reformed christian women

[backbreaker]

I think it's warrior that says this about reformed christian woman finding jesus after they have gave up on everything else.

what has always irked me about these women is that, most of the time it's false. they found god after everyone else has given up on them. they don't have a choice at that point. then they turn around and use that newfound belief as a blank check to get you to do things that you would not otherwise do and forgive them for past transgressions.


There is this woman I'm doing some non profit work for. Now, in this regard, there is zero doubt in my mind that she is genuine. that's not my beef with her. the non profit in question that she is trying to get off the ground I do believe that she really believes in. but she just found god like 2 years ago and now she wears her religion on her sleeve. she isn't an ugly woman but not what i would call hot. early 40's. she's been down through there. drugs, prison, prostitution, the whole bit. Anyway she needed some help and reached out to me specifically and I helped.


She's always wearing her religion on her sleeve and stuff which I mean if that's your thing that's cool but... okay last week she wanted t o show me some changes she wanted to have made to the stuff i was going for her and i was like okay i can meet you at starbucks and she was like no that's fine you can come to my house and i can show you :nervous: I didn't want to make an awkard situtation any worse so i call my wife just to give her a heads up and let her know what's about to happen my wife knows this chick, ro at least has seen her and knows she is under no danger of me doing anything that i should not be doing, but still that's just the thing to do when you are married

so i get there and she's tryhing to find reasons for me to stay and **** and i basically have to be rude and just leave. I mean i'm a married man. I want to help your non profit and all but come no don't put me in that postion


and ever since then now she be texting me and **** calling me her boo :crackup: :nervous: she calls me like everyday now lol. My wife thinks it's funny. she told me at the beginning "backbreaker this girl wants to fvck you i'm teling you" and i was like look babe you are wrong this girl is hardcore christian she isn't like that. my wife had her pegged dead to rights. One thing I like about my wife is that she at times knows she's right about something and will let me eventually come around to that conclusion myself without being a ***** about it. she had this one nailed and I honestly didn't see it.

now that i'm done she's hell bent on cooking me an authentic mexican dinner (she's mexican) and like this broad won't take no for an answer. so today everything came to a head, i had to drop something off at the church she works at (seriously this broad is hard core) and we were like the only 2 people there and she wanted me to follow her to her house, i was like for what lol she was like you will see when you get there lol. at this point i had to draw the line i was like look babe i see where this is going and i dont mind helping you but i'm happily married. **** you've met my wife. and even now she like is looking for reasons for me to come back over her house. like damn woman starbucks do you go there.


what really irks me about this entire ordeal is that hypnotically speaking if i had slept with her, she would have said that was the devil doing that, and any new sap that was interested in her would have to deal with it no questions asked because that's what good Christians do. it's like a licence to *****


these women are all christian and **** until they get the inkling that they can get waht hey want then all inhibitions are gone to the wind.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Bsquared,
You are what we Aussies call a bluddy good bloke!

 

[Alvafe]

religion, most people turn to it when they are desperate enough and want anything to hold they sanity in place, also most people do it when they did several things they feel shamed in doing so, so they use that as a nice excuse for the before and after I found jesus (or anything they preach), simple put saying the religious kind are pure is most of time wrong, how many historys I could tell of woman who cheated they husband (since well, most of then don't do sex before marriage) or even she did maried a virgin (technically that is her back is well used and her hub will never use that).

TLDR, don't trust in religious kind, most of time they are too ignorant to think for thenselfs or are weak and need a excuse to be a good person or still need to find they will be rewarded by doing what they do now.

 

[corrector]

I don't think it's fair to evaluate Christianity, or "finding Jesus" based on the testimony of this one woman, if there has been otherwise other improvements in her life. (i.e. she has given up drugs, prostituion, or whatever she was doing before, which means that Christianity has has a net positive effect on her life.) So, if that has worked for her and lead her to a better lifestyle where she's more constructive to her community then why fault Christianity.

The problems is sometimes the demons associated with a past lifestyle doesn't go away. Also, it depends on how strict the church she is going to is. I doubt she is going to Harvest Bible Chapel, or a renoun church known for putting it's members under the microscope.


Any new sap meeting her doesn't have to date her or take her seriously if she has a serious character flaw like that. If you don't like someone's past you dump her. I don't think she'll find a man willing to marry her if she's busy sleeping with other men's wives, and she'll eventually get a bad rep in that church if she starts approaching other member's husbands like she did with you.

So, how does this women dress or conduct herself? Is she like dressed conservatively? What did she do in her past? Did she ride the c0ck carosel then repent and give her life to Christ? Does she tell other people about Jesus, how real He is to her, and what He has done in her life? Was she concerned about your soul and try to lead you to know Jesus yourself? Is she passionate about Jesus, if not, what is she passionate about?

These are questions I'd ask about how a genuine Christian, dealing with an unbeliever would be behaving. Now you are saying she's hardcore. I'd be curious to seeing how "hardcore" she is since people can play church and have church as a social club, or "spiritual entertainment", but it doesn't mean they are really "hardcore" since Christianity is a personal walk with Jesus.

 

[betheman]

I used to be a born again christian...until I realised what hypocritical sh!ts the majority of them are. pension plans, investment portfolios, big new cars, two homes...'it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than it is for a rich man to enter heaven'!!!
anyway, the women....one guy, two daughters, this guy was the real deal, a real scholar of the bible and he was genuinley devout, as was his wife, lots of good works, sacrificing time effort and money, she had the hots for me and it was me who backed off, I was married too. their 2 daughters, eldest at the time, 18, sneaking her boyfirend into her tent late at night at camp, I was watching our two kids so I was able to witness this.
another woman, just separated, I did some decorating for her, kids at school, Im painting her hall wall, turned around to see her putting her stockings on through the wide open door, I got the look....i turned and carried on painting.
women are women, the reigious stuff is usually bluff, not always but im pretty certain the majority of the time it is

 

[Die Hard]

I can see how you are greatly disturbed by this woman's behavior. What she did to you was incredibly rude and unacceptable!
How lucky you are to have this message board so you can express your frustration about this horrible woman and the terrible things she did...

And I'm suuuure that this story of yours is ONLY meant to discuss the habits of reformed Christian women. The fact that this story also displays how single women are trying to get you in their bed must just be a coincidence, right?

 

[backbreaker]

I used to be a born again christian...until I realised what hypocritical sh!ts the majority of them are. pension plans, investment portfolios, big new cars, two homes...'it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than it is for a rich man to enter heaven'!!!
anyway, the women....one guy, two daughters, this guy was the real deal, a real scholar of the bible and he was genuinley devout, as was his wife, lots of good works, sacrificing time effort and money, she had the hots for me and it was me who backed off, I was married too. their 2 daughters, eldest at the time, 18, sneaking her boyfirend into her tent late at night at camp, I was watching our two kids so I was able to witness this.
another woman, just separated, I did some decorating for her, kids at school, Im painting her hall wall, turned around to see her putting her stockings on through the wide open door, I got the look....i turned and carried on painting.
women are women, the reigious stuff is usually bluff, not always but im pretty certain the majority of the time it is

Die hard if i wanted to make a post about every time a single chick was trying to get at me we'd need a new sub forum.

I just left the store not 20 minutes ago and this girl that was probably a hb7 looks at me and then as she's walking by she is still looking at me and smiling. this is everyday ****. me getting hit on by cute women is not even noteworthy anymore. this woman the OP isn't even cute she's probably a hb4-5.

no this woman's behavior to me is quite disturbing because she's making a mockery of Christianity and while i'm not a christian, i have enough for respect for the religion and those who actually truly do believe the stuff, to let pretenders like this get away playing the jesus card

it's like how can i put this into words... okay god delivered you from drug addition and prostitution. and you repay him by hitting on married men lol. At that point what point does god have to keep his end of the bargin? If you can't live by his rules and regulations.

then when that woman has bad **** happen to her, she gets pissy when god doesn't deliver her again.

MY big gripe with religion is that it absolves personal responsibility for ones own actions

IF i were god and i delivered some girl from this stuff with the promise that she was going to spread my word to other people and live by my rules and this is how you repay me? i'd be pretty pissed if i were god.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear All,
Christianity may be all the things many here think of it....I had a profoundly transforming experience when my Son had terminal Leukemia...He was given 3months...I contacted a friends healing group,after that It was like being a leaf in a stream,things just happened.....He was miraculously cured,eleven years later he is doing Pentathlons again...After that I thought I would change my life around,joined two Religious groups...Yes there are a lot of hypocrites there,others are "Knife and Forkers",it's a cargo cult for some,an insurance policy for others,a Social Club for most,but if you look around there are many profoundly decent people...This Friend of B Squareds,is getting something from it,so good for her and well done,this little welcoming group!

 

[dasein]

Modern Christianity suits the nature of women perfectly. Infinite acceptance, 0 accountability as long as you "believe" and ask for forgiveness, constant sentimentality supply in the guise of "religious love." And for the atheists, there's the church of feminism, another religion women flock to. All women are institutionally religious by nature, 95% anyway, in one or more ways. Few men are.

Any masculinity in the church has been stripped away over the years. They'd all be running for the doors in an old style "sinners in the hands of an angry god" sermon.

 

[dashiznick]

Christians are bad because this kind of **** NEVER happens in the secular community. Deerrrrpppppppppp.

 

[Atom Smasher]

In this world we have true Christians, those who have submitted themselves to Christ and although flawed, still endeavor to honor Him with obedience, and then we have nominal Christians, which are "Christian" in name only.

These are the people who run around declaring their allegiance to Christ when in fact they are far from Him.

When someone calls themselves a Christian, they need to display the actions and lifestyle that reflects this as fact. It is a severe mistake to consider a person a Christian just because they say they are. When you do that, you open yourself up to the illusion that true followers of Christ are hypocrites. This is flawed logic based upon a flawed premise.

Every single Christian fails and sins occasionally. But what they don't do is destroy marriages and live promiscuously.

The Crusaders called themselves Christians and went out on murderous rampages into the Middle East. The Catholic church called themselves Christians and rampaged through much of Europe with their inquisitions, torturing and murdering massive numbers of people.

Beware the flawed logic of believing that just because someone identifies themselves as a Christian, that they truly are.

"16 Do men gather grapes from thornbushes or figs from thistles? 17 Even so, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. 18 A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit. 19 Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. 20 Therefore by their fruits you will know them.
Jesus speaking in Matt. 7

 

[LiveFreeX]

Something about being married attracts women like flies to sh1t and you don't even have to tell them, they just know you are. I get hit on like crazy now and it rarely happened to me before I got married.

That said, I just wanted to add that there was a porn star Sky Lopez, who after her porn career dried up, she suddenly became a born again. What a load of crap.

I can't imagine a woman's justification for being in porn. I think its just another way for her to TRY to gain access to successful men who have a good moral compass...

Wow Atom did jesus say that? Jesus must have been a pro... I don't think we give the middle ages enough credit.

Dear All,
Christianity may be all the things many here think of it....I had a profoundly transforming experience when my Son had terminal Leukemia...He was given 3months...I contacted a friends healing group,after that It was like being a leaf in a stream,things just happened.....He was miraculously cured,eleven years later he is doing Pentathlons again...

Scaramouche: My wife was begging her dad for help there this week when I was convulsing on the hospital bed. I'm pretty sure I should have died. Her father is dead btw. I believe there is something to all this stuff aswell.

 

[Warrior74]

Skanktified - a former skank or slut who finds jesus and occasionally slips and falls on random cawks followed by periods of repentance and asking for forgiveness.

 

[backbreaker]

I have a funny update.

Okay as i stated in the original post she is starting a non profit. We had made plans today.. Sunday.. to meet up and i can show her how to file the correct paperwork for what she needs to do and some other things. It's a sunday, i would love nothing more than to sit at home with my son and my wife and eat a good dinner and watch the finle of breaking bad and some football today, but you know sometimes you got to do **** you don't want to do in life

anyway we wer supposed to meat up at 1pm at starbucks. Okay I get there. she's not there. i text her, doesn't answer. I wait about 20 mins and i go back home. you've wasted my time on a sunday. I don't get irrate I dont' get mad I just leave and go back home.

so about 1 hour later she texts me and ask me can i meet up with her and I told her i was there at 1, she wasn't, and i feel disrespected . so then she goes into this **** mode and tells me now she doesn't need me hlep and her son was in the hositpial (bull****).

I'm like okay but if your son was in the hospital you could have at the very least sent me a call and told me to hold off on coming. you let me get my car, drive all the way to your ****ty part of town to met you at starbucks and you weren't even there when you knew you weren't going to be there and now you want me to feel bad for you? b!tch please lol. i'm not the one. Then she has the nerve to ask me to come BACK over there.

I am so amazed by most people's lack of professionalism that at times I wonder am I the one in the wrong. Maybe I need to be more lenient and understand that most people aren't as militant and punctual as I am. IF I tell you i'm going to do something, it's as good as done. But the way I see it, that's how I weed out people with ****ty character.


If my son was in the hospital and i had arrangements with anyone i would call and cancel them, but then again I'm respectful of other people's time.



and yes livefree that was jesus speaking preaching to the masses a few weeks/ months before he was crucified.

 

[Atom Smasher]

There you go. This is not a Christian woman, but rather a woman who calls herself a "Christian".

I find that very few women have even an inkling of what professional respect is. I just had to fire a client by calling her out for being disloyal by consulting with other consultants behind my back. She of course was shocked that I told her I didn't appreciate her disloyalty and then actually terminated my business relationship with her.

Women are finally starting to discover that there will be consequences to their actions, at least when they're dealing with men of backbone.

 

[backbreaker]

my post was in no way a rant against Christians or Christianity. I just hate women, and men for that matter, who use religion to absolve themselves of personal responsibility

I don' teven have a problem with people who have truly reformed. one of my female associates is like this but the difference is you can tell she is genuine and more so she acts like it on a daily basis.

going to church and passing out canned goods and carrying a bible isn't going to in itself make up for the wrongs in your life. and women that think it is, piss me off.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I agree with you 100% on all counts.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Somebody needs to get rid of the confession booth. What a load a sh1t that thing is. You are not forgiven or absolved for anything you do in life. They need to start telling people, things you do in life are PERMANENT.

 

[Ballie57]

I was involved with a "Christian" self righteous b*tch from hell - who had an affair with the local pastor. They condemned me as "that loser alky"

I am now a born again Jew - the Old Testament kicks ass. God had a son Jesus, yes I believe that and also the holy Spirit. I have no time for the new Testament preached by the feminist pastors who condemn me.

Just read Proverbs and believe and live in the ten commandments. My hero is King David.

 

[TheGambino]

Lol, yee christian girls…

I was busy with this religious chick, shes all proper, tells me jesus is her father and thats shes all good. Last week I went to a café and bumped into her. She was dancing with her also religious friend like a slut surrounded by guys who were paying their drinks.