Red Flag?

HGKnights

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I've been doing the whole online dating thing for the last couple of months, and I had been messaging this one girl back and forth a bit, well, I asked if she wanted to get drinks, it went like this...

Me : Anyways, would you be down to get a drink or something one of these days?

Her: Sure I come back on the 8th

Me: sounds good! I'll message you next week.

Her: K or whenever

Anyways, Like I stated on there, I messaged her the following week.

Me: how does Wednesday sound?

Her: Can't have court


Now perhaps it could just be for a driving ticket, but if she couldn't go out in the evening because of it, and I've never been to traffic court later than 1PM.

I don't know if it's for something more serious than just a driving ticket, and that I should really be concerned about.

Should I not worry and try for another date, should I ask her what her court date is for, or should I just say forget it and next her?

Thoughts?
 
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A woman with a court appearance? That would be enough to put me off. :D
 

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I had a very similar thing with a woman from match.

I asked her 3 times and each time she was juggling kids and work but no counter offer. She texted 3 days later to ask (only) how things are going...

I had already nexted her.

No counter offer = next!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

HGKnights

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ah, a night to sleep on it and the replies to this post confirmed exactly how I felt about the situation.

Next *****es!
 
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