rejections u cant stop

[V0rt3x]

There are some rejections when a girl is IN A REAL BAD MOOD no pickup line - i mean nothing will stop. Not even don Juan DeMarco could pass this one.

Originally posted by al77
I believe the opener for a moving target should be more aggresive, simple " Excuse me... Those are nice boots\sandals.. where did you get that?"

I tried that on at a mall, and the reply was: "Why the **** you care?! Are your prevert so you want women shoes to wear!!!" I got out of that one pretty easily - "Nope I have a g/f which I really care about so I wanted to buy her the best thing around, but I guess those arent the best cuz for the best you have to have some taste and style..." I know it isnt a really great turn on but at least it freed me from embarassment of being a prevert... Should've I done something else?
One way or another some granny aproches me about a min after and hits me with her bag and says prevert! Now it looked to other people like I was pickin up old ladies so i lost my self outa there. You can call me a newbie -- but do all rejections come in so painful way??? If they do -- OUCH!

 

[So pimp its scary]

You've probably tasted one of the worst rejections that you are going to come across.

Personally, when the woman said 'why the **** do you care, are you some sort of pervert?' I would have retorted with 'Wow... do you try and bite the head off anyone that tries to say that you have good taste? Shyt, I try to find a nice gift for my girlfriend, and you get that insulted... how about you try and find out what someones about before you call them a pervert... get out of my sight."

The best way to go at it when a woman goes on the offensive is to go on the offense as well. Backing down is equivalent to admitting it.

The best thing to do is to chalk this up as the woman having a rough day getting approached at the wrong time... but at the same time, take a look at your body language and facial expressions... and stop hitting on the retired women like that.

 

[V0rt3x]

Thanks...

Originally posted by So pimp its scary
and stop hitting on the retired women like that.

Hey I didnt hit her! She hit me with her purse! It didnt really hurt but i couldnt look in other peoples faces cuz i was so ashame... I guess its no good for my selfconfidence! Especiallly not in the first day of bc

But at least now i can laugh :crackup: hell that musted have looked funny to other people nearby :crackup:

 

[IRONMAN22]

reply to vort

okay heres the deal..... you sound like a god damn symp buddy, you dont just walk up to any random broad and say that, put yourself in her shoes and imagine how you sound.

#1 I definetly cant stress this enough, girls are human beings just like you and me okay?

#2 she probably doesnt respect you for this reason also, i hear you have an IQ of 190 or asome ****, do you look like a nerd? I doubt any fine broad would respect you there.

#3 you need to figure out if shes interested to begin with, look into her eyes, if she continually glances back, hold youjre look at her and smile *****es, youve got her, if not chances are you dont, forget it move on.

#4 your environment, this mightve been a very stupid situation to get yourself into, look for the right type of environment to get into a great situation...

man if youre that smart you can easily figure this **** out.. man Im 16 and hookin up with 19-21 yr old 10's fine ass broads, I dont have much of an IQ either, brother I just dont give up.

my s/n.... JGonzalez2108 if you need ANY help at all, and this goes for everyone, get a hold of me, me myself coming up from ****..

 

[animal crackers]

I think you're lying. That shlt doesn't happen man.

 

[V0rt3x]

1.)Yes my IQ is 189 but why do **** you or anyone else cares for that??? Yours IQ is the smallest thing which could get you a chick - right?

2.)No I dont look like a nerd, ok maybe I do but then almost everyone around are nerds.... I dont wear glasses, I'm wearing casual skate clothes (yes Im a skater), I have muscles because I work out plus I swim 2 of 2.5 months of holidays so you say if Im a nerd, your call...

3.)Yes it was a good situtation, maybe girl was just teasing but she looked at me, I made eye contact and smiled then I approched and everything was ok, until she spoke. My guess is: she had a bad day and needed a guy to blame for everything... I'm no pro, I'm still in dj bc, but I wanted to try how is it in DJs skin (weird moments of my bravery) Maybe I did something wrong or

4.)**** happen....


p.s.
Don't worry, I dont quit so easily -- I knew I won't made it but just wanted to have some fun... :crackup: and hell it was :crackup:

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by V0rt3x
There are some rejections when a girl is IN A REAL BAD MOOD no pickup line - i mean nothing will stop. Not even don Juan DeMarco could pass this one.

Originally posted by al77
I believe the opener for a moving target should be more aggresive, simple " Excuse me... Those are nice boots\sandals.. where did you get that?"

I tried that on at a mall, and the reply was: "Why the **** you care?! Are your prevert so you want women shoes to wear!!!" I got out of that one pretty easily - "Nope I have a g/f which I really care about so I wanted to buy her the best thing around, but I guess those arent the best cuz for the best you have to have some taste and style..." I know it isnt a really great turn on but at least it freed me from embarassment of being a prevert... Should've I done something else?
One way or another some granny aproches me about a min after and hits me with her bag and says prevert! Now it looked to other people like I was pickin up old ladies so i lost my self outa there. You can call me a newbie -- but do all rejections come in so painful way??? If they do -- OUCH!

I can't keep stressing enough to you guys the need to qualify women. You may think that there wasn't a chance to qualify this woman but think again. Guys, qualifying also included determining whether a woman is approachable! Even if you determine she isn't approachable but yet you are gung-ho in making the approach anyway, adjust your approach to not put her in a defensive mode.

Personally, I categorize 'moving targets' along with women working out in health clubs. Basically if they are busy doing their thing, your approach will be considered an annoying intrusion.

The only exception I've found to this is if she not only notices you but also receptively acknowledges your presence. At that point you have a bit of an invitation to engage her But again this means that you must qualify her as a woman that is receptive to your approach.

 

[IRONMAN22]

to francsico and animal crackers

#1 to animal crackers- buddy I dont lie, Im str8 pimp game, Ive studied this **** and obviously, if youve read my posts, I know what Im talking about, I know I look good and I know what broads are looking for...

for example, Ill give you my overal style, and remember, I know Im class A with this **** so dont question my work, like Ive said to ppl before. I know anything is possible, brother, or animal crackers or w/e, I knwo you have a low self-esteem, b/c my other pimps congrat me on my work not try and put me out outve jealousy.

I look around, if I see any broad thats eyeing me, I know shes mine, Ill hold her look, either she will jock me (I.E.... come closer) Ill say hi, then if Im interested, and I know she is too Ill say something like, damn girl youre so cute, you wanna get to know eachother, better... ect. ect. ect..... I think you get the point, as for right now, Im dating a 20 yr old, and a 19 yr old, both beautiful, but the one I just told you about IS GORGEOUS, messy long black hair, brown eyes, perrfect smile, and tanned hott body..... by the way I do look about 19 lol... but hey they havent asked haha.

okay... and francsisco? man no offense, but you sound like a scientist or some **** man, like I said no offense, but, just keep it simple, if you treat these broads like theyre some mysterious thing thats damn near impossible to figure out... man almost none of your don juans will get anywhere... Im just being quaint you know, just a bit of advice.

vort keep trying, work on your looks, you NEED a boost of confidence, you wanna be lookin like a hott stud to them, like they are to you, I can explain more later... but like I said =if anyone needs help... my s/n is JGonzalez2108

 

[V0rt3x]

alll right if you whant to help someone -- help me! What account should i pm?

 

[IRONMAN22]

vort

Ill gladly help you out, I think I get your situation here, and I can tell that youre willing to learn, um I have AIM though, whats PM? remember though Itll could be a long tough road, so dont give up.. and do me a favor and dont think too hard k smarty pants lol...

 

[V0rt3x]

lol im not thinkin too smart - in fact i know to get a chick you dont have to be a genius, all you need is body and confidence... pm is private message - which you disabled so i can send it to you but nevermind... I started a new thread Vortex = Don Juan DeMarco, bc so ill post in future there so just plz reply

 

[So pimp its scary]

Vortex, I'm also one of few people that actually knows their shyt (for the most part)... I'm not the greatest of the macks, but I still pull my fair share.

I'd be willing to offer my help in anyway that I can, all it takes is a pm.

 

[Freddy1]

Originally posted by V0rt3x

I tried that on at a mall, and the reply was: "Why the **** you care?! Are your prevert so you want women shoes to wear!!!" I got out of that one pretty easily - "Nope I have a g/f which I really care about so I wanted to buy her the best thing around, but I guess those arent the best cuz for the best you have to have some taste and style..." I know it isnt a really great turn on but at least it freed me from

Hey dude its still a great line!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: to francsico and animal crackers

Originally posted by IRONMAN22
[Bokay... and francsisco? man no offense, but you sound like a scientist or some **** man, like I said no offense, but, just keep it simple, if you treat these broads like theyre some mysterious thing thats damn near impossible to figure out... man almost none of your don juans will get anywhere... Im just being quaint you know, just a bit of advice.[/B]

No offence taken. However understand that unless guys understand what motivates and attracts people, they will continue to flounder. And although it may not be science, it is psychology.

 

[fender2007]

Damn dude it sounds like you ran into a real dumb *****.

all I can say is dont give up.