Related to a post of MindOverMatter's...

[Jay-X]

Originally posted by MindOverMatter
I'll explain it better.

The natural progression for this site should be:

1.) AFC comes in asks a question
2.) AFC reads the information
3.) AFC goes out into the field, practices what he's learned by talking and picking up women
4.) AFC becomes DJ
5.) DJ comes back to the site, posts his unique experiances, and what has worked for him, and helps others.

What we have now is:

1.) AFC comes in asks a question
2.) AFC reads the information
3.) AFC stays on sosuave and gives other AFCs advice that's nothing more then sh!t reworded from the bible.

that's what i feel it has been for me, but in a pretty different way.
that's what happened to me:


1.) AFC (in a relationship) comes here and read the Bible
2.) AFC (in a relationship) becomes Wannabe-DJ (in a relationship)
3.) Wannabe-DJ (in a relationship) gets cheated on
4.) Wannabe-DJ (angry at girls) gets approached by a hb8
5.) Wannabe-DJ (now happy again) dates this girl and they become boyfriend and girlfriend. He now loves her after 15 months together
6.) Wannabe-DJ (in a relationship) approaches ladies, but since he's in a relationship, he can't help but cut contacts with them when they seem to be interested
7.) Wannabe-DJ (in a relationship) reads MindOverMatter post and realizes that he will never understand if he's a real Don Juan, since he can't ever fùck-close girls, now that he loves his girlfriend.
8.) Wannabe-DJ scratches his head and asks for suggestion...

 

[MetalFortress]

9) Wannabe-DJ must use this progression to decide what is more important - his relationship, or experimentation. Nobody's going to kill you if you're not trying to become a PUA, and if you are happier with your girlfriend instead, more power to you. You might even get to the point where you give a lot of relationship advice.

 

[Jay-X]

Originally posted by MetalFortress
9) Wannabe-DJ must use this progression to decide what is more important - his relationship, or experimentation. Nobody's going to kill you if you're not trying to become a PUA, and if you are happier with your girlfriend instead, more power to you. You might even get to the point where you give a lot of relationship advice.

that's good advice, man. but i seem not to be able to decide which is more important... i love my girlfriend, but i also love girls in general...

 

[Tomb]

Mindovermatter is right though. This forum is filled with too many AFCs giving advice to other AFCs. The true DJ gurus are the thing of the past. Truly sad state.