I often see "red flags" that say a girl is a pump and dump is not a keeper. Please post things/behaviors you feel are signs and discuss whether you agree or disagree with these signs.
1) Girl has a lot of male friends
I believe this to be a bad sign. Usually they are insecure and/or an attention wh***. They may not even be interested in the other guys but there are too many headaches with a girl like this, no matter if it is intentional or just her being naive.
2) Girl has no female friends
The theory here is that girls can see through the girl and don't want anythingt do with her. I don't exactly agree with this one. Many girls will be jealous of a hot girl and call her things or judge her behaviors solely out of jealous. Plus, some girls can be introverts or shy.
3) Drinks a lot/Does drugs
Depends on who you are, but this is an absolute DQ for me. Drinking a lot can lead to mistakes or unleash hidden desires that will eventually screw up the relationship.
4) She is in debt
Obvious, makes poor decisions. How many credit cards does she have? Current balance and interests on them?
5) Treats people with disrespect
Again, who is to say she won't treat you with disrespect once she "has" you? This can include putting others down to their face or behind thier backs
6) Fat/Bad Eating Habits/Not into exercise
If she's fat, chances are she won't get thin. If she's thin with bad eating habits or doesn't exercise, she'll eventually get fat, and if you have kids, they will pick up the same habits.
7) Does she cook/Clean at least as much as you?
If she eats out a lot, it's a bad sign. If her place is a mess, it's a bad sign.
8) Does she need to borrow a lot of money from parents/friends/you?
Again, bad decision making. Everyone goes through bad times and needs help, I'm talking about consistent behavior here.
9) Is she clingy?
If she calls too much and wastes your time, you'll probably be sick of it in a few months.
10) No sex
If she's not having sex with you, you're "safe" as a boyfriend but she's not attracted to you in bed. If you are having sex very often, it probably won't get better than you have it now.
What do you guys think of these? Do you have some of your own?
1) Girl has a lot of male friends
I believe this to be a bad sign. Usually they are insecure and/or an attention wh***. They may not even be interested in the other guys but there are too many headaches with a girl like this, no matter if it is intentional or just her being naive.
2) Girl has no female friends
The theory here is that girls can see through the girl and don't want anythingt do with her. I don't exactly agree with this one. Many girls will be jealous of a hot girl and call her things or judge her behaviors solely out of jealous. Plus, some girls can be introverts or shy.
3) Drinks a lot/Does drugs
Depends on who you are, but this is an absolute DQ for me. Drinking a lot can lead to mistakes or unleash hidden desires that will eventually screw up the relationship.
4) She is in debt
Obvious, makes poor decisions. How many credit cards does she have? Current balance and interests on them?
5) Treats people with disrespect
Again, who is to say she won't treat you with disrespect once she "has" you? This can include putting others down to their face or behind thier backs
6) Fat/Bad Eating Habits/Not into exercise
If she's fat, chances are she won't get thin. If she's thin with bad eating habits or doesn't exercise, she'll eventually get fat, and if you have kids, they will pick up the same habits.
7) Does she cook/Clean at least as much as you?
If she eats out a lot, it's a bad sign. If her place is a mess, it's a bad sign.
8) Does she need to borrow a lot of money from parents/friends/you?
Again, bad decision making. Everyone goes through bad times and needs help, I'm talking about consistent behavior here.
9) Is she clingy?
If she calls too much and wastes your time, you'll probably be sick of it in a few months.
10) No sex
If she's not having sex with you, you're "safe" as a boyfriend but she's not attracted to you in bed. If you are having sex very often, it probably won't get better than you have it now.
What do you guys think of these? Do you have some of your own?
Do YOU even have an IQ of 130? How do you even know the IQ of people you talk to? Are you aware that 110-130 is still reasonably intelligent and 100-110 is average?