Reflection----> any advice appreciated

someperson1987

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Hi (feel free to comment)
Well, in four months or so high school is pretty much forever. I still not sure whether thats good or bad.

In Four Year

Looking back, I wish i had more guts. I found this web site two years ago but i hardly learnt anything.

In high school i didn't really have much confidence. I read alot of articles in my spare time but really didn't extract anything.
I'm not even sure why my confidence was so low. I was top of the class and quite good looking (for some reason thats rare usually at my school ). Maybe i was just too shy so i didn't really make alot friends.

Each time I met a girl i thought the exact same thing "how could a girl that pretty actually fall for me." I always thought that i didn't have enough status, i didn't have enough friend and that she might be ashamed if anyone saw us together. So hence i never really made any move. As a result, we became distanted (sigh same thing for more than a million times) and then became strangers.

Moral

I guess the moral of the story is: never ask the question i did. I thought i didn't have enough friends and hence i wasn't worthy of any girl (how dumb :S).

For those still in high school for a while, i'll tell you to stop thinking and just do it. Over analyzing kills you.I wish i had a time machine (but i dont). Stop asking does she like you or "would a girl like that actually find you attractive." Sigh i wish i never asked that question.

What Now

But hey you know, I'll never do that again and you just live and learn. I still got four years of school ahead at least so its not too late.

Sorry for big long speech, i just had to vent that out. But hey any comments is good.
 
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dastal

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yeah

I guess thats why the stupidest people always have a girl around them... they dont think about it at all.
 

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nice advice
 

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you will begin to get more confidence by meeting people personally. this site helps give you knowledge about women before you approach someone.

be natural about it, be calm and relax. the world isn't hard if you take it easy. the world speaking the people.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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