rates in Europe,the further North,the higher the divorce rate....you may judge for yourself...
According to the reports, Gov.uk, and World Population Review, the crude divorce rates in Europe are the following:

UK – 1.7.
Germany – 1.7.
Italy – 1.1.
France – 1.9.
Spain – 1.8.
Finland – 2.4.
Sweden – 2.5.
Portugal – 1.7.
 

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Whilst living in London my entire life I realised how brutally capitalistic relationship dynamics are. Whichever you look at it life is capitalistic and dating has huge inequalities that have gotten wider as a result of technological advances and pure wealth inequality to begin with . Women who are in most senses left leaning in political viewpoints are more capitalistic when it comes to dating than men which I’ll try to argue with this blog post. I don’t think that’s a good thing or a bad thing I think that’s just the thing that men need to understand.
This blog post seems to describe desperate losers trying to buy love.

This is not how most relationships work.
 
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